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    Female friends are just as trash

    Every single female friend I've had over the years was a piece of garbage in disguise. No exceptions. All of them asked for favors, but never gave anything in return. Also, they kept none of my secrets or anything I told them in private and gossiped the shit out of me each time I wasn't present. And most of them grew resentful towards me over the years. Not only that but they expected me to treat them like a queen, do them favors, drive them around, fix their shit and of course be emotional support. When I tried to ask them for anything, they suddently weren't available for help and sometimes I had to become very pushy to get some favors back which they did with half a heart.

    Another fun fact with those bitches was that when I was single they always disrespected me in public, treated me like trash or made fun of me. All this behavior magically disappeared when I was in a relationship. They started to become nicer, touchier, more emotional towards me, some of them made sexual moves as well and some even fell in love with me. They also treated me respectfully and admired me. All these, disappeared the moment I became single and they started to treat me like trash again.

    Bottom line, in all of my female friendships I was the only one to give and never received shit from them. Fuck them.

    Just wanted to let this out of my chest and if anyone had similar experiences please share.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Nino ! Are you Nino Serdarusic maybe ?
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    Nino ! Are you Nino Serdarusic maybe ?
    Nino is the spanish word for boy or child

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    You need to post an intro, but basically, your female 'friends' were, in fact' frienemies' who thought you subordinate to them and unworthy of being loved by a female, and just kept that part a secret.

    They always talk smack behind your back, especially if any of their acquaintances takes and interest in you. They will always cock block and will only be your 'friend' if you know your place as a eunuch who never asserts that he is a sexual being who is capable of romantic relationships like everyone else is.

    They are very good at that deception. It took me years to figure out that I was far beyond 'friend zoned' by the girls I though were my bro's.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Quote Originally Posted by Tangent View Post
    You need to post an intro
    Already done that mate.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    ^ groovy. will read.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Narcissists are fundamentally incapable of reciprocating relationships, there's always a self serving motive void of the ability to feel remorse, best to walk away and chalk it up to feminism and gynocentrism.

    It's a well known fact, the juice isn't worth the squeeze, can't get juice from a stone.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Hi Nino. Your story confirms a few things about female nature.

    "they expected me to treat them like a queen, do them favors, drive them around, fix their shit and of course be emotional support"
    They only look to men as providers. They expect u to buy them flowers, pay for everything and pamper their needs.

    "All of them asked for favors, but never gave anything in return"
    "When I tried to ask them for anything, they suddently weren't available for help"

    Women aren't these empathetic creatures that society tells us they are. Especially towards men

    "they kept none of my secrets or anything I told them in private and gossiped the shit out of me each time I wasn't present"
    Besides having no regard for your personal life this statement reflects the fact that women love to cause drama.
    Just look at soap operas, their shows about women causing dramas and they love it.

    "when I was single they always disrespected me in public, treated me like trash or made fun of me. All this behavior magically disappeared when I was in a relationship"
    They were basically shaming u for not working at the plantation

    "some of them made sexual moves as well and some even fell in love with me"
    Seeing a man working on another womans plantation confirms his potential to be their provider and so increasing their attraction towards you

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    What Nino is describing is the innate narcissism and entitlement of females. Why do women hate being used so much? Because from their perspective, that's their job.
    - Feminism is Cancer.
    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Quote Originally Posted by Porkncheese View Post
    Hi Nino. Your story confirms a few things about female nature.
    "they kept none of my secrets or anything I told them in private and gossiped the shit out of me each time I wasn't present"
    Besides having no regard for your personal life this statement reflects the fact that women love to cause drama.
    Just look at soap operas, their shows about women causing dramas and they love it.
    There's more to it than that.

    The currency of women's friendships is personal secrets. For women, divulging secrets to one another is the same as working or fighting together is for men.

    So a woman who wants to have friends needs to be in possession of personal secrets - the grubbier, more shameful, or damaging, the better. It's always better policy to be sharing other people's secrets rather than your own, of course, so a woman will mine people for them. This is why they are interested in emotional talk, this is why they want to get to know you: you might drop something juicy.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Quote Originally Posted by Nino View Post
    Every single female friend I've had over the years was a piece of garbage in disguise. No exceptions. All of them asked for favors, but never gave anything in return. Also, they kept none of my secrets or anything I told them in private and gossiped the shit out of me each time I wasn't present. And most of them grew resentful towards me over the years. Not only that but they expected me to treat them like a queen, do them favors, drive them around, fix their shit and of course be emotional support. When I tried to ask them for anything, they suddently weren't available for help and sometimes I had to become very pushy to get some favors back which they did with half a heart.

    Another fun fact with those bitches was that when I was single they always disrespected me in public, treated me like trash or made fun of me. All this behavior magically disappeared when I was in a relationship. They started to become nicer, touchier, more emotional towards me, some of them made sexual moves as well and some even fell in love with me. They also treated me respectfully and admired me. All these, disappeared the moment I became single and they started to treat me like trash again.

    Bottom line, in all of my female friendships I was the only one to give and never received shit from them. Fuck them.

    Just wanted to let this out of my chest and if anyone had similar experiences please share.
    I never knew how invisible I had been until I got engaged to my then-fiancee. This was years ago. All of a sudden, other women noticed me. Or, maybe they let me notice that they noticed me, who's to say. They'd flirt. I figured it was because they saw that another woman had vetted me as marriage material.

    Why would I want a woman who is too lazy to clean her own oyster to find the pearl? I didn't respect it then and I don't respect it now. Women are morons, what can I say.
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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    I've had a lot better luck with women as friends than you, though for the most part they are as bad as you say. Some were wives of friends, others were coworkers. You get lots a women coworkers working for Smokey Bear.

    I think getting older helps, young women be stone bitch's. Older ones too, but it's a little different.
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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Quote Originally Posted by Nino View Post
    Nino is the spanish word for boy or child
    El Nino
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    A female friend is just a girlfriend you don't get to fuck. Absolutely pointless.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Quote Originally Posted by I'm Gone View Post
    A female friend is just a girlfriend you don't get to fuck. Absolutely pointless.
    Most of the time yeah, but not always.

    Men who are even modestly successful with women have their pussy radar going 24/7. Every female that crosses their path gets the onceover. Specially young guys. Women never fail to notice, and if that's how you think your going to get a lot of girlfriend aggravation with or without sex.

    But after decades of failure, my pussy radar burnt out a few tubes and no longer works. Women see this too, and it may or may not work in your favor. Another thing that helped was if I became friends with one woman at work, that paved the way for further friendships.

    Most of the time they were as good a friends as the guys, not that that's saying much. There's no shortage of men who consider friendship a one way street too. You might not find many pal's among the fairer sex, but there's exceptions.
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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    I'm in the same boat as Frog. I've had alot more luck with lady friends over the years.I have some who really are good, solid friends. We're all in our 40's now, so they have entire lives that have nothing to do with me (which I like, personally) so I'm not overloaded with their issues or drama, and neither are they overloaded with mine. So we get to be good friends, without any of the codependence.


    It is very much an age thing. There were a few like you described, where I was the one doing all the work of being friends. I had to write first (back in the time of emails) call first, chat first, etc. It was always me who had to make contact if I wanted any form of interaction. And those women were exactly as you described. Basically, you're an emotional object to them. And much like you described, only once I had a girl did they start showing any sort of interest in me, because then they weren't getting all the free attention. I know of one specifically, an ex, who would suddenly start dropping hints of possibly getting back together, all just to get my attention back on her. Once I was single again (for whatever reason) it went straight back to the same as before... I'm doing all the work, she just gets to be worshipped.

    This same ex (my first sex-abuser) messaged me on FB again after many years a few months back. She wants her emotional tampon back, and surprise surprise, she never makes contact with me first... I only friended her so I could study her behaviour from a Redpill perspective, and it's quite enlightening. She hasn't changed a bit over 20 years, but now that she's hit The Wall, her narcissistic supply is drying up, and she's scared... roflcakes.

    And I agree with Frog that it's not just girls. I had a number of male friends who act in the same way. They make no effort to carry on the friendship, but get pissy when you don't. I've recently done a fair purge of my friends on FB due to "not having spoken in 5 years", but there are some like that whom I'm keeping around for various reasons...

    This age of social media and instant communication is very revealing in that perspective. There is now utterly no excuse whatsoever for somebody not to message you, so if they never do, it simply means that you aren't important to them.

    Abandon them all.
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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    I think of orbiters as the female's girlfriend. He listens to her complain about the Chads who used her and won't commit. He drives her here and there, pays for shit. He sleeps over but doesn't have sex, but he does help her get her (hungover) self together for work.

    There is nothing worse than being a woman's emotional tampon.
    There is nothing worse than being a woman's girlfriend.

    If you're a guy that is...
    - Feminism is Cancer.
    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    I think of orbiters as the female's girlfriend. He listens to her complain about the Chads who used her and won't commit. He drives her here and there, pays for shit. He sleeps over but doesn't have sex, but he does help her get her (hungover) self together for work.

    There is nothing worse than being a woman's emotional tampon.
    There is nothing worse than being a woman's girlfriend.

    If you're a guy that is...
    As a kid I'll admit to a certain amount of this, but I grew out of it. After that, the friendships were real enough. I also realize this is not what most of us has experienced. It's no big deal, probably more luck than anything. Maybe if more guys held up their end better I'd feel different, but they don't.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    They love you.

    Sorry...I'll re-phrase.

    They love (having) you (to do the stuff they don't want to or can't do).

    Don't ever expect anything back. If you even expect a little, you'll probably be disappointed.

    I've got rid of all my female 'friends'....bar one.... and even she's on a mightily fine line.

    Time spent on yourself is never time wasted.

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    Re: Female friends are just as trash

    Women also don't think anything of ignoring you for a year or two when the "friendship" becomes boring or unprofitable for them. Like everything female, it's a matter of convenience and happenstance and they expect to be able to enter and exit your life as they please.


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