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    I'm dating someone (both currently in hs) and they brought something they should've to the school. I feel I've been a beta for a while and think that setting boundaries and telling her to get her act together would be an alpha approach? What should I do? I've been asking myself is it worth to stick around and wait to get past 2nd base or move on completely with someone else?

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    This is a MGTOW forum, not a dating advice forum. You should ask this at a more appropriate place.
    Shame is a womans primary weapon. Watch for it, and call it out wherever you see it. Few women know how to handle a man immune to shame.

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    ^ this.

    go to sosuave.net and be a little more detailed.

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    Take your transparent troll bait elsewhere. Have a nice life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by I_seigle14 View Post
    I'm dating someone
    There is the root of your present problem and all future ones.
    We would hope the benefits you extract from this "dating" compensate all these problems. But I KNOW it doesn't and never will.

    Hence MGTOW.

    You are in the right place, start by reading, make an intro, and learn the truth.

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    Don't be a "Quitter" flip her over, and hit her in the shitter.....YMMV
    As soon as she says "I do", she don't
    MOLON LABE......."Come take them"

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    Re: Need help

    What everyone else said, basically.

    If you would like to participate on this forum, then you'll need to post an intro in the New Member Intros subforum.

    That aside,

    If you want dating advice, then take it to a dating advice forum. But that's not what's going on here. I'm guessing that your post contains a typo, that your g/f bought something that she shouldn't have to school.

    It kinda doesn't matter what it was. Well, it kinda does. If it was something like drugs, alcohol, weapons (knife, gun, whatever) then you'll get the same advice from anyone here, because most of us are grown men who have seen a thing or two.

    And that advice is: do not be friends with people who will fuck up your future. This is especially the case for girls, because they will sell you out in a heartbeat. She'll cry (they're good at that) and say it was all your idea, that she was just holding on to the item for you. And she'll be believed (crying, remember?). Even if they don't really believe her, many schools have a "zero tolerance" policy which means they have to be seen to be doing something, and it's just plain easier to punish a boy. Because no-one cares. Zero tolerance only applies to us.

    Forget about "setting boundaires" or somehow making her "get her act together". You, kid, cannot make this person do anything. You aren't her dad, and even then you probably couldn't. The only person who is ever going to be able to set boundaries for her is a judge.

    If what she brought to school is anything even half as serious as the stuff on the list I mentioned, you need to unhitch this person from your life.

    I don't know how to do that - been a long time since I was in school. But the handjobs are not worth it, son.

    (Oh, here's another thought: this thing she brought to school - where did she get it? If it's drugs, then that means she knows some very bad people. How did she pay for it? Same way a girl pays for anything, kid.)

    Think about it. Do what you gotta do.

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    People don't get better. They get worse with experience. What's so special about this bimbo that makes you think you can't live without her? Just walk away and find someone else. She's not mature enough for you yet, it sounds like.
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Some of you need to lighten up a bit. 14 is when these young adults need us the most!
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    Some of you need to lighten up a bit. 14 is when these young adults need us the most!
    Especially the ladies
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    LOL!
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    I'm guessing that your post contains a typo, that your g/f bought something that she shouldn't have to school.

    It kinda doesn't matter what it was. Well, it kinda does. If it was something like drugs, alcohol, weapons (knife, gun, whatever) then you'll get the same advice from anyone here, because most of us are grown men who have seen a thing or two.

    And that advice is: do not be friends with people who will fuck up your future. This is especially the case for girls, because they will sell you out in a heartbeat. She'll cry (they're good at that) and say it was all your idea, that she was just holding on to the item for you. And she'll be believed (crying, remember?). Even if they don't really believe her, many schools have a "zero tolerance" policy which means they have to be seen to be doing something, and it's just plain easier to punish a boy. Because no-one cares. Zero tolerance only applies to us.

    Forget about "setting boundaires" or somehow making her "get her act together". You, kid, cannot make this person do anything. You aren't her dad, and even then you probably couldn't. The only person who is ever going to be able to set boundaries for her is a judge.

    If what she brought to school is anything even half as serious as the stuff on the list I mentioned, you need to unhitch this person from your life.

    I don't know how to do that - been a long time since I was in school. But the handjobs are not worth it, son.

    (Oh, here's another thought: this thing she brought to school - where did she get it? If it's drugs, then that means she knows some very bad people. How did she pay for it? Same way a girl pays for anything, kid.)

    Think about it. Do what you gotta do.
    Take this ^^^, print it, read it, time and time again.

    You have been offered wisdom from years of life experience. Heed to these words!

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    Re: Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    Some of you need to lighten up a bit. 14 is when these young adults need us the most!
    Maybe you are right.

    But I made New Year's resolution to destroy trolls left and right like a savage eagle tears apart its prey.

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    Fair enough.
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    Especially the ladies
    After 12 is lunch???


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