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    More about my friend Matt

    It's late and I can't sleep so lemme pour a second cup of coffee and tell you what happened to Matt after his baby mama left him with their daughter.

    It took years for his baby mom to ding him for child support but by 2011 she had him paying and got him paying 10 years in retro because by then their kid was like 13 years old. She never asked him for the money then a decade later sues him retroactively for 11 years of child support. You guys in your late teens and early 20s getting chicks knocked up, you remember this story when you can't pay your rent because your baby mom who you dated for like a year way back when is using your entire paycheck to buy shooters on ladies night at the dive bar with her new boyfriend at home babysitting your kid. Everyone loses but your ex.

    So after they broke up Matt got together with a younger chick named Martha. They were together the last 10 years and they also had a boy together. After I split with my wife though Marsha started preparing to leave Matt. She had been talking about leaving him lots and she was going out without him all the time, being secretive with her phone, always texting on it and leaving Mark at home with their son all the time. Turns out she was hanging out with a couple girls from the old hood who went to high school with us and they were doing cocain with a whole new circle of friends. Crackheads.

    Martha kicks Matt out of the apartment so he has to move in with his folks. She fails to pay the rent and turns the place into a dump with coke parties. When he's finally allowed to get in to move out because the rent wasn't paid, everything was gone. She gave away all his nice clothes to the dudes she was partying with, and pawned everything else for drug money.

    Now, listen to this. She quit her job, didnt pay the rent, pawned everything they owned, then took their kid and disappeared out of town(kidnapping). Who get's custody? Martha of course. No one even knew where the child was during a two month period and when she ran out of money the court got Matt paying her rather then arrest her and seize the child!

    Now Matt ain't got shit. He got his job but no money because it now goes to two baby mamas with two kids he will never see again and he lives with his own mama and his son will grow up being taught what a piece of shit he is just like his daughter was taught during the previous ten years. The cycle continues.

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    DAMN, that's depressing as hell...I hope he can get out from under those boulders when the kids turn 18.
    Hammerhead

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    There's a part of me that says, "Well, that's the price he pays for having a dick more powerful than his brain." But, still, I can't help but be sorry for the guy. A hell of a price to pay for so human a weakness.

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    Quote Originally Posted by Happy_Hour View Post
    It's late and I can't sleep so lemme pour a second cup of coffee and tell you what happened to Matt after his baby mama left him with their daughter.

    It took years for his baby mom to ding him for child support but by 2011 she had him paying and got him paying 10 years in retro because by then their kid was like 13 years old. She never asked him for the money then a decade later sues him retroactively for 11 years of child support. You guys in your late teens and early 20s getting chicks knocked up, you remember this story when you can't pay your rent because your baby mom who you dated for like a year way back when is using your entire paycheck to buy shooters on ladies night at the dive bar with her new boyfriend at home babysitting your kid. Everyone loses but your ex.

    So after they broke up Matt got together with a younger chick named Martha. They were together the last 10 years and they also had a boy together. After I split with my wife though Marsha started preparing to leave Matt. She had been talking about leaving him lots and she was going out without him all the time, being secretive with her phone, always texting on it and leaving Mark at home with their son all the time. Turns out she was hanging out with a couple girls from the old hood who went to high school with us and they were doing cocain with a whole new circle of friends. Crackheads.

    Martha kicks Matt out of the apartment so he has to move in with his folks. She fails to pay the rent and turns the place into a dump with coke parties. When he's finally allowed to get in to move out because the rent wasn't paid, everything was gone. She gave away all his nice clothes to the dudes she was partying with, and pawned everything else for drug money.

    Now, listen to this. She quit her job, didnt pay the rent, pawned everything they owned, then took their kid and disappeared out of town(kidnapping). Who get's custody? Martha of course. No one even knew where the child was during a two month period and when she ran out of money the court got Matt paying her rather then arrest her and seize the child!

    Now Matt ain't got shit. He got his job but no money because it now goes to two baby mamas with two kids he will never see again and he lives with his own mama and his son will grow up being taught what a piece of shit he is just like his daughter was taught during the previous ten years. The cycle continues.
    Stories like this make me so fucking pissed, and I don't get angry a lot, I've always flirted with the idea that women are not intentionally terrible people but rather naturally, but reading this makes you question that.

    If I were Matt I would have fled the country, or gotten photo evidence of how much of a fuck up she is.

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    When a person (a male in this case) financially supports immoral acts, they are in fact being immoral themselves.

    That many of the immoral acts are done at his expense adds insult to injury.

    Solution: Become an Absconder. This is not a worry-free, stress-free, life choice. But it should completely solve all the worst parts of his situation.

    but, who am i?
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    p.s. i resent being a "senior member" - I'm not that old, or am I?

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    What I would do in this situation is simply quit and refuse to pay alimony and child support. Think about it - if you don't pay, the gov't still pays the baby mama. She becomes a burden on the system. Now the gov't next course of action is to throw me in jail. Then I become a burden on the system. If they try to make me work in prison for pennies I say no, and simply refuse. Now baby mama AND baby daddy are BOTH burdens on the system. If enough men do this, the system will be in trouble as the bills will have to be paid by pussy begging white knight manginae and women.

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    Quote Originally Posted by hellgorama View Post
    ..... to throw me in jail.
    Agreed on all points.

    Another option is to not let them arrest & jail you at all. Go "full absconder" mode.

    Doing this makes a person's life 10,000x better. Better than working your fingers to the bone, only to pay-pay-pay (called a wage-slave) &; Better than rotting in jail.
    If misery loves company; Happiness requires Bachelorhood

    p.s. i resent being a "senior member" - I'm not that old, or am I?

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    Quote Originally Posted by hellgorama View Post
    She becomes a burden on the system. Now the gov't next course of action is to throw me in jail. Then I become a burden on the system. .


    When you say, "the system," you mean the system that makes all taxpayers, which is mostly men, pay to support the bastards of Chad Thundercock.

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post
    When you say, "the system," you mean the system that makes all taxpayers, which is mostly men, pay to support the bastards of Chad Thundercock.
    Who could deny ?

    The most taxpayers can possibly contribute is to maybe pay the fraction of interest on national debt .

    No country is run on taxes collected anymore.

    20 thousand billion trillions of national debt ( to china ) kinda makes it all funny .


    PS. You do not pay taxes . It gets collected from you so there is nothing to boast about "i pay taxes , i pay taxes " . Like you have a choice .

    But i hope im wrong .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    WHen I say I mean the whole shebang - gov't, corporations, the whole socio-economic system of the West. I become 1 less labor unit they can exploit in the given my course of action.

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    Re: More about my friend Matt

    Hi Gents,
    Tell your buddy Matt to go check out all of Popp's You tube stuff.
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwd...EQt6SEeOO2tBRA.


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