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    Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    I love the comments on Reddit calling the man "Immature" and the like for pointing out his wife rejects him for sex 89% of the time, and the 11% of the time I guarantee you it isint the mind numbing whore sex dudes think they are gunna get when they get mawwwied. Lurkers, this could be you, and will be you if you decided to stick to one poose basket.

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    Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction | The Tom Leykis Show

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    TL;DR – My husband [M26] sent a rude, argumentative email as I [F26] was on the way to the airport for a 10-day work trip. It’s been 24hrs and he has responded to any of my texts or calls.

    My husband [M26] and I [F26] have been together for 5 years, married for 2 of those years. We just bought a house 5 months ago. No kids yet. Our lives have been crazy busy though. We spent all spring renovating our new house. At my job I was given nearly double my usual workload after some of my colleagues were laid off. I gained some weight in the winter and have been busting my ass at the gym to get rid of it.

    Yesterday morning, while in a taxi on the way to the airport, Husband sends a message to my work email which is connected to my phone. He’s never done this, we always communicate in person or by text. I open it up, and it’s a sarcastic diatribe basically saying he won’t miss me for the 10 days I’m gone. Attached is a SPREADSHEET of all the times he has tried to initiate sex since June 1st, with a column for my “excuses”, using verbatim quotes of why I didn’t feel like having sex at that very moment. According to his ‘document’, we’ve only had sex 3 times in the last 7 weeks, out of 27 “attempts” on his part.

    This is a side of him I have never seen before – bitter, immature, full of hatred. In person, he’d been acting normal the whole time, maybe a little standoff-ish in the last week. Completely out of left field. Our sex life HAS tapered in the last few months, but isn’t that allowed? We are adults leading busy, stressful lives. I cook for him, I do his laundry, I keep our house clean and tidy. It’s not like our sex life was going to be this way FOREVER, it was a temporary slow-down due to extenuating circumstances.

    I immediately tried phoning him 3-4 times before getting on the plane – no answer. When I landed in my destination city, I tried calling 2 more times – no answer. I texted him saying we needed to talk, and he needed to call me at his earliest convenience. No response. He’s never intentionally ignored my communications before. I pretty much stayed inside my hotel all evening waiting by the phone, then cried myself to sleep.

    It’s now morning and he still hasn’t contacted me. I am supposed to be out visiting clients for the next 9 days on behalf of my company, and I am an emotional wreck. Why is he putting me through this? What the hell am I supposed to do?
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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Several of my married (now divorced) friends used to live in sexless marriages. Some of them snapped and had affairs/ ended their marriages.


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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Quote Originally Posted by sirreaper View Post
    It’s now morning and he still hasn’t contacted me.
    I am supposed to be out visiting clients for the next 9 days on behalf of my company, and I am an emotional wreck.
    Why is he putting me through this?
    What the hell am I supposed to do?
    And this demonstrates how women never seem to understand cause and effect when it comes to their actions.

    It’s now morning and he still hasn’t contacted me.
    : He probably fucked someone out of sheer anger last night
    Why is he putting me through this? : Because you have made his sex life hell.
    What the hell am I supposed to do? : KNEES, HONEST remorseful apology, spectacular blowjob and then F@#$ his brains out daily for the next several weeks.

    Anyone want to bet that this easy marriage solution is ever implemented?
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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    She knows what to do, she just doesn't want to do it.
    The price of freedom is eternal vigilance.

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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    An oldie but a goodie.

    Quote Originally Posted by sirreaper View Post
    This is a side of him I have never seen before – bitter, immature, full of hatred. In person, he’d been acting normal the whole time, maybe a little standoff-ish in the last week. Completely out of left field.
    So much for wimmins being the emotionally in-tune caretakers of the realtionship. She didn't even know.

    Quote Originally Posted by sirreaper View Post
    Why is he putting me through this? What the hell am I supposed to do?
    You are supposed to suck his cock occasionally, you silly woman. More than once every two months. You clean and cook? Guess what - we can do that for ourselves. You need to climb that mountain at least marginally more often than he could get it if he were single, or the deal is off.

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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Oh come on guys this is fuking old already this fucking sex . If i have something that you need and want more than i do you better bet all your savings that im gonna be a bitch about it , there is no other way about it .



    Whatever you think the best way to get sex from your old bitch is to joke about her looks , humilliate her , oh fuck how do you think i would fuck you gross ... She would put out in no time ...

    Total disinterest in what women think , want or whatever ... Dump her now and whatever comes after that will be times over better than what you have now .

    Even if you have a friend with bens just text her and dump , you will feel so relieved . Will get to fuck her even more often than before

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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    What ever happened to telling your wife your concerns face to face?
    If you see an average human as a logical actor you might be dissapointed. If you see them as an input/output device you might not be.


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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Quote Originally Posted by quasar View Post
    What ever happened to telling your wife your concerns face to face?
    Didn't work.
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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Are there any women on earth who do not complain continuously about being "tired" and "not feeling good"?
    And when her lips so sweetly move
    The soul such height attain,
    You're free, yet would no longer rove
    But lay you down in chains.

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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Women do not like being confronted with facts. It was immature of him to collect evidence to demonstrate the validity of his argument. She would rather appeal to emotional rants and name-calling to support her position, when all of the documented proof is on his side. I hope this man awakens to the harsh reality: He is now at risk of losing at minimum half of his hard-earned material assets and possibly paying her a percentage of his future income, for basically having a live-in maid who performs some of the basic household chores (cook, clean, laundry). Can you not hire someone at a much cheaper rate to complete these routine activities? Intimacy is obviously a chore for her, so how much does she really love him? Tell me lurkers, is this worth it?

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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Our lives have been crazy busy though. We spent all spring renovating our new house.
    Yep. "We"... I know how the division of labor usually works for remodeling. 80/20

    I hope he got rewarded for his carpentry skills at least.

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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Quote Originally Posted by wayn View Post
    Yep. "We"... I know how the division of labor usually works for remodeling. 80/20

    I hope he got rewarded for his carpentry skills at least.
    Usually it's more like 99/1. He earns the money to pay for the remodeling effort, and she travels with him to the store and insists on picking out the material. She may even sign for the delivery or be present at home to let the professionals in the door. If it is a DIY job, he exerts virtually all the effort installing it.

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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Oh man - I tried to find this on Reddit to link elsewhere (I don't want to link to Tom Leykis or here in this particular venue). Unfortunately looks like it was taken down - or my google-fu skills are weak.
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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Eh I can see her point sure I agree your wife has a duty to put out. But why not talk like a human instead of writing out a fucking -spreadsheet- like a petty asshole and then blanking her ?

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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    It's a clever way of making the point at the END of the relationship. Which this seems to be.
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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Quote Originally Posted by quasar View Post
    What ever happened to telling your wife your concerns face to face?
    I tried that approach with my wife before the divorce. Didn't turn out well. So I left in a different way. My friend did the same. If telling the wife face to face about your concerns does not work...plan your escape.





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    Quote Originally Posted by jovialsingleton1 View Post
    Eh I can see her point sure I agree your wife has a duty to put out. But why not talk like a human instead of writing out a fucking -spreadsheet- like a petty asshole and then blanking her ?
    I agree but then again a man is NOT supposed to voice his concerns in a marriage. Especially if those concerns are about sex. He is to keep his mouth SHUT and follow the script that society has given him. If he doesn't then he is a selfish pig. Which is why I turned my back on society.





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    Quote Originally Posted by sirreaper View Post
    We just bought a house 5 months ago. We spent all spring renovating our new house.
    This is ONE part of the problem. The plantation programs people to spend so much time on ACQUIRING THINGS. Then there is no time for nothing else.

    Quote Originally Posted by sirreaper View Post
    I gained some weight in the winter.
    A VERY typical thing that happens in a marriage. Nothing worse than a beached whale.

    Quote Originally Posted by sirreaper View Post
    This is a side of him I have never seen before – bitter, immature, full of hatred.
    You see men? When you open your pie holes and stop doing what you are supposed to do which is to keep quiet and go the rest of your lives without sex, you are labeled as being childish. F*ck that noise.





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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    Quote Originally Posted by Shrug the Script View Post
    If telling the wife face to face about your concerns does not work...plan your escape.
    If telling the wife face to face about your concerns does not work...plan your escape.

    That needed to be repeated.
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    Re: Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

    His spreadsheet averages out to be exactly one close in ten approaches.

    Even when I was weak in terms of PUA I fuck closed about one girl in five. In my best, about 50%. Remember that next time you see someone talking about getting married for easy pussy.


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