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    Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    I met a girl on WBS way back in '98. Some women were giving her shit about being in a sorority, and I chimed in that they don't get to make other people's choices for them, they consequently shut the fuck up, and we ended up being pen-pals. After briefly moving to California and fleeing a woman who demanded I become a drug-mule (long story) I crashed at her place for a week while arranging transport back home. We sat around playing on the internet, made a big Thanksgiving dinner for ourselves, I introduced her to Evil Dead 2, and it was a great time. A strange moment happened while I was there, which I didn't comprehend at the time, but I'll get back to that in a bit.

    We stayed pen-pals, sharing lots of funny stories over the years, and I gradually watched her destroy herself chasing Alpha-bux. She was a thorough-bred girl, really hot, studying to become a veterinarian, but she came from money; and that's what she was after. She kept throwing sex at Alpha-bux, getting pumped and dumped, and gradually getting more desperate. In time she started doing things that were really out-of-character for her, agreeing to threesomes, bondage stuff, tried stripping at a high-scale joint (I guess she was looking Daddy-Alpha-Bux) left because she was being treated badly (what did she expect?) picked up herpes from some shit-ass, and becoming sadder and sadder.

    She finally settled for a TFL comic-book artist, a virgin at 33... She musta rocked his world HARD... She was crashing into the Wall like a freight-train then, had a genetic anomaly that made all her hair fall out; I sorta started distancing myself from her, because my ex-wife was getting super-jealous, and I was trying to save my marriage.

    The last I ever heard of her was when she made a post, bitching me up and down the wall on FB, and then blocking me... seemingly for no reason.

    And now that moment: At one point while I was at her place, I asked her a question while washing some dishes, and there was no response. I glance over at her, and she was kinda staring at me with an odd look on her face, blinking repeatedly... then she glanced around her humble apartment, kinda frowned, and the moment passed...

    I think she was, for a second, recognizing all the hypergamous bullshit, and honestly considering the charming southern-gentleman who was broke as fuck, but making her laugh and treating her like a human-being... But she realized I was no meal-ticket, and rejected the idea.

    I think that's why she got so pissed off at me... She had thrown away her life, gotten nothing she wanted from it, and projected all that fury onto me.

    I'd like to think she's found happiness, but I doubt it. Choices have consequences, and Thottery serves women poorly.

    The End.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    It's tragic, on some level, watching anyone throw their lives away, because society conned them into making bad choices.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin View Post
    I met a girl on WBS way back in '98. Some women were giving her shit about being in a sorority, and I chimed in that they don't get to make other people's choices for them, they consequently shut the fuck up, and we ended up being pen-pals. After briefly moving to California and fleeing a woman who demanded I become a drug-mule (long story) I crashed at her place for a week while arranging transport back home. We sat around playing on the internet, made a big Thanksgiving dinner for ourselves, I introduced her to Evil Dead 2, and it was a great time. A strange moment happened while I was there, which I didn't comprehend at the time, but I'll get back to that in a bit.

    We stayed pen-pals, sharing lots of funny stories over the years, and I gradually watched her destroy herself chasing Alpha-bux. She was a thorough-bred girl, really hot, studying to become a veterinarian, but she came from money; and that's what she was after. She kept throwing sex at Alpha-bux, getting pumped and dumped, and gradually getting more desperate. In time she started doing things that were really out-of-character for her, agreeing to threesomes, bondage stuff, tried stripping at a high-scale joint (I guess she was looking Daddy-Alpha-Bux) left because she was being treated badly (what did she expect?) picked up herpes from some shit-ass, and becoming sadder and sadder.

    She finally settled for a TFL comic-book artist, a virgin at 33... She musta rocked his world HARD... She was crashing into the Wall like a freight-train then, had a genetic anomaly that made all her hair fall out; I sorta started distancing myself from her, because my ex-wife was getting super-jealous, and I was trying to save my marriage.

    The last I ever heard of her was when she made a post, bitching me up and down the wall on FB, and then blocking me... seemingly for no reason.

    And now that moment: At one point while I was at her place, I asked her a question while washing some dishes, and there was no response. I glance over at her, and she was kinda staring at me with an odd look on her face, blinking repeatedly... then she glanced around her humble apartment, kinda frowned, and the moment passed...

    I think she was, for a second, recognizing all the hypergamous bullshit, and honestly considering the charming southern-gentleman who was broke as fuck, but making her laugh and treating her like a human-being... But she realized I was no meal-ticket, and rejected the idea.

    I think that's why she got so pissed off at me... She had thrown away her life, gotten nothing she wanted from it, and projected all that fury onto me.

    I'd like to think she's found happiness, but I doubt it. Choices have consequences, and Thottery serves women poorly.

    The End.
    A sad story well-told.

    She probably could've gotten the guy (and the life) she wanted if she'd just kept her pants on and behaved honorably. If she had, lots of nice men with money would've climbed over each other in a rush to offer her a three-carat rock, a proposal, and a promise never to leave.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    I think Kru-Kut is correct. My sisters did just what he suggested and it worked out just fine for them. The few actual Trad Con women out there are cleaning up, as they can snag the upper 10% of men simply by not being a carousel rider, even if they are otherwise only average in appearance. That's why most Trad Con women have little issue with the degenerate behavior of the carousel riders, it makes the Trad Con's look like Unicorns in comparison.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin View Post
    In time she started doing things that were really out-of-character for her,
    No dude. They were out-of-character for your image of her, for that limited slice of herself that she let you see.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    No dude. They were out-of-character for your image of her, for that limited slice of herself that she let you see.
    Perhaps. But I believe many people carry around more than one person inside them, one being no less authentic than the other (or the other two or three or whatever the case may be). Hermann Hesse explored the notion in "Steppenwolf," in which the internal struggle between (or among) the internal personas can never be resolved.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    Perhaps. But I believe many people carry around more than one person inside them, one being no less authentic than the other (or the other two or three or whatever the case may be). Hermann Hesse explored the notion in "Steppenwolf," in which the internal struggle between (or among) the internal personas can never be resolved.
    Of course one is when you around others and the other when you are alone .

    Thats why people learn so slowly cause we lie to each other all the time .
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    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Maybe so... *shrug*
    Last edited by devilcomeknockin; March 7, 2019 at 8:01 PM.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    Perhaps. But I believe many people carry around more than one person inside them, one being no less authentic than the other (or the other two or three or whatever the case may be). Hermann Hesse explored the notion in "Steppenwolf," in which the internal struggle between (or among) the internal personas can never be resolved.
    Maybe you could post a link for those of us who don't know much about this topic? It's an interesting idea, in any case.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by ABigSiameseCat View Post
    Maybe you could post a link for those of us who don't know much about this topic? It's an interesting idea, in any case.
    Oh, I claim no scientific basis for my suspicion, because that's all it is. All I was doing was running with Hesse's premise. It might also be one or more internal demons. They do exist. The spiritual world is invisible to our five senses, so what I just stated is easy to dismiss as nonsense. But they're every bit as real as anything we can touch, see, smell, taste, or hear.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    So? What was the question you asked her?
    - Feminism is Cancer.
    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    It was 21 years ago... I have no idea what I asked her. Maybe it was just because I was cleaning up the dishes and kitchen. *shrug*

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin View Post
    It was 21 years ago... I have no idea what I asked her. Maybe it was just because I was cleaning up the dishes and kitchen. *shrug*
    Contact her and ask maybe she remembers
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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    OP may be the romantic moment where you state she was just staring at you was not that of admiration for your potential 'good guy' values but perhaps she was asking herself 'is he the guy who will stick around to lick Chad cum from my pussy when I get pumped and dumped again'. Your one week stay could potentially highlight your own emotional-tampon capacity and use for her.

    Your inner beta just wants to project the some 'good guy get ma tittties hard' outlook from a whore. It's not true.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by BilBoRing View Post
    OP may be the romantic moment where you state she was just staring at you was not that of admiration for your potential 'good guy' values but perhaps she was asking herself 'is he the guy who will stick around to lick Chad cum from my pussy when I get pumped and dumped again'. Your one week stay could potentially highlight your own emotional-tampon capacity and use for her.

    Your inner beta just wants to project the some 'good guy get ma tittties hard' outlook from a whore. It's not true.
    The idea of an "inner beta" left over from the blue pill period in our lives has some merit. After all, if we are indoctrinated with blue pill values and spend part of our adult lives as blue pillers, it does seem likely that some of the blue pill habits will turn up from time to time.

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin View Post
    It was 21 years ago... I have no idea what I asked her. Maybe it was just because I was cleaning up the dishes and kitchen. *shrug*
    Sorry, I was not trying to be pedantic... I was genuinely curious... aka, did you drop a serious Red Pill question on her or something. Her reaction implied that you may have done just that.

    I love that look women give when they see a "glitch" in the Matrix. Confusion... distant look... staring right through you, but the most important thing: a hint of the anger invoked for DARING to question her motives or God forbid - make her THINK.
    - Feminism is Cancer.
    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...

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    Re: Hypergamy ruined my friend's life.

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    I love that look women give when they see a "glitch" in the Matrix. Confusion... distant look... staring right through you, but the most important thing: a hint of the anger invoked for DARING to question her motives or God forbid - make her THINK.
    I have a thread brewing on that very topic... I really need to type that out.


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