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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

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    The most reliable husband a girl can have, these days, is Big Daddy Government.

    I've said this before: this is the way white people destroyed native cultures again and again, by supplying food and blankets to women and children. Because fathers carry the culture forward. Women are short-sighted: they see only the people they immediately interact with. In excellent detail, but that's as far as it goes. Their primary concern is their own bodies, and those of their children when they are infants. Anything long-range, men do.

    Australian Aborigine culture, like most premodern cultures, is built out of secrets. Privileged information. For instance: a premodern man literally cannot cook a meal from raw ingredients. Just wouldn't know how to do it. Doesn't know the secret of how to make bread, doesn't know what herbs go in the stew. And this information is jealously guarded: women will chase thier husbands out of the kitchen with a ladle if they start getting curious. For another example: trade guilds.

    Men, likewise in these cultures, have secrets. Among the aboriginies, the way they held territory was not so much by war and fighting (which, of course, they did), but by knowing where the waterholes are. And this information was secret, held by the men. To reduce inbreeding (always a problem), tribes would intermarry. But it was always the woman who would move and go to another tribe.

    You know those aboriginal paintings? Some of them are "secret dreamings", not to be shared with outsiders. I bet those ones are maps. Very symbolic, of course, but maps none the same.

    So. Imagine the impact on this culture of white civilisation. This secret knowledge about the (literal) land, the (literal) terrain basically is the culture. Half of it, anyway. Food and blankets for the women and children, roads and maps for the men. Gone. All gone. No wonder they are all sniffing petrol - what else is there for a young man to look forward to? (And let's not overlook how the white man's food and healthcare undercuts the role of the women).

    And, as I said, we are now doing it to ourselves. Household mechanisation to destroy the distinctive role of the wife as homemaker, and job instability to destroy the role of the husband as provider. Why marry? Why form a family at all?
    Even the jobs were different .

    While in Soviet Union as a kid i never hear my dad or mom complain about their job not even one time . Never heard my boss this and that is an asshole . Not one single time .

    After Soviet almighty Union collapsed it was the only thing i would hear - work sucks and no money .


    Same happened in my life later , there was nothing else going in my life since my first real job only problems at work . Nothing else .

    All artificially created out of thin air when there were none .
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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    All my relatives said that they did not think of not having children because of:

    Great Depression
    WWII
    Multiple recessions
    etc, etc, etc.

    The common denominator was that society was built differently back then. Women and men cooperated to build a family aka marriage 1.0 and marriage 2.0 under this structured framework provided by society whether rich or poor.

    The current economy is doing better and yet where are the rising rates of births? Men are not marrying women in record numbers. Women are still choosing to ride the carousel and the same jobs they did 50 years ago (nursing, education).

    Current society isn't built to support marriage 1.0 or marriage 2.0. But that is okay with me!

    It means men are not bound by these rules anymore. Women haven't been bound by these rules for 50 years, so when men walk away people lose their minds. I say fuck them.

    The idea of a nuclear family doesn't exist because it isn't supported by government, society, etc. Currently what families look like is shared parenting with children and men and women having their own bank accounts and their own homes.

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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    All my relatives said that they did not think of not having children because of:

    Great Depression
    WWII
    Multiple recessions
    etc, etc, etc.

    The common denominator was that society was built differently back then. Women and men cooperated to build a family aka marriage 1.0 and marriage 2.0 under this structured framework provided by society whether rich or poor.

    The current economy is doing better and yet where are the rising rates of births? Men are not marrying women in record numbers. Women are still choosing to ride the carousel and the same jobs they did 50 years ago (nursing, education).

    Current society isn't built to support marriage 1.0 or marriage 2.0. But that is okay with me!

    It means men are not bound by these rules anymore. Women haven't been bound by these rules for 50 years, so when men walk away people lose their minds. I say fuck them.

    The idea of a nuclear family doesn't exist because it isn't supported by government, society, etc. Currently what families look like is shared parenting with children and men and women having their own bank accounts and their own homes.
    The beginning of the end was industrialization. People didn't need big families anymore to look after their farms. In fact as people moved to the cities big families were a burden.

    Men and women did work together back then because the sense of community and the greater good was better and different. Now it has been corrupted into protesting for crap that actually makes society worse. Women want to play football and have corporate jobs at the expense of their men. Men still don't even know what hit them and are depressed. As you say we are no longer bound by the old rules.

    One more comment about Mr Wombat's post (sorry I don't know how to link the name of the user) one of the unintended consequences of feminism is that men started to take care of themselves. My grandfather could barely boil an egg and didn't know how to use the washing machine. I can do those things and much, much more. I don't need a woman to take care of me. That is also what is happening in society. Men don't need women anymore.

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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    I've read a fair bit about the decline of marriage and reproduction rates...

    Yes, some men are MGTOW AF and some men just have ZERO interest in marriage. But, if you ask young men what they value, most still say they eventually want a family and children.

    So why is it not happening?

    It's socioeconomic. Women are getting MORE educated and are seeing their earnings increase, while men are getting fewer degrees and lose traditional jobs and are earning less. Marriage is ultimately reserved for the people who can afford it, or BELIEVE they can afford it. Women are finding there is a "man shortage", aka guys making $100K a year in the trades used to be an attractive prospect, but now the whimminz are making $100K with their uni degree and want a man with a DOCTORATE making $200 - $300K. The same femicunts who tell us to marry our financial equals (else get ridiculed when we get divorce raped) are the first in line to dismiss all men who do not make 50 to 100% more than they do.

    I recall one video from a "woke female" of sorts who called bullshit on her girlfriends. They all TALKED about egalitarianism, and how his wages didn't matter, and they'd even date someone who made less... but when it came to finding partners, all of the usual requirements still applied: tall, handsome, fit, ambitious, well educated, well off. She was quick to point out that all of her friend's feminist rhetoric went straight out the window when it came to reality and the true hypergamous nature of females.

    Stats show that with wealthier people, they are still getting married and having kids. BUT, (big but) the financial threshold for this to happen is getting higher and higher. Marriage and children is now an option only for a small percentage of men.

    This may be an oversimplification, but I believe the hypergamy gap is growing as women make more while more and more men say "fuck it" to ambition and the risks of the divorce meat grinder. An average woman with a degree now wants an exceptional man with an exceptional degree or degrees. As always, the guys in her own classes and discipline and earning level are just other women as far as she's concerned. Gals in the mail room have never dated guys in the mail room, and they never will.

    Even men who do get degrees and $100K+ salaries find that women will look down their nose at them for being merely equal. Women only respect (and envy) their betters. It's just how they are wired.
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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    I've read a fair bit about the decline of marriage and reproduction rates...

    Yes, some men are MGTOW AF and some men just have ZERO interest in marriage. But, if you ask young men what they value, most still say they eventually want a family and children.

    So why is it not happening?

    It's socioeconomic. Women are getting MORE educated and are seeing their earnings increase, while men are getting fewer degrees and lose traditional jobs and are earning less. Marriage is ultimately reserved for the people who can afford it, or BELIEVE they can afford it. Women are finding there is a "man shortage", aka guys making $100K a year in the trades used to be an attractive prospect, but now the whimminz are making $100K with their uni degree and want a man with a DOCTORATE making $200 - $300K. The same femicunts who tell us to marry our financial equals (else get ridiculed when we get divorce raped) are the first in line to dismiss all men who do not make 50 to 100% more than they do.

    I recall one video from a "woke female" of sorts who called bullshit on her girlfriends. They all TALKED about egalitarianism, and how his wages didn't matter, and they'd even date someone who made less... but when it came to finding partners, all of the usual requirements still applied: tall, handsome, fit, ambitious, well educated, well off. She was quick to point out that all of her friend's feminist rhetoric went straight out the window when it came to reality and the true hypergamous nature of females.

    Stats show that with wealthier people, they are still getting married and having kids. BUT, (big but) the financial threshold for this to happen is getting higher and higher. Marriage and children is now an option only for a small percentage of men.

    This may be an oversimplification, but I believe the hypergamy gap is growing as women make more while more and more men say "fuck it" to ambition and the risks of the divorce meat grinder. An average woman with a degree now wants an exceptional man with an exceptional degree or degrees. As always, the guys in her own classes and discipline and earning level are just other women as far as she's concerned. Gals in the mail room have never dated guys in the mail room, and they never will.

    Even men who do get degrees and $100K+ salaries find that women will look down their nose at them for being merely equal. Women only respect (and envy) their betters. It's just how they are wired.
    When there is a job that requires your exceptional degree ... an Asian dude will get it

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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    The most reliable husband a girl can have, these days, is Big Daddy Government.
    (...)
    And, as I said, we are now doing it to ourselves. Household mechanisation to destroy the distinctive role of the wife as homemaker, and job instability to destroy the role of the husband as provider. Why marry? Why form a family at all?
    Whoa. You lit up a step prior to centralization of power. Automation... you're right. I had not thought of this. That pushed women out of their classical role leaving them with no social niche to fill. At least not a complete one. The household became part time work. And so the desire to be relevant started for them, which... directly led to womens suffrage and feminism. Then the path to where we are started as early as the late 1800's. The timeline becomes more clear.

    And the reliability of state/society as a provider draws them to it like a moth to a flame.
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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    For some, it’s the bullshit. You realize early on that Santa Claus is bullshit. The Easter bunny is bullshit. Little Jesus bringing you presents for Christmas is bullshit. School preparing you for life is bullshit. By the time your folks force you to visit church you might be at the point where you are secretly looking forward to the day when you can finally stop participating in that bullshit.

    And one day: phew, it’s over! It only took 15-20 years of your life you will never get back. Kindergarten, schools, church: You are out! Or so you think, not yet fully realizing that you are surrounded by layers and layers of institutions that were designed to take you in and lock you up. You find yourself showing up at some shitty job every day for years. It’s a fucking Monday again. Brings back happy memories of your days in school—NOT. You hate Mondays. Not that Tuesdays are any better. Or Wednesdays. Or Thursdays. Come to think of it, you hate Fridays, too, because you only have three more days until the next fucking Monday. Saturday? Two more days! Sunday? The end is nigh! Too bad it’s just the end of the week. Back to waking up two dozen times during the nights only to look at the alarm clock and think “shit, I have to get up soon”. Not because you are so keen to leave for work, no, just to prevent the alarm from going off. You hate its sound as much as the seven Groundhog Days that your calendar has become. So you leave for work. Hey, is that an Arbeit macht frei sign over the entrance of your workplace, or are you just tired from the lack of sleep? It becomes increasingly hard for you to deny what your gut keeps telling you: work is yet another bullshit. And once you are there, ambition and achievements start to look like bullshit of the “look at me, look at meee” kind. You begin to wonder, whom are you trying to impress? And why? And why should you even bother?

    If you are this far out, there is no way stopping you from slipping out of the man made world. One day you are looking out your room window, the beams of the setting sun are hitting the roofs in a strange way, and bam, you find yourself in an alien world. Houses, cars, streets… What are these? Why are these? Living the way we live…why? You can hear swallows chirping outside, and you can see a cat dozing off. Dolphins pop into your mind, swimming in oceans many miles deep. Monkeys jumping from tree to tree. Trees just living where they took root. And not one of these has to wake up the next day only to go through the shit we humans force each other to do. What the hell are we doing here?

    The whole thing is over in a minute. It does not matter, your bullshit detector just won’t quit. Everywhere you turn you see bullshit. Lies, illusions, delusions. Feel-good bullshit. “Man is the crown of creation.” Bullshit. You open a newspaper, “…we are building a better future…”, and you imagine a priest of the Religion of Progress with BULLSHIT written all over his blinders. You see a police car and you read “bullshit” where it says “to protect and serve”. “Politicians represent the people”: bullshit. And so on and on. Everything others find sacred, you see as trash.

    Everything…? It turns out you are still holding out for women. You still have faith in them, if nothing else. They are your last link to this world. Until your bullshit detector says, buddy, let me do my job, you are getting old, it is time for you to let go of this phantasy, too. Women are bullshit. Your love for them is bullshit, too, nature’s dirty trick to make the farce go on. And your bullshit detector hasn’t quite finished yet…



    OK, enjoy life if you can. Just cut the bullshit.

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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Quote Originally Posted by Zoidberg View Post
    For some, it’s the bullshit. You realize early on that Santa Claus is bullshit. The Easter bunny is bullshit. Little Jesus bringing you presents for Christmas is bullshit. School preparing you for life is bullshit. By the time your folks force you to visit church you might be at the point where you are secretly looking forward to the day when you can finally stop participating in that bullshit.

    And one day: phew, it’s over! It only took 15-20 years of your life you will never get back. Kindergarten, schools, church: You are out! Or so you think, not yet fully realizing that you are surrounded by layers and layers of institutions that were designed to take you in and lock you up. You find yourself showing up at some shitty job every day for years. It’s a fucking Monday again. Brings back happy memories of your days in school—NOT. You hate Mondays. Not that Tuesdays are any better. Or Wednesdays. Or Thursdays. Come to think of it, you hate Fridays, too, because you only have three more days until the next fucking Monday. Saturday? Two more days! Sunday? The end is nigh! Too bad it’s just the end of the week. Back to waking up two dozen times during the nights only to look at the alarm clock and think “shit, I have to get up soon”. Not because you are so keen to leave for work, no, just to prevent the alarm from going off. You hate its sound as much as the seven Groundhog Days that your calendar has become. So you leave for work. Hey, is that an Arbeit macht frei sign over the entrance of your workplace, or are you just tired from the lack of sleep? It becomes increasingly hard for you to deny what your gut keeps telling you: work is yet another bullshit. And once you are there, ambition and achievements start to look like bullshit of the “look at me, look at meee” kind. You begin to wonder, whom are you trying to impress? And why? And why should you even bother?

    If you are this far out, there is no way stopping you from slipping out of the man made world. One day you are looking out your room window, the beams of the setting sun are hitting the roofs in a strange way, and bam, you find yourself in an alien world. Houses, cars, streets… What are these? Why are these? Living the way we live…why? You can hear swallows chirping outside, and you can see a cat dozing off. Dolphins pop into your mind, swimming in oceans many miles deep. Monkeys jumping from tree to tree. Trees just living where they took root. And not one of these has to wake up the next day only to go through the shit we humans force each other to do. What the hell are we doing here?

    The whole thing is over in a minute. It does not matter, your bullshit detector just won’t quit. Everywhere you turn you see bullshit. Lies, illusions, delusions. Feel-good bullshit. “Man is the crown of creation.” Bullshit. You open a newspaper, “…we are building a better future…”, and you imagine a priest of the Religion of Progress with BULLSHIT written all over his blinders. You see a police car and you read “bullshit” where it says “to protect and serve”. “Politicians represent the people”: bullshit. And so on and on. Everything others find sacred, you see as trash.

    Everything…? It turns out you are still holding out for women. You still have faith in them, if nothing else. They are your last link to this world. Until your bullshit detector says, buddy, let me do my job, you are getting old, it is time for you to let go of this phantasy, too. Women are bullshit. Your love for them is bullshit, too, nature’s dirty trick to make the farce go on. And your bullshit detector hasn’t quite finished yet…



    OK, enjoy life if you can. Just cut the bullshit.
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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Quote Originally Posted by O.G. View Post
    Exactly !!!

    If you catch yourself thinking like what Zoidberg wrote it is really a time to tell mister Hackett to go fuck himself !


    If you feel like that its either you change what has to be changed , not the world , but what pisses you the most about yourself .

    Or you are done .


    I think i wrote it to Puggsy when he asked me something about office politics or something , i said - anybody without a gun in your mouth can go fuck himself straight forward ...

    Or it will never end .
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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Quote Originally Posted by AeternusDoleo View Post
    … The household became part time work. And so the desire to be relevant started for them, which... directly led to womens suffrage and feminism. Then the path to where we are started as early as the late 1800's. The timeline becomes more clear.
    It also becomes more clear why Women's Suffrage was the hobby of the middle class wife. Even prior to household electrification, these were people who had servants to do the housework. People with literally nothing to do all day.

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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Feminists say women don't need a man. Many are angry, hateful people who can't even convince a CAT to stick around. Yet, these women now are OH SO CONCERNED with the unpaid "domestic work" and "emotional labor" that women work up a sweat doing every. single. day. with their male partners.

    Why do they care about partnered women anyways? If women have autonomy, why don't they just get a new bf/husband? Relationships are disposable as fuck now anyways. She could even find a female that is obsessed with cleaning and emotional giving as much as she is - hell they can even do wine and sixty-nine.

    I do ALL of my own housework. NOBODY will ever pay me a dime to do my own fucking laundry, and the day I pay some bitch to do hers is never or over my dead body.
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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    If 80% of the women are still looking for that 20% of men that will have them, guess what? I think that number is down to more like 5% and that's why the wymenzz are upset. Yes, it's socio-economic, and it's a result of feminism's glorious past. You've come a long way baby! Don't stop now...keep going until you're out of sight. Bye!
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    It began with governments. Feminist/Suffrage movements picked up after each major/world war. All the men get shipped off and die, the countries still need producers and wealth to fleece from its citizenry, so the women work. The governments realize they can fleece more wealth from its population if they keep the women working also, so they do that. Through social engineering, they destroyed the natural family unit, where before men, not their governments, ran things.

    Governments want the men to stay emasculated and docile, because they are easier to control, and will not revolt if they are so neutered. They put flouride in the water to lower your testosterone, and use the force of law to fund single mothers (with the fathers' money) raising all the children that never learn aggression, competition and critical reasoning from the males.

    That brings us to where we are today

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anarchon View Post
    It began with governments. Feminist/Suffrage movements picked up after each major/world war. All the men get shipped off and die, the countries still need producers and wealth to fleece from its citizenry, so the women work. The governments realize they can fleece more wealth from its population if they keep the women working also, so they do that. Through social engineering, they destroyed the natural family unit, where before men, not their governments, ran things.

    Governments want the men to stay emasculated and docile, because they are easier to control, and will not revolt if they are so neutered. They put flouride in the water to lower your testosterone, and use the force of law to fund single mothers (with the fathers' money) raising all the children that never learn aggression, competition and critical reasoning from the males.

    That brings us to where we are today
    Have I got your attention yet, Anarchon? You are posting in several places but have not provided a valid Intro. Read this:

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    A trend that I have noticed is that women with money will shag men that are broke as fuck or basically homeless because they want to "fix him". But they will not committ because it means they will be putting their money on the line. And women, really, really, dislike giving men their own money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    A trend that I have noticed is that women with money will shag men that are broke as fuck or basically homeless because they want to "fix him". But they will not committ because it means they will be putting their money on the line. And women, really, really, dislike giving men their own money.
    I suspect that the "want to fix him" is nothing more than hamsterbation covering the fact that the homeless guy gave them "gina tingles".

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    Quote Originally Posted by ABigSiameseCat View Post
    I suspect that the "want to fix him" is nothing more than hamsterbation covering the fact that the homeless guy gave them "gina tingles".
    You are correct as that is a way for these women to not lose social cred within their circle of friends and family. Social currency is like gold to women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    You are correct as that is a way for these women to not lose social cred within their circle of friends and family. Social currency is like gold to women.
    I think the concept of "Social currency" is a very powerful one in explaining female behaviors that otherwise appear completely pointless and self defeating such as the pursuit of the top 10% of males even if the woman is average to less than average in appearance or is rapidly approaching the wall. Being pumped and dumped by an upper 10% male gives her social cred but being seen with a beta wallet costs her a lot of social cred and so is to be avoided.

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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    A trend that I have noticed is that women with money will shag men that are broke as fuck or basically homeless because they want to "fix him". But they will not committ because it means they will be putting their money on the line. And women, really, really, dislike giving men their own money.
    When she is herself not broke which 90% of women are .

    When she is herself not broke then she looks for the guy she really likes .

    Maybe a gym guy , maybe a guitar guy , a black teenager, a mexican construction worker ...of course a big dick guy ... whatever gives her tingles .

    You see all the rich men in her circle are softies and even if not people from your circle are not interesting to you . And even if they are you cant gag on their dick or give them rim jobs .

    While guys from off your circle you can do whatever and they give you tingles but at the same time you dont care about them and they cant hurt you . Because their opinion doesnt matter .


    I do the same with older women . I lust for them but they i care zero for them and their opinion doesnt matter at all . They cant hurt me .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: The growing trend - is it just women that make men go their own way? Or socio-economic causes too?

    Quote Originally Posted by Zoidberg View Post
    For some, it’s the bullshit. You realize early on that Santa Claus is bullshit. The Easter bunny is bullshit. Little Jesus bringing you presents for Christmas is bullshit. School preparing you for life is bullshit. By the time your folks force you to visit church you might be at the point where you are secretly looking forward to the day when you can finally stop participating in that bullshit.

    And one day: phew, it’s over! It only took 15-20 years of your life you will never get back. Kindergarten, schools, church: You are out! Or so you think, not yet fully realizing that you are surrounded by layers and layers of institutions that were designed to take you in and lock you up. You find yourself showing up at some shitty job every day for years. It’s a fucking Monday again. Brings back happy memories of your days in school—NOT. You hate Mondays. Not that Tuesdays are any better. Or Wednesdays. Or Thursdays. Come to think of it, you hate Fridays, too, because you only have three more days until the next fucking Monday. Saturday? Two more days! Sunday? The end is nigh! Too bad it’s just the end of the week. Back to waking up two dozen times during the nights only to look at the alarm clock and think “shit, I have to get up soon”. Not because you are so keen to leave for work, no, just to prevent the alarm from going off. You hate its sound as much as the seven Groundhog Days that your calendar has become. So you leave for work. Hey, is that an Arbeit macht frei sign over the entrance of your workplace, or are you just tired from the lack of sleep? It becomes increasingly hard for you to deny what your gut keeps telling you: work is yet another bullshit. And once you are there, ambition and achievements start to look like bullshit of the “look at me, look at meee” kind. You begin to wonder, whom are you trying to impress? And why? And why should you even bother?

    If you are this far out, there is no way stopping you from slipping out of the man made world. One day you are looking out your room window, the beams of the setting sun are hitting the roofs in a strange way, and bam, you find yourself in an alien world. Houses, cars, streets… What are these? Why are these? Living the way we live…why? You can hear swallows chirping outside, and you can see a cat dozing off. Dolphins pop into your mind, swimming in oceans many miles deep. Monkeys jumping from tree to tree. Trees just living where they took root. And not one of these has to wake up the next day only to go through the shit we humans force each other to do. What the hell are we doing here?

    The whole thing is over in a minute. It does not matter, your bullshit detector just won’t quit. Everywhere you turn you see bullshit. Lies, illusions, delusions. Feel-good bullshit. “Man is the crown of creation.” Bullshit. You open a newspaper, “…we are building a better future…”, and you imagine a priest of the Religion of Progress with BULLSHIT written all over his blinders. You see a police car and you read “bullshit” where it says “to protect and serve”. “Politicians represent the people”: bullshit. And so on and on. Everything others find sacred, you see as trash.

    Everything…? It turns out you are still holding out for women. You still have faith in them, if nothing else. They are your last link to this world. Until your bullshit detector says, buddy, let me do my job, you are getting old, it is time for you to let go of this phantasy, too. Women are bullshit. Your love for them is bullshit, too, nature’s dirty trick to make the farce go on. And your bullshit detector hasn’t quite finished yet…

    OK, enjoy life if you can. Just cut the bullshit.
    Awesome post! This really lifted me up. It reminds me of the epiphany Eckhart Tolle describes in the preface of his masterpiece The Power Of Now.
    The less you need, the more powerful you are.


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