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    How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    I went to a graduation party with a ton of people. As you guys know I am very forward and speak my mind. There was this very attractive woman sitting by the cake. I happened to say to the people at my table "Who is she?" She is very pretty. I was thinking maybe someone would chime in "Oh that's Emily" or even the dreaded "Oh dude. I know her. Thats Emily. She has a boyfriend. Stay away" or some shit. The women at the table turned evil. Girl #1 said "Oh she is pretty". But not in a nice way. She said it in a put down way like I just farted. I replied in a sarcastic way "What? Am I ugly?" She replied "No. Its that she is pretty. She probably gets hit on a lot". I rolled my eyes. Another girl jumped in "Dude. She is high maintenance". The old "she is out of your league". Girl #1 is nothing but a post wall bitch with a few kids. She always talks about "going out". I jump in "You are always talking about going out but yet you always bitch about being broke." She gets very pissy and says "Well I get drinks bought for me". We all know that. Its funny that she puts me down but the last guy she went out with was a total drunk slob.

    BTW, I ended up going over to the girl and talking to her. She was boring as fuck. I ended up walking away from her.

    So boys......What is your take on this? How would you respond...etc? Just want an open discussion.

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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    How would you respond...etc?
    I'm thrown by the entire conversation. Things sure got overly-familiar really fast. Did these people all know each other to quickly display resentment? Is this a high school graduation party with a mix of adults and teenagers? These statements seem so crude to me, sorry.

    Apparently you know Girl #1 to have said what you said to her? See, I don't have enough information about prior connections between these various people to figure out who has the right to say any of this to each other. Just reading this cold, it sounds like everyone is sick of each other.

    At my age, I don't see these conversations. But, if I were there and at my age, after Girl #1 told me her derisive "Oh, she is pretty" in response to my inquiry, maybe I'd lightly say with a polite smile, "Yes, she is, isn't she?" and receive her derisiveness as my cue to veer away from her. In a crowd, I've learned to avoid engaging such people, keep moving, and suss out the situation.
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    The cunts where definately jealous that you where asking about her in particular and not them. I’ve encountered pretty boring cunts too, I fucked this Cambodian dime piece, but she litterally was incapable of holding a normal conversation, the sex was great, but I swear she had no soul. Anyway, you did the right thing by walking away, you even did my favorite meme on the cunts.



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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    I'm thrown by the entire conversation. Things sure got overly-familiar really fast. Did these people all know each other to quickly display resentment? Is this a high school graduation party with a mix of adults and teenagers? These statements seem so crude to me, sorry.

    Apparently you know Girl #1 to have said what you said to her? See, I don't have enough information about prior connections between these various people to figure out who has the right to say any of this to each other. Just reading this cold, it sounds like everyone is sick of each other.

    At my age, I don't see these conversations. But, if I were there and at my age, after Girl #1 told me her derisive "Oh, she is pretty" in response to my inquiry, maybe I'd lightly say with a polite smile, "Yes, she is, isn't she?" and receive her derisiveness as my cue to veer away from her. In a crowd, I've learned to avoid engaging such people, keep moving, and suss out the situation.
    It was my buddy's daughter's(my niece) and her boyfriend's graduation party. It was all by invite only. Most of knew each other except I obvious didnt know all of her high school nimwit friends. There were adults there and we were all cool with each other for the most part.

    I grew up with Girl #1. She is a total stuck up bitch that thinks she is all that. Think Alicia Silverstone in "Clueless' movie mixed with Regina from "Mean Girls". Yes dude. That fucking bad.

    The other girl that jumped in is the typical obese and ugly broad that thinks she is all that with a total confrontational attitude problem.

    I do not hate or technically have any major issues with them but they always make me out like I am some sort of monster.

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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    Quote Originally Posted by #Redpillbible View Post
    The cunts where definately jealous that you where asking about her in particular and not them. I’ve encountered pretty boring cunts too, I fucked this Cambodian dime piece, but she litterally was incapable of holding a normal conversation, the sex was great, but I swear she had no soul. Anyway, you did the right thing by walking away, you even did my favorite meme on the cunts.




    I was thinking jealousy. Just wanted another man's point of view. Girl #1 thinks she friend zoned me. NO FUCKING WAY. I friend zoned her and she didn't like it in high school. She also got mad and did the typical shaming tactic of "Oh I thinks he is gay" since I didn't want her. Please. I may not have the best luck with women but I have my self respect.

    Wanna laugh? Her own mother even jokes when Girl#1 leaves the room. She jokingly says "Ok everyone. We can breathe now".

    I said it once and I swear you can write it on my tombstone "WOMEN ARE COLD CALLOUS BITCHES!". I find women boring and honestly have no use for them anymore.

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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    Yeah...can't add much except to agree. Jealousy is the most likely reason.

    Not that they all want you...but they sure as hell want you making a fuss over them - rather than showing any interest in somebody that isn't them. They all got dressed up for the night out...and in their minds, they have done you a favour by doing that and being there. Even the one's that don't want you, want your attention before they dismiss you.

    In my experience, you'll also usually find that when you are told that someone is too good for you, it doesn't take long to find out that, in fact, the complete opposite is true.

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    I do not hate or technically have any major issues with them but they always make me out like I am some sort of monster.
    They're bullying you. You're an easy target because they believe they'll get the same outcome every time they gang up on you, because they must. The tactics they appear to use are simple grade school level stuff. The best thing to do is to avoid them. Give them enough time for their own bad karma to catch up with them. If obligated to go to the same parties as them, stay away from them and don't try to hide it. Don't make it obvious, but don't hide it either. They'll become more predatory in their actions trying to get their narcissistic rush, and other people will start to notice. See if that works.

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    In my entire LIFE I never got any "help" from "women" regarding "women"! Bypass all of them and float your own boat! In fact I've had women ruin my chances with other women more times than I can remember!

    I'm just glad I'm done with them! Fuck the parties! I have my own shit to do!

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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    In my entire LIFE I never got any "help" from "women" regarding "women"! Bypass all of them and float your own boat! In fact I've had women ruin my chances with other women more times than I can remember!

    I'm just glad I'm done with them! Fuck the parties! I have my own shit to do!
    By ruining your chances with other women, dont you think they actually ended up helping you... in the long run atleast ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by rkspsm View Post
    By ruining your chances with other women, dont you think they actually ended up helping you... in the long run atleast ?
    No, long run and short run, women haven't had a good return on my investment, so I removed myself from that failure of a market. Burning my money and throwing away my time is less effort!

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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    How I would have handled the situation is completely different. I would have handed the graduate a card, shook their hand, finished a piece of cake and left. I have yet to have anything advantageous come from a social event like that, so I do not waste my time on them. But that is just me.

    Based on your write up, bitch 1 and 2 hated you for not offering your interest (and by proxy your resources) to them. They knew that they were not going to get any attention from you. If you had completely ignored bitch 1 and 2 and directly approached boring chick, bitch 1 and 2 would still hate you for ignoring them and depriving them of attention. So, I ask you what you could have possibly gained from interacting with bitch 1 and 2?

    I have learned that dealing with whimyn is a rigged zero-sum game. If you have zero resources to offer her, guess what that makes you?

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    It cracks me up when women are at a table with an eligible bachelor in their presence. They're sweet as pie until you talk to or about the wrong girl. That woman that was so "pretty" was probably the envy of every woman at the table...and you noticed her. I'm surprised they all didn't gang up on you and throw you out of a window.
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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    I've written this having read only the OP's first post.

    The bints were uppity, because she was hotter than they. You refused to buckle to the peanut gallery's will and found yet another AWALT.

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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    Im new to MGTOW, and I am trying to avoid social events with women present. When I do go, I find men to talk to. I got suck at a neighborhood BBQ with just a few men on the plantation working to make mommy happy, and actually talked to my 60 yr old lesbian neighbor most of the time because I like her and to avoid a divorced post wall ugly landwhale that has tried to get me to go Line dancing with her. The Lesbian knew, and gave me cover. She is cool

    In your case, I think the observations thus far have been spot on. In the future, I too would avoid these encounters, just wasted time. HOWEVER I will just add one more factor, FEAR. The two women at your table know they are less desirable than Emily, and if you got her attention their value is less because they have already rated you. They actually feared Emily would like you

    I will try to make an analogy via Real estate. These two have you bank qualified to buy a 150k house, these two think they are worth 200k, but Emily 275k. If Emily sells at 150K. the two at your table are worth $125k tops, 40% less than they pride themselves. That must scare the sh!t out of them, because they devalue EVERYDAY. Everyday these nags are worth less and less.

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    It's one of those "It is what it is" moments. Period
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    Re: How do you handle this? I need all the guys input

    Quote Originally Posted by Knarley Bob View Post
    It's one of those "It is what it is" moments. Period
    That's about the size of it. There's a hundred ways to lose in the blue pill world.

    You did right to attend though, even if it turned out to be a bust. It wasn't your friends intention to have these losers give you a hard time. Shows that the plantation's still trying, even if their not having much luck with MGTOWFOREVER.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    I went to a graduation party with a ton of people....
    That was your mistake...

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    BTW, I ended up going over to the girl and talking to her. She was boring as fuck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    It cracks me up when women are at a table with an eligible bachelor in their presence. They're sweet as pie until you talk to or about the wrong girl. That woman that was so "pretty" was probably the envy of every woman at the table...and you noticed her. I'm surprised they all didn't gang up on you and throw you out of a window.
    This reminded me of this time at a job. I was working with this Spanish girl who was pleasant and quite upbeat. Then a new temporary staff arrived and had to collect work near my area. The new girl had some questions and we started talking. It turned out we had quite a lot in common. After this, the other girl I was working with suddenly, and completely changed. She was frowning, snapping at me, slamming cabinet doors, and became really aggressive. The upbeat vibe was gone and she was also passive aggressive to the new girl. Since I knew why, it was easy for me to not react.

    To top all of this off, the girl that became aggressive was in a long term relationship so technically none of this should have bothered her....but of course we all know better. Things got even funnier when the new girl started inquiring about my status
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    I came to the realization that they are jealous of me. I have free time and never ever worry about money. They struggle and are parasites. Its why they bitch at me for not dating, "being too good for me", and not having kids. I'm very independent and they have to rely on the government, child support, and others to help them out.

    Wanna laugh?

    Girl # 1 is a bitch with 4 kids that lives off child support , food stamps, and other people but yet always wants to go out to the club and expects others to buy her drinks. People make out like she is such a catch. No thank you.

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    "A catch" of what? The shitz?
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