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    I'm so done with dating!!

    "I'm so done with dating!!", is what an old friend of mine posted as his facebook status a few days ago.

    All his guy friends posted joking responses like, "so you admit you are gay",etc...

    All the women posted, "don't worry the right one is out there for you"

    Are women really that caught up in that sort of Disney romance BS? Or do they just want to keep you on the plantation?

    I don't think he's ready for the red-pill yet (despite being divorce raped by a crazy ex-wife). Why are men so ever hopeful that there exist some great woman out there for them?

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    There are many men in the western world who feel what he feels and who are marginalized and made fun of for it. All the usual comments: "ha, gay!", "incel!", "loser!", "learn some game!", or "just wait!", "just be yourself!", "she's out there!", "not all women are like that!" How much will they take before they realize it will never happen? Less and less, because the game is changing. Men are standing up.
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    But lay you down in chains.

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    One of the main reasons men give up on dating is because women are so indecisive. You have to live your life and HER life at the same time. Is like you are dating a child.

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    The reason women default to the "you just haven't found the right one" pile of steaming, corn speckled excrement is to deflect guilt and blame from women. Women think like ranks of chickens in the farms where KFC receives its stock. One man giving up deprives some woman somewhere of protection and provision and they can't have that. When women say this they do it to shift blame onto you and also use it to exploit your nature to persevere for their benefit. It is a thinly veiled shame tactic.

    The guys who shame are the ones who were successfully converted to this:

    Isaiah 4:1 (KJV)
    And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.


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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    the gay thing doesn't bother me as much as those guys are the single guys who say they just haven't found the right girl yet.

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    Quote Originally Posted by wayn View Post
    Are women really that caught up in that sort of Disney romance BS? Or do they just want to keep you on the plantation?
    I think it's a combination of both. 'Love' is heavily marketed, especially towards women (like most things). It's in movies, books, TV shows, music.....the concept of ideal romantic love is all over the place. Much like a woman might believe a new handbag will make her look like a supermodel, they also believe that going through the motions of 'love' will make them a happy little princess for the rest of their lives. The ladies are heavily influenced by all 'feel good' marketing.

    "If you want to be happy, then buy this...."
    "If you want to feel great, then buy this....."
    "If you want to lose weight, then buy this..."
    "If you want to look attractive, then buy this...."
    "If you want to make your friends jealous, then buy this...."



    Women: "OKAY!"



    EDIT: On a related note, I used to sell cell phones in the mall. I knew every technical detail about every phone the store sold. But for whatever reason, I would always lose the sale when dealing with female customers. After doing some research, I decided to ditch all mention of technical details when dealing with females and focus on how 'cool' the phone looks, how popular that particular model is, and how good it will feel to have a new cell. I was stunned at how easily they took the bait. You could sell a homeless man's pubic hair to a woman if she's convinced that it'll make her feel good in some way.
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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    The worst one is when a woman tells you that " you are not trying hard enough".

    This implies that only a man can carry a relationship and a woman has no agency or control of her actions. Well...I am not interested in carrying a grown adult that can't carry their own weight. If that means I am not "trying hard enough" well then good. It makes my damn happy to work hard sipping on my beer on a Saturday evening and watching the sunset.

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    Quote Originally Posted by wool.wizard View Post
    the gay thing doesn't bother me as much as those guys are the single guys who say they just haven't found the right girl yet.
    I still prefer to think that there's someone suitable for me out there somewhere, but, at my age, the probability of that is asymptotically approaching zero. If such a woman exists, she's going to have to find me because I've stopped looking a long time ago.
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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    The worst one is when a woman tells you that " you are not trying hard enough".

    This implies that only a man can carry a relationship and a woman has no agency or control of her actions. Well...I am not interested in carrying a grown adult that can't carry their own weight. If that means I am not "trying hard enough" well then good. It makes my damn happy to work hard sipping on my beer on a Saturday evening and watching the sunset.
    Worse than that is when he puts in all the effort, she contributes nothing and, when things don't suit her, she finds someone "better". Sorry, ladies, but if I'm investing my money and effort into something, I want some return on it.
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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    Quote Originally Posted by wayn View Post
    "I'm so done with dating!!", is what an old friend of mine posted as his facebook status a few days ago.

    All his guy friends posted joking responses like, "so you admit you are gay",etc...

    All the women posted, "don't worry the right one is out there for you"

    Are women really that caught up in that sort of Disney romance BS? Or do they just want to keep you on the plantation?

    I don't think he's ready for the red-pill yet (despite being divorce raped by a crazy ex-wife). Why are men so ever hopeful that there exist some great woman out there for them?
    Of course, if one offers a legitimate explanation, people think those are only excuses or fibs meant to disguise something sinister.
    "A man has to be what he is, Joey. Can't break the mould. I tried it and it didn't work for me." Alan Ladd, Shane

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    So many guys just don't know any better. Their identity is built around social acceptance via having a woman in their life in any manner necessary. They're seeking validation from both women and men.

    The aspect of women telling some guy to 'keep trying' (to find the one), is that as he is the one putting in the actual effort, perhaps he'll lower his standards and accept more bullshit as time passes. He loses out thinking he's being too rigid and willingly accepts more complications in his life (failing shit test after shit test) just to have a woman present, and team woman laughs all the way to the divorce with the house, the kids, and support payments.

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Quarter Wave Vertical View Post
    I still prefer to think that there's someone suitable for me out there somewhere, but, at my age, the probability of that is asymptotically approaching zero. If such a woman exists, she's going to have to find me because I've stopped looking a long time ago.
    I used to think that. Now I just figure she was aborted. Keeps me from bothering to look.
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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    The worst one is when a woman tells you that " you are not trying hard enough".

    This implies that only a man can carry a relationship and a woman has no agency or control of her actions. Well...I am not interested in carrying a grown adult that can't carry their own weight. If that means I am not "trying hard enough" well then good. It makes my damn happy to work hard sipping on my beer on a Saturday evening and watching the sunset.
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    No thanks, I grind my own organ.

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    I don't believe in finding that "one" right woman. Truthfully there are a lot of women I can get along with and be in a successful relationship with. I also believe that any one of us can find such a woman that we can get along with, it may take time but it can be done. However dating or finding that woman is not the real problem. The real problem is what happens with that woman at a later date and time. Can I predict that she will cheat on me 2 years into the relationship or 4 years after we are married? Nope I sure can't predict that. If she does cheat can I predict if she is going to take everything I have in family court? Hell I can't even predict if she just gets up one day and files and claims domestic violence or rape to get me arrested. So it is not about the woman sitting in front of you right now, it is who that person will be 2 years, 5 years, 10 years later that is the unknown.

    A friend of mine always made the comment "You'll find a nice woman someday that will make you happy". I always retort with "why do you think my happiness depends on a woman or any other person". Now that I am seeing a woman that so far looks like an NWALT (I'll say NWALT as in today) then my friend keeps telling me "well don't shy away from marriage, you don't want to let this woman get away". Once again I roll my eyes and say "If she requires getting married or even living with me to stay with me, then she is better off with someone else". Most people have this concept in their heads that in order to be complete you have to have a woman at your side and/or married to them. Usually these are the same people that ignore the extreme risks that a guy takes on when he enters into this kind of situation. Everyone takes risks in life, however these are calculated risks that have a payoff. Skydiving is a risky activity, however that skydiver feels the rewards are worth the risk. However with marriage most men do not even fully consider all that he is risking, it is like having blinders on. You might say it is like jumping out of a plane and not bothering to check if you grabbed a chute or if you grabbed the first aid kit instead.

    Now of course no one wants to hide in a basement because of being afraid to take a risk. The trick is knowing what the actual risk is and what the payoff is and weighing that out. I stopped riding motorcycles when I was in my early 20's thanks to a car wreck. It was not out of fear, it was because my reflexes were no longer good enough to handle that bike safely. So while one guy would call me a pussy another guy would see that I am doing the smart thing because I understood that I was no longer able to control the bike in a way that is required. Women are the same thing, they are a risk. However it depends on how much your willing to risk to stay with that woman. If you marry her, then you are risking everything. If you live with her, you still maybe risking everything with the DV laws and such. However if your just dating, then the risk levels have dropped by a good percentage. If you leave woman alone then your risk level drops to an even greater degree.

    Most people will try to shame you or try to convince you of some fairy tail of finding the right woman. This is much like a meth addict getting clean then hearing a friend saying "no this shit is much better, just try it and you'll like it". Even though the guy knows that meth almost killed him once before, his addiction and others will convince him to give it one more try. Unless the guy has hit rock bottom and understands what he will loose if he chooses to take another hit, he will be doomed to repeat the cycle. Now the difference between that meth addict and the guy who is still searching for love after his 3rd failed marriage, is that the meth addict knows he has a problem. The guy looking for another woman believes he just has bad luck. The way I think of marriage anymore is like taking everything I own and putting it into a big pile. Then going out and getting a load for $100k or more and throwing that money onto the pile. Then taking some lighter fluid and setting everything on fire and watching it burn. Now once everything is burned up, I look around and say "wow I lost everything. I can't wait to build up my wealth again so I can set fire to it again". So the next time someone tries to shame you into being with a woman, just think things through a bit. Think of where you will be in 10 years from now by leaving women alone, vs. where you will be at after a divorce. I lost 23 years of my life thanks to not seeing the writing on the wall sooner. However I still have time to build a retirement for myself. If I had taken on another wife or kid, retirement would never even be an option for me. Now can money by you happiness? Of course not, however you can sure as hell pick your own misery with it.
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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    Sure it's risk vs reward and cost vs reward... As long as it's worth it, why not.

    It's the fairytales and mother theresa images that needs to go away for good so that men can go towards things with open eyes and then decide.

    And let's face it women are the ones that both benefit and keep all that love stuff alive at the same time as not really living by them...

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    thing about this sadistic "game" called dating.....
    its got absolutely no provision for self-correction.... you start with a new girl and you're right back to Square One...
    thing is, for all you know the thing that caused you to fail with the previous girl might work with the current one... but you have no way to know that until its too late...
    (same as my stance on sexual harassment..... no reliable way to know where the line is until its too late... )
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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    The last time I was on a dating site I started to question the women directly and call them on their bullshit. One woman had "Are there any serious men left?" I messaged her and asked if she was a serious woman. She responded and said yes, I told her that she does not look serious to me. She had goofy photos posted and didn't look well presented.

    She responds with, "What makes you think that I think I am serious?" I couldn't believe it, I told her because she told me she was serious! We all bullshit, we all have contradictions, I get that but when you put something in writing so plainly and then forget about it or try and back away from it so quickly that is just too much.

    I messaged another one and she comes back with "How are you?" I tell her I am ok and ask her how she is, I am already bored though. She says she is fine. I ask her how long she has been on the site for, she says, "does it matter?" I tell her that I thought we were asking each other boring questions. She didn't get it, she didn't see why asking me how I was, was a boring question. I explain to her that this isn't a face to face chat, the messages take place over hours. Time to be more interesting.

    Then you get all the women who just message with "Hi" even though they hate it when they get similar messages. Then you have the riot act profiles as I call them. This is when they just make a long list of demands many of which contradict each other.

    One woman sends me a 3 paragraph message detailing how my message to her and other women could be improved! I point out to her that she could have saved herself some time and just ignored my message or responded with a simple "Not interested". She seemed to think she was trying to save me from something and wanted to help me! Ummmm... get fucked.

    It's even easier now though. Most are fat and/or have tattoos. No thanks to both.

    Dating for a man is about jumping through hoops for no purpose really.

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    I have gone monk for quit a while and I see no need to do otherwise for the remainder of my existence on this planet.Women are not worth my time or effort and if that magical one ever comes my way I will change my ways but it will not ever happen.

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    If a magical one comes along, will she really be truly magical or will that just be an illusion?

    How will you know she's magical?
    - She gave you head outside the club in the alley.
    - She's fun and playful.
    - She doesn't fret when you need your guy time.
    - She's okay with not moving in together - right away.
    - She has some similar interests with you.

    Holy shit. She's THE ONE.

    Or maybe she's just like any other woman except she's very pliable at the beginning of the relationship... until she turns from a unicorn into a...

    Just another possessive controlling bat-shit crazy woman.

    Here's my convo with my unicorn:

    "Gee Peggy, we've been fucking like animals for three months now. And aside from the odd game of golf or a movie, you're really not making any demands of me. I think you might be the one."

    "OMG, that's great! So does this mean we can take this relationship to the next level?!"

    "Aw, gee, Peggy, I guess you're not the one..."


    There is no "the one". Except maybe Neo. Neo is the only one who is "the one". And he's a dude.

    When a man is in the company of "the one", he's being fucked over by brain chemicals invented by mother nature.
    And mother nature is the biggest whore of 'em all.

    There is no "one" - but there are plenty of fish in the sea, and NONE of them need a bicycle!!
    - Feminism is Cancer.
    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...

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    Re: I'm so done with dating!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Eiji View Post
    thing about this sadistic "game" called dating.....
    its got absolutely no provision for self-correction.... you start with a new girl and you're right back to Square One...
    thing is, for all you know the thing that caused you to fail with the previous girl might work with the current one... but you have no way to know that until its too late...
    (same as my stance on sexual harassment..... no reliable way to know where the line is until its too late... )
    You nailed it Sir!

    Dating in this day and age is a shit show. Dating is as irrelevant as marriage IMHO.

    If you want to be "friends" with women, join a knitting club.
    If you want to fuck women, go on Tinder or hire a pro.

    There is no need to go through the painful public job interview that is modern dating - to pay for a lovely meal and what should be a good time, when the only outcome is "I'll see if nothing else better comes along... in the meantime, I gotta meet Chad, Chad and Chad at the club!"

    Yeah.

    Fuck that.
    - Feminism is Cancer.
    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...


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