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    Dating for a free meal

    From the Society for Personality and Social Psychology:

    "When it comes to getting a date, there’s any number of ways people can present themselves and their interests. One of the newer phenomena is a “foodie call” where a person sets up a date with someone [he or she is] not romantically interested in, for the purpose of getting a free meal."

    Foodie Calls: Dating For a Free Meal (Rather Than a Relationship) | SPSP

    You mean... women plot and scheme and are dishonest?!?

    Tell me it ain't so!

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    When I was a kid, we had old-fashioned mechanical payphones. They had a coin-return lever, and every time I passed a phone box I would nip in and jiggle that coin return lever. Because you never know - maybe you'd get a coin (although come to think of it I never did).

    That's how women view us. Do thing, and sometimes you get free money. Except for them it's a bit more of a sure thing. We are just insensate objects in their lives.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    That is some desperation...
    A clever fighter not only wins, but excels in winning with ease. His victories bring him neither reputation for wisdom, nor credit for courage. He wins his battles by making no mistakes. Making no mistakes is what establishes the certainty of victory, for it means conquering an enemy that is already defeated.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    Ever see a guy who's buying a wahman a nice dinner and she's checking her phone a lot and texting a lot?
    Yeah. That's a foodie call. Chad's in the gym, getting his rage on for the hate-fucking later.
    The Blue Pill chump is just a way for her to eat prawn and lobster cakes.
    You can tell how she look at him: the loathing of him, for buying her food because she has a vagina.
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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    I found another one at nypost from almost two years ago:

    https://nypost.com/2017/08/30/beware...r-a-free-meal/

    Really, isn't this the business model of an escort service, with the fee limited to the cost of the meal? That's what it looks like to me.

    I really can't blame the women too much. The men are self-suckering, failing to get their arms around the reality that if they're not at least a 9, then no woman, no matter how average-looking or personality-crippled, is going to be interested in them in any tangible way. (Not that that would lead anywhere good in the long term, but that's a separate issue.)

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    If men would stop taking women on dinner dates, this would virtually eliminate the problem.

    If you want to take a woman on a date, take her to a bar or a winery. At most, you'll buy her a couple drinks, and your bill will be well under $40. If a girl is really interested in you, she won't give a fuck where you take her. If she insists on going to an expensive restaurant, you can be CERTAIN she is only interested in wasting your time and money.

    Spending more money DOES NOT translate to a higher probability of success; in fact, it just makes you look like a chump. Women decide whether or not they will sleep with you in five seconds. Women generally do not respect men, and a lot of them will waste a guys time and money just for fun. You HAVE to be proficient at screening these women out, if you are going to date at all.

    Going to a bar is a lot easier and lower stress because you can both leave at any time, and you're also a lot more likely to get laid at the end of the date. Just make sure neither of you drinks too much, or you'll set yourself up for problems later on; two to three drinks is all you need. Getting a girl hammered is a very dangerous and stupid strategy for dating, and you should avoid it.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    .... "newer" phenomenon...
    And it's nothing but wide open prairie...

    There's something very fun about MGTOW. In an odd sense, like charting a new territory of the mind, or rediscovering a long lost civilization. Occult knowledge, secret societies, cannibal natives (THOTS), it's all very exciting... lololol.

    Abandon the Abandoners.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    In the day and age of the empowered woman, what's wrong with going Dutch? Of course, I wouldn't spring those terms on her at the restaurant (like they sometimes do). I'd be up front about it and see how she responds. If she says I have to pay to be with her, well, that's what a stripper says when she's selling dances. If she acts like a stripper, then treat her like one...and buyer beware.
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    Tale from the battlefield from about 35 years ago

    There was a white table cloth date worthy restaurant near my office, with an inexpensive lunch menu that included ice tea coffee or soda. My first time taking a date there was $15 total, and after work we finished our leftovers and shared a bottle of wine at her apartment. The second time I tried this, I took some entitled b!tch that was a 6 maybe 7 at best, but she thought she was 9 or 10. She asks the waiter , not me, to order off the DINNER MENU. At this point Im thinking, most things on the dinner menu are still less than $14 but she finds something for twenty something dollars, Abalone. So she orders Abalone and a glass of wine.
    Im thinking to myself, how fresh can abalone be here? Who in their right mind would spend $20+ at a place that is known for their excellent dishes for half that not to mention dissing the $6 lunch specials. Worse, what type of woman takes advantage of a guy like this? So I pay the bill, lesson learned, I was used, drive her back to her work with the idea we will never speak again.

    BUT She gets violently ill that night, and blames it on me!! LOL, I should have saved that tape from my answering machine

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    Quote Originally Posted by FrankS View Post
    Tale from the battlefield from about 35 years ago

    There was a white table cloth date worthy restaurant near my office, with an inexpensive lunch menu that included ice tea coffee or soda. My first time taking a date there was $15 total, and after work we finished our leftovers and shared a bottle of wine at her apartment. The second time I tried this, I took some entitled b!tch that was a 6 maybe 7 at best, but she thought she was 9 or 10. She asks the waiter , not me, to order off the DINNER MENU. At this point Im thinking, most things on the dinner menu are still less than $14 but she finds something for twenty something dollars, Abalone. So she orders Abalone and a glass of wine.
    Im thinking to myself, how fresh can abalone be here? Who in their right mind would spend $20+ at a place that is known for their excellent dishes for half that not to mention dissing the $6 lunch specials. Worse, what type of woman takes advantage of a guy like this? So I pay the bill, lesson learned, I was used, drive her back to her work with the idea we will never speak again.

    BUT She gets violently ill that night, and blames it on me!! LOL, I should have saved that tape from my answering machine
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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    in 2015 I met a girl from tinder, she was probably a 6 or a 7 or something in the middle, I would have banged her willingly and with pleasure.

    The problem is that during our date she tried to frame into a "courting" which meant all the wine and dine with minimum physical contact, she was in her late 20s and in few minutes of meeting her she was already busting my balls about her engagement that didnt really work and that they guy even got her a ring.

    I understood exactly what was the problem and surely understood that chances of intimacy that same night were below 10%, when a girl avoids physical contact even in innocent ways like holding hands its a red flag.

    So I decided to get her at...mc donald and I actually ordered for both of us, just an ice cream.

    That was my way to let her know that as I was getting nothing out of her she was getting nothing out of me, after the ice cream and a really boring time I just told her to call a taxi and left her at the curb waiting for it.

    Two days after with no message from my side she unmatched me from tinder, a girl that avoids physical contact in any way is basically telling me she doesnt even see me as a man and surely I have no need for her.

    I'm pretty sure many guys would have tried harder especially after the "failed engagement" angle as if they had to outmatch the previous guy.

    On many other situations I paid for girls dinners and drinks but that happened ONLY after we were already making out and my hands were naughty on them with no resistance.

    As men we should make it clear that trade happens when both parties get something in return and that charity is for churches not dates.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    I'd maybe toss $12 maximum on one, a local seafood place, Mexican, or Asian can always be enjoyed at very fair prices.

    Chad always gets everything for free so all men should be leery. My research Hive has members who do this with zero remorse. They have zero issues lining up the simps too. Their Chads usually see them about 1030PM to midnight.

    One blue piller I know is all discombobulated due to a "woman" contacting him via his online dating. A mutual friend, in the know of my online dating research, asked if I were catfishing him. I told him no and that I only jacked with the players. He's playing his unemployed musician card. He's neither unemployed nor much of a musician. I was wondering why I never hear from him as often.
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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    According to the Wikipedia page on Tinder 78% of women are chasing the top 20% of men. The match rate for an average man is around 1 in 115.

    If you do match then you have to filter out the ones who are just using the site for validation and have no intention of actually meeting. The same
    Wikipedia page says only 1 in 10 matches actually results in an exchange of messages let alone a first date.

    Get as far as the first date you still have to filter out the gold diggers, the fake profile pictures and the mentally unstable.

    Never used tinder before but the swipe to sex ratio for the average man must be at least 5000 to 1

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    If a woman is serious about dating, then she will pay for her own coffee/tea.

    Don't ever offer to pay for drinks for a woman, until she has clearly shown interest in you in more than just a platonic way.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    Quote Originally Posted by stanmsl View Post
    According to the Wikipedia page on Tinder 78% of women are chasing the top 20% of men. The match rate for an average man is around 1 in 115.

    If you do match then you have to filter out the ones who are just using the site for validation and have no intention of actually meeting. The same
    Wikipedia page says only 1 in 10 matches actually results in an exchange of messages let alone a first date.

    Get as far as the first date you still have to filter out the gold diggers, the fake profile pictures and the mentally unstable.

    Never used tinder before but the swipe to sex ratio for the average man must be at least 5000 to 1
    You can usually tell if a woman is serious about dating if she has a solid full profile.
    If she says 'I am just looking for fun, or here to make friends' then you know she is full of shit. Such cunts are a waste of your time.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    If a woman is serious about dating, then she will pay for her own coffee/tea.

    Don't ever offer to pay for drinks for a woman, until she has clearly shown interest in you in more than just a platonic way.
    That's being gentle! You're not petting some Turkish Angora purring on your lap, the deceit and modern female fostered distrust now common and ingrained into this society spells abandonment altogether! Take out the ole big eraser of free-will and erase this morbid timeline that put the genders on a collision course where by law we're supposed to bear the brunt of all the damages! Pay pay pay, through the tax code into a system unaccountable to free market rule and the natural course of competition and "selection" not "equality".

    A society based on individual accountability and the repercussions of poor choices subsidized and softened by government is the same as making others pay for your mistakes via redistribution of all earned wealth to subsidize poor discussion making, and lifting the burden of one having to learn from their mistakes!

    The corruption is so far to the core that a course change is impossible and futile.

    He whom takes part in a corrupted society is condemned to making the same old mistakes on an infinite loop to overwhelming destruction, only the individual can change his timeline running perpendicular to a path of self destruction as wayward society dictates.

    Your chances run astronomically high that you will be damaged, abused, extracted, humiliated, and ruined that much more as you encounter modern woman, they're engineered and enabled to destroy us at will on a whim without any and all fears of repercussion and accountability.

    Gentlemen, western law has made by indoctrination women as legal toddlers playing with loaded guns.

    I see each encounter this way and act accordingly, do not upset the child, do not argue what kind of society allows this madness, then silently slip away.

    Female contact has been a lesson to me in getting burned, and not just my experiences, but the experience of all those around me, the legions of men I've seen thrown in the legal meat grinder in what we have now, no two room courthouses anymore, now they have towering cathedrals of Justice where all the people go to screw each other!

    Remember, there's a reason why women have 911 on speed dial! They're more than willing to craft up a story, give false witness, and not have any concern for the damage done!

    I don't need to get burnt anymore! I learned my lesson! Some people are slow learners, other are no learners!

    I walked off the plantation 22 years ago with a song in my heart and a skip in my step! Tower for the win! Nothing but carnage and slaughter all around ever since! Sorry kids, no happy stories when looking through the prism of reality and the battlefield all around us! Recognizing the enemy is never a foolish mistake! Lowering your guard or raising your expectations is a lethal mistake!

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    I walked off the plantation 22 years ago with a song in my heart and a skip in my step! Tower for the win! Nothing but carnage and slaughter all around ever since! Sorry kids, no happy stories when looking through the prism of reality and the battlefield all around us! Recognizing the enemy is never a foolish mistake! Lowering your guard or raising your expectations is a lethal mistake!
    I commend you for your passion. I was of course speaking hypothetically. If you do end up going on a date, then by default, a women should pay for her own.

    If she doesn't then, then you know she is only there for free drinks and dinners.

    I still go out and very occasionally date, not because I can't get rid of my attachment to women (pornography takes care of this need; unit lit gets banned that is) but meeting woman is a great way to improve your skills at understanding their manipulative and crafty natures. And I will for sure interact; even with the gender enemy in order to learn these skills which are vital in modern world.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    Quote Originally Posted by FrankS View Post
    Tale from the battlefield from about 35 years ago

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    Im thinking to myself, how fresh can abalone be here?

    BUT She gets violently ill that night, and blames it on me!! LOL, I should have saved that tape from my answering machine
    Karma....it is everywhere you are going to be.
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: Dating for a free meal

    Dating is nothing but handing out to women. If you don't pay then you are looked at as weak but yet women claim they are strong and independent that dont need a man. Its funny women use dates for men they consider weak but yet the Chads dont do any dating. Its a rigged game so I don't play.


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