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    Compulsory viewing

    Women lying about rape.

    If you haven't seen this you tube video yet, watch it now.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFxDVk0Wllk

    This is why people say ABR: Always Be Recording
    “If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, I guess you do have a problem.” (Richard Bach)

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    Re: Compulsory viewing

    Even when recording you need to give off verbal cues that you are not engaged in a verbal disagreement with your assailant (aka female accuser) and you are rational and in control of your emotions. Hard to do if you do not have the practice, experience and control of temper. But it is good to practice this as a man for professional work and for social awareness and calibration as it can lead to positive outcomes or avoiding negative outcomes as showcased in that video.

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    Re: Compulsory viewing

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    Even when recording you need to give off verbal cues that you are not engaged in a verbal disagreement with your assailant (aka female accuser) and you are rational and in control of your emotions. Hard to do
    Yes, you're right on both counts. It's especially hard to do if the emotional explosion comes out of nowhere and takes you by surprise.
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    Re: Compulsory viewing

    Quote Originally Posted by Marlow View Post
    Yes, you're right on both counts. It's especially hard to do if the emotional explosion comes out of nowhere and takes you by surprise.
    There is no shame in being silent a few seconds to gauge a situation. Most people observe a man listening calmly while a woman wails and whines as a positive reaction towards the man. Less is more for a man when pressed into a lose/lose situation.

    Perception of stoicism is what society expects from men, but it is indeed hard because no decent man wants to be a doormat for a whiny woman. I prefer Russell Brand's approach of witty and quick jabs while maintaining a positive tone in the interaction.


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