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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Quote Originally Posted by chbedok View Post
    Have to say that OP isn't acting very MGTOW like. The sex is fine, talking to a girl is just a part of life, but trusting a girl over one's best friend? Wills and house keys after a few months? OP says that his friend treated his girlfriend badly, but based on the 'I helped a buddy out' thread, I think there is a direct link between the bad treatment and the 'help' given. The thread is here if people wanna look;

    http://www.goingyourownway.com/mgtow...lp-buddy-8973/

    In all, quite a number of flags being raised here. So to speak.
    Oh yes, I remember that post, well observed chbedok, there will be a correlation no doubt about it.
    Once he discovers that 'it doesn't matter how nice she looks someone is putting up with her shit' he will realise he has indeed 'helped' his buddy out. Even more so if he hangs around long enough for The Wall™
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Being in a relationship is fine. There is nothing wrong with a mgtow dating. That's not the reason people here are flaming you. you gave her your spare keys to your house... And you've been dating like what? a few month? seriously bro?
    It seems like you're in the honey moon phase in a relationship and you think things are going to always be this way... they're not. That's a big mistake some men fall into even after they are red pilled and they start dating. Of course you are gonna be happy when you start banging a new chick, but just wait to see what happens when things get stagnant and routine.

    Also you kinda acted like a white knight in the begging. Driving her to her parents and staying over there? It seems like you were crushing already and didn't know how to deal with it.

    My advice to you is keep dating her, have fun with her, don't make any serious commitment for the moment, don't spend more money than she spends on you, and don't let her drag you into any of her troubles in the name of love.

    Good luck and happy fucking.
    Sad, but one day our kids will have to visit museums to see what a lady looks like.

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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    The original boyfriend was probably treating her like crap because he knew that was the only way to keep her hamster in check.
    The OP has now stepped in, as the white-knight, and taken over.
    The OP has given her keys to the place and given her every indication he will supplicate to her needs, such as food, housing, resources, etc.
    Basically the OP has taken a GF from a guy who could well be a RP man, and signed up for beta servitude.

    1. If she hasn't already lost respect for OP, she will soon.
    2. The shit tests will start in a while and be in full swing by month 3 or 4.
    3. The sex will be going downhill fast by month 6, if not gone already or reduced to "obligation" starfish sex.
    4. She'll be swiping left and right like mad on all kinds of social media apps long before the sex completely stops.
    5. Fun and joy will, in a half-year, turn or start to turn into "what the fuck happened" and "what am I doing wrong".

    What OP did wrong was:
    a. basically swipe another guys gal. True friends don't stick their nose in while a man & woman are working things out.
    b. deny that "Found out after the fact this guy was not friend material" = "I already knew I would trade him in for her"
    c. Immediately demonstrate a lower mate value by offering keys and talking finances (Please? Can I be your beta bitch?)

    She'll be on the hunt for alpha cock inside of 4-6 months. Probably sooner within the electronic social media hive.

    Sorry dude, you blew every RP theory there is and odds are seriously against you.

    If you two end up happy together buy lotto tickets because you'll win that too. Sorry, I'm just too RP to see it any other way.

    If the sex wanes, don't eat her out to try and get her interested again, unless you don't mind the flavor of another man's semen in your mouth.

    Yeah, women are that shitty.

    She can't get pregnant (allegedly) but she can bring home AIDS, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, genital warts, chlamydia, and/or HPV. (HPV has been linked to throat cancer in men but feminists are trying to keep this under wraps. Can't have "eating pussy causes cancer" getting into the headlines, now can we? They have HPV vaccinations for women but for some reason men - who die of throat cancer - don't need them...)

    Right now your hormones (testosterone, endorphins) have you pussy drunk and this has caused your mating ego (I conquered the pussy I AM THE MAN) to be similar to a small fire with two gallons of gas poured on it. We've all been there. Been "the man". Felt good, and alive, and wanted and desirable and powerful and even superior to other men.

    Despite all of the manly man feelings, Mother Nature has you as her bitch right now. It's all a big blue pill evolutionary prime directive mind fuck.

    Remembering this is your only chance.

    Anyways. Good luck. You're going to need it.

    That's all of the unsolicited advice I have to give today!
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Quote Originally Posted by Nasir Jones View Post
    And you've been dating like what? a few month? seriously bro?
    I have to correct myself on that. From what I gather in OPs post the dating started three or four days after the topic he started on December 11th, so maybe he was dating her by December 14th.
    That would put less than four weeks between the start of it all, and the moment OP wants to put her in his will, and gives her the keys to his place.
    Definite pussy fog / honeymoon phase.

    All in all VTOLfreak, you have to consider this: if all a girl has to do is being a good girlfriend for a few weeks to get her name on your will or a key to your place, you make it easy for a girl (one who lies for a few weeks with the wrong intentions) to get some cash, a house or even your inheritance off of you. I hope things work out ok, but you just may have fucked yourself over.

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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    I think it might be worth considering some damage control... get that key back before 6 months are up.

    The biggest thing VTOL had was the leverage of the KEY to the PLACE. He should have made her at LEAST "work for that key".

    Could have had hot sex for a year straight holding out as a RP man. Now he's given her the keys to the kingdom.

    If she's nothing thinking "I have this guy under my thumb." she was not born female.
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    At this point I'd tell her I got robbed, change the locks and keep forgetting to make her a key.

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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Don't really care what relationships anyone decides to participate in. Will remind OP that he is reopening the door to unlimited liability and that his friend's woman ditched his friend for him.

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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Who's idea was it about the will?

    If it was yours, you are nuts.
    If it was hers, she is dangerous. Asking to be put in someone's will after dating a few weeks? You don't find that a little weird?
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Quote Originally Posted by Hoser View Post
    Who's idea was it about the will?

    If it was yours, you are nuts.
    If it was hers, she is dangerous. Asking to be put in someone's will after dating a few weeks? You don't find that a little weird?
    I just walked into this thread after it got going, but yeah this is one of the most insane things I've ever read on a manosphere forum. It's not just weird to me, it's mind bogglingly stupid and unnecessary (not to mention weird, disturbing and dangerous like Hoser says). Why would it even occur to OP to put this girl in his will AT ALL? You don't owe her anything, especially when you're hinting that she can cash in on that will. Every woman has a billion beta orbiters dropping cash and attention on her all day, don't let yourself be another one of those chumps who's there to service a particular need as a utility. I think there needs to be a new term coined for this type or orbiting. You're effectively telling her "Supporting you financially is more important than my life."

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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    ...to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of Freedom. Er, altar of Pussy... in this case.

    We talk metaphorically about handing a woman a gun and saying "Please don't ever use this on me".

    But this is the real deal. Getting involved with wills at this stage... that's like ASKING someone to poison your food.

    I think he should perhaps take out some additional life insurance too...

    After all... a gal's gotta have her security, and it's a mean old world out there, isn't it fellas!
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    The original boyfriend was probably treating her like crap because he knew that was the only way to keep her hamster in check.
    I'm not sure how you could be a regular member of this forum and not realize it. It's not just 'pussy is a helluva drug'; I think some people actually frequent the forum and stuff like this doesn't sink in. In any case, I think the OP won't realize any of this until well after co-habitation and possibly marriage. Men who don't think women can "fake it" for months, need to get familiar with the idea of a Long Con.

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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    I think big factors to the story that we are missing is how rich are you, volt? And how hot is this girl? What does she do for a living? Does she have a self sustained job?

    And I didn't notice the whole part about the will untill now. How fucking weird is that? How old are you exactly? Never in my life has a girl mentioned to me who I leave in my will, that's just weird.

    Keep your fling on a string, bruh. The honeymoon phase will pass and you'll read this back realizing how silly you were acting.
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Take any man who was in the "bottom 50% of the divorce industry" who walked down that altar with that stunned grin on his face and ask him if he didn't - at the time - think he found that unicorn.

    Guys: After a while without, any women who even TOUCHES your pecker is going to seem like a unicorn.

    Men (to women) are like cars. And our dicks are like steering wheels. And women like to drive us cars (men) straight off ledges because they can.

    Don't let a woman steer you by the pecker.

    Besides, giving in and "providing" is the single sure-fire way for her to completely lose respect for you. Men who give out REAL vagina tingles don't waste time being "good providers" - they get what they want and the only thing they "provide" squirts out of their dicks a half-ounce at a time.

    I know. I know. "Fuck you MGTOW/Red Pill guys! I quit! I'm a REAL MAN! I can make this work! She's gonna respect me because I respect her and I will *BE THE BOSS* and she will love how I take the lead!"

    Yeah yeah, sure sure. "Wife game". It's all over the internet. Just "maintain frame" and say as little as possible and learn to pass all of her "shit tests". We've heard all of that purple-pill 'game your own wife' bullshit. You can confuse females for a little while, but you can't mind-fuck a woman out of her natural instincts. Not for 25 fucking consecutive years.

    Guys: After seeing you for the first time - after a few seconds - she already has put you into FUCK ZONE or PROVIDER ZONE. Being a provider for a woman is a shitty way to "get sex" and is really no great hell for relationships either. Women behave like simple parasites when they are with beta providers. And it's YOUR FAULT for not being Alpha enough while loving her anyways.

    Remember: women HATE attention from lesser males, but as some point she knows she needs that SECURITY and will settle for her "Mr. Right Now". I think women secretly resent the men they are forced to settle for - they all deserve top 5% guys remember! Now, more than ever, women are ENTITLED to top men, despite being frumpy no-great-hell entitled bitches themselves. Ask any guy who's been on a dating site lately... 5's looking down their nose at 7's because a drunk 8 'swiped right' and fucked her two weeks ago because his better looking prospects had other plans...

    Fuck that shit.

    Nobody gets to "settle" for me because $$$$$.

    That's what whores are for - whores who are actually more worthy of respect than a woman settling for her beta provider / ATM sucker.
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Quote Originally Posted by mongolking View Post
    So on the strength of one outing, you immediately renounced any loyalty to your 'friend', sided with his girlfriend, started communicating with her the next day, and now she's your live-in?
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    The malinant migration from MGTOW to "WWWW?"
    (What Would Woman Want?)

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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post

    Remember: women HATE attention from lesser males, but as some point she knows she needs that SECURITY and will settle for her "Mr. Right Now". I think women secretly resent the men they are forced to settle for - they all deserve top 5% guys remember!

    I agree, I remember Tom Leykis had a show and said that women go nuts when he tells them.......see that lazy slob of a husband you have , the one scratching his ass and burping, well that was the best you could do .. that's your prince charming.

    Naturally they get angry at this suggestion and ALWAYS think their golden Vag deserves better, as if they just got a raw deal, Tom reminds them ...water seeks it's own level.
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    Re: I haven't been posting much... Here's why...

    My suggestion is immediate electro-shock therapy. We are past the point of what tequila can do.
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