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    Re: Divorce Revenge

    By the times karma does it bit you will not give a shit.

    My indifference to women seems to make a difference,take my ex wife"no don't" that bitch could not be a country mile near me when conducting her affair,she married him and now it is him on the same look as I was,she is hunting a ghost of indifference she sends letters to my parents house on a regular basis and I went from hanging of her every word to burning her letters and then to absolute indifference.

    I thought about reporting her for harassment but she deserves no response.

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    Quote Originally Posted by skeezerbreezer View Post
    By the times karma does it bit you will not give a shit.
    A nice coda to my little divorce drama was financial.

    When my ex-wife was on an extended month long mission to Thailand, followed up by the month long mission to Malaysia, she seduced the Thai dermatologist, who then followed her to Malaysia. She told me the whole thing as it was happening in real time, and for me that was the final straw. As her bills came in, I just stopped paying them. (She had a habit of spending more money eating in restaurants in her lay over cities than she earned flying that day, so she had racked up over $20k in credit card debt - that was more than her yearly salary back then.)

    She came back from her trip, every synapse in nervous system crackling with love-fueled endorphins, and I let her show me the two shoe boxes of photos of her with her new girlfriend. As she had previously, she had redone her hair style and make up to look more like her new love. I let this go on for a week, saying nothing, until she had to return to work and her flight attendant crash pad.

    A week later, she started getting all the unpaid bills that I had forwarded to her. She called me, upset that I wasn't paying her bills while she sharing her bed with another woman, and the late fees were racking up. That was the new me. No outrage this time, just cool passive aggressiveness. "Your new lover is a physician. She must make a good salary. Let her pay your bills." That's when she said she wanted a divorce. During the last affair, she had the gall to point to a glass and tell me, "You see this glass. It is like my heart. Before, your love was enough to fill the glass. Well, my heart is bigger now, and I need your love and Mariko's love to fill it."

    The two affairs and the pain it caused me wasn't enough for her to let me go, but when I refused to subsidize her life, that's when she needed a divorce.

    She unwittingly did me a favor. Instead of saddling me with half of her debt in the divorce, later that month, she went to her credit union. They cut up four of her five credit cards, let her keep one for emergencies, and gave her a personal loan to pay off her balances at a lower rate. The timing was perfect, because she did it after we separated. Karma!

    Shortly thereafter, I finally received a settlement check from the U.S. Marshalls Service. Five years earlier, I was working as an intelligence analyst in the Albuquerque district office. The Chief Deputy was a large, fat, and abusive man that reminded me of a mustached Bob Bickel from Fox News show, "The Five." He was also a serial sexual harasser/assaulter. (Example: he told the deputies in the bullpen that he had trained his pug dog to lick his privates by using peanut butter, when the deputies did not believe him, he brought in Polaroids.) When my tour of duty was over, I used my after action report to warn the military not to assign any female analysts to this dysfunctional office, an Army IG investigation was started, which triggered a Justice Dept IG investigation, then a criminal investigation that probed over 20 years of the Chief's career, and he was forced to resign to avoid prosecution.

    I was contacted by a lawyer representing a dozen women in a class action law suit against the Chief Deputy. I joined the class action. For years, I waited for the settlement negotiations to finalize, and there were times when some money could have really pulled me out of a jam, but it was appreciated when it finally came through.

    I didn't share that money with wife when the check finally came through. Even though the Chief had said some really racist/sexist stories at a lunch with my wife and her best friend, she refused to help out with the law suit. Later, I found out I had no legal obligation to do so, because I got it after we had separated, so it was another case of karma.
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    Hello fellow friends.

    This topic is very powerfull and has a lot of good advice in it, mostly the fact that biggest 'revenge' women can have is being ignored and seeing us more sussesfull, althought I dont considered that being revenge in the exact term of the word, just a fair resolution for us as individuals that will negatively affect other jealous and 'attention-whore' sort of people. It is portait like revenge because women will feel like it, and that in fact proves the disfunction going on in their heads and her ways of viewing things. Very childish to sum it up.

    I came across this thread in the pursue of solutions to my problem, and I dont want to derail or make it into my issues, but since I have a 3yo son with this women, and considering that the 'cut off' of all contact will be detrimental for my son's sake, education and relationship in general, what would be the best course of action in my case? (And I dont seek revenge at all, since any bad thing I inflict on the mother of my child it will directly affect him).

    Any thoughts are appreciated, thanks in advance.

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    Do not compete with your ex-wife for the affection of your son. I have seen divorced parents get into a "bidding war" to get their children to "love them more," because often family court judges will eventually take the children into chambers and interview them in order to determine their preference over who they wish to live with. Or sometimes the "bidding war" is motivated out of spite and insecurity.

    This can take the form of trying to "buy" that affection with an ever escalating "arms race" of gift buying and permissive parenting. "Daddy won't let you stay up late to watch music videos on a school night? Well, mommy will." "Oh, don't worry about mommy. Daddy will buy you a pony for your birthday! (even though both parents live in apartments.)"

    This creates a very spoiled child. If this goes on for a couple of years, it can warp the child outlook, and when an authority figure finally tells them"no" they will like respond violently.

    Your priority is your son. Your job is to turn out a young man who will not wind up in juvenile hall, dancing for 40-something housewives at Chippendales, or in a trailer park wondering how he is going to support a bloated "dependapotomus." Give him your time, and give him your ear. Give him the male role model he needs, so he does not seek it in the mass media, a gang, or the politically correct girly-men that gravitate towards teaching in public schools.

    If custody is split, and you have limited windows of time to be with him, remember that your job is not to entertain him. It doesn't have to be a fun fest every waking hour with him. Sometimes, the best times I had with my dad was when we could have a long talk washing the car, or when he took me on long drives to get something else done.

    Be the dad in "The Courtship of Eddie's Father."

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    Re: Divorce Revenge

    well.. since women often have me rejected in advance of the fact...
    I'd say a profitable revenge would be to outlaw marriage from one's life..... in short, divorce them before you marry them...
    (after all... whats good for the gander is good for the goose..)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eiji View Post
    well.. since women often have me rejected in advance of the fact...
    I'd say a profitable revenge would be to outlaw marriage from one's life..... in short, divorce them before you marry them...
    (after all... whats good for the gander is good for the goose..)
    Eiji:

    A couple of words of advice.

    1- Please stop artificially reviving these 2, 3, and even 3 year old threads.

    2- De-emphasize the "pity party" tone of your posts. Try doing this: for the next 10 posts, do not use the words "I" or "me," and refrain from the using the phrase "since women have rejected me all of my life" (or some variation of this theme.)

    You seem to keep working it into so many of your posts, it is your signature. Seriously, do a search and you might find you work it into a very high percentage of your posts and into almost every thread you engage in.

    If a 20 year old was questioning whether he should become a MGTOW and all he read was 100 of your "woe is me" posts, he would think the plantation was surrounded by miasmic swamps inhabited by alligators, stop his escape attempt, and beg the overseer to put him back in his chains.

    Please, stop telling us about the blue piller you were and tell us about the red piller you want to be.
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    Re: Divorce Revenge

    Fuck her sister.
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    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...

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    Re: Divorce Revenge

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    Fuck her sister.
    Nah.. that's too good

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eiji View Post
    Nah.. that's too good
    .....for the sister.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sept View Post
    Is there a successful revenge, post-divorce?
    The best revenge is when you can get her to admit that you were effectively her Chad Thundercock and then watch her SMV trickle and then flood away as you get older and your son ages.

    "You were the best f@#$ I ever had"
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    Re: Divorce Revenge [yes there is one]

    Divorce Revenge update: Now the son will only barely fucking speak to her because of the shit she has pulled regarding his graduation / plans for the Army. Oh man this is a GOOD fucking year.
    First date: A job interview in which a slot-c tries to determine a man's financial suitability in relation to its desire for children.
    Oxytocin, more dangerous than heroin.
    I am not going to sacrifice my freedom and wealth for your ideals.
    If she isn't fucking you like a porn star she is fucking someone else like one.

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    Seeking revenge usually indicates that you still have some issues to work through. My best "revenge" was when my ex found herself about to become homeless. Her Chad had a gambling problem and after almost ten years he just up and left one day. My second wife and I decided to let her and her two daughters (one of whom was mine) stay with us until she could get on her feet. It only took her three months to find a job (OMG! A job!) and her own apartment. We even fixed her up with somebody. I think my second wife did that as insurance to prevent reverse monkey branching. Anyway, to this day I know my daughter and her half sister remember that I was there for both of them and their mother, too. Does it matter? No. Is it gratifying to know that my ex remembers this, too...from the guy she thought was going to be single the rest of his life? Well, as we all know, being single is a choice, not a sentence. At the time I was able to do this because I was married and had all the trimmings of "the American Dream". Maybe it made her jealous, maybe it made her angry. But, it sure was fun to watch those two women in the same house. Neither of them liked it, but me and the girls had a blast.
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    Re: Divorce Revenge

    The wall is sufficient revenge for me. I was punted before she hit the wall and menopause set in. I can't imagine being married to an abusive bitch on wheels going through the mood changes and hot flashes. LOL my freedom from that shit vortex is priceless.
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