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    This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    This deadass happened 5 hours ago, would make for an opportunity to come back here to the site. I normally stroll about, enjoying the Summer and make the best out of the warm weather season but who would suspect a simple trip to my local drug store would invoke this level of drama?

    Going into context, this is a small but versatile Pharmacy I've been going to ever since the place opened up in 2012. The place underwent a management change in 2016 but the new people that worked there I got along with rather quickly. Everything just seemed so cool, or so I thought. Until recently a large number of the staff there started acting suspect towards me. The first time I didn't pay much attention to it, it was a quick trip to pick up some toothpaste and mouthwash. The 2nd time it happened, I started to express concern and it was starting to bug me...the third time which was a few days ago, the young woman at the register at the time, just straight up gave me the cold shoulder. Me and her used to be cool as hell, if anything I trusted her the most but her distant attitude left me in a foul mood so the next morning I had a brief conversation with the middle aged lady there (one of the 3 I can trust now) about what the hell is going on with the attitude of some of the women there and she told me she'll see what the problem is when she get the chance. She got back to me sooner than I expected the next morning with a look of skepticism on her face (I almost came close to cutting her off too, I don't take kindly to disrespect, especially when it's unwarranted). She told me that my last conversation with her left her uncomfortable (I don't see why, it was just small talk, nothing more than what I would say to any friend) that I was being too forward with her and it was inappropriate.

    It was the dumbest shit I've ever heard but then again this is coming from a woman so I'm not surprised at all. After hearing that, I just said "If she doesn't want me to talk to her, wish granted. She didn't have to make up a bullshit excuse not to talk to me anymore." I thanked the woman in the morning shift for the intel and went on my way. Fast forward to this afternoon, I saw the young woman at work today along with some dude she normally works with. I didn't acknowledge her presence at all and preferred the man to ring my stuff up. Then the woman had the unmitigated gall to ask me "What's up with you?" Me: "I could ask you the same shit but I don't talk to people who disrespect me so don't say anything to me." Her: "You don't need to act rude to me, you shouldn't be flirting with women at work, it's inappropriate." Me: "I'M SO GLAD YOU BROUGHT THAT UP! I've been meaning to call absolute bullshit on that because the last time I checked, a mild chat isn't flirting, so don't even flatter yourself because I've never saw you in that way at all." Her: "You clearly were trying to make your move on me and you were out of line." Me: "No, YOU are out of line and I'll tell you why! Since when have I ever, flat out said that 'You're beautiful, I wanna take you out, I would love to see you after work or taking you somewhere out of your element? Never have I ever done that, so for you to think the way your thinking is absolute delusion and you need to check yourself before you wreck yourself." She proceeded by calling me an asshole and being a dick because I was blunt and honest with her. She still accused me of asking her out and being inappropriate. No one asked her that! No one asked her a damn thing. I called her a wackadoo who needs to take some meds and she took a swing at me, she wasn't even close enough to hit me. My Brooklyn jungle instincts almost took over and I damn near advanced towards her but the dude that was behind the counter restrained me...it was a messy situation even though nothing was damaged. Even though, tensions were sky high. I've just now calmed down enough to write all of this down.

    I have no patience or time in my life for messy, immature, fake ass people, I will never respect her again, crazy fucking broad...other people in there ain't shit either.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    I hope there is another pharmacy that you can use. My take on your experience is that even what used to be considered normal polite social interaction with women is now risky behavior. Lurkers, seriously consider the benefits of ghosting.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    She told me that my last conversation with her
    Which her? The middle-aged lady complained that your inquiry to her was improper?


    In any case, the chick at the register gave you the cold shoulder until you returned the cold shoulder, then she doesn't like that and pretends you started it. Another phony chick. Stupid, too.

    She expected it to only go one way. They get off on that shit until they are exposed.

    A new pharmacy can take care of transferring your existing prescriptions. Maybe Xanthine can tell us if your existing pharmacy will notice this transfer.
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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    Which her? The middle-aged lady complained that your inquiry to her was improper?


    In any case, the chick at the register gave you the cold shoulder until you returned the cold shoulder, then she doesn't like that and pretends you started it. Another phony chick. Stupid, too.

    She expected it to only go one way. They get off on that shit until they are exposed.

    A new pharmacy can take care of transferring your existing prescriptions. Maybe Xanthine can tell us if your existing pharmacy will notice this transfer.
    My bad, I wasn't clear on that. The young woman at register who works the afternoons to evenings was the rude one to me. The middle aged woman who works in the mornings I have no beef with, though she didn't have to give me that expression but I'll look past that considering the younger woman clearly was overdramatic explaining the situation to her coworker. Even though I don't believe in NAWALTs, at least mature women of age are humble enough not to test a dude, at least not in public anyway. They're probably more sly with their shit but I rather deal with that than some bitch trying to make a scene and working every last nerve of mine.

    It's a shame I'll have to ditch the place, it was within walking distance of my place as opposed to driving a mile to the next one. A loss of convenience but something I'll have to adjust myself to.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Young women in retail assume any talk from a male customer is flirting. That is partly due to inexperience and also due to sheer volume of being hitting on by men. Unfortunate that created such a situation but I can give you insight on how to handle it differently.

    Indifference.

    You must learn to not take it personally because if you show indifference over time that edge or shield any woman puts up comes down. Whether it is a shit test, indignation, disgust, lack of empathy, masculine traits, etc.

    But this take practice and patience to be able to turn even the most cold hearted of broom travelers into open and free talking flowers of sunshine. Basically the less you invest the more likely result is a win/win for you and then the ball is in the court of the one putting up the scowl face.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Lurkers, this is what happens when a men forgets the One Commandment: Give them nothing.

    It is easy to say this as an outsider, especially in retrospect, but conversing with those women was OP’s first mistake. Expressing his concerns was the second. Arguing with that lunatic was the third. If he had kept to “Good morning. Here is my prescription … Thank you, good bye.”, none of this drama would have happened.

    Give them nothing. Do not marry them, do not live with them, do not get them pregnant, do not fuck them, do not touch them, do not date them, do not spend any money/time/effort on them, do not chase them, do not linger about them, do not smile at them, do not stare at them, do not entertain them, do not compliment them, do not validate them, do not converse with them, do not help them.

    Walk away from the lot of them. By doing so you do both yourself and them a favor. Hey, they want to be left alone by us toxic men, remember? Men going their own way are the only men that give women what they say* they want, even if only as a side effect. ;-)

    * It is OK to laugh at the irony of “why don’t men approach me anymore?”, if you are so inclined.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    I'm wondering if this is a cultural thing? In the UK, people don't like conversation. When I worked in South America, women were always up for a chat, an outing or anything of a social nature.

    Here in London, I try to do the same thing as any discerning MGTOW. Keep things professional and polite. Even if you have to bite your tongue - keep things polite, very polite and distant.

    And do not meet a woman anywhere private. Always make it a public pace (in the UK it is usually a pub).

    The only women you should be seen alone with is a prostitute.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Nice guys are rewarded with shit, slander, and drama. I've been in your shoes and learned to duck out at the slightest sign of trouble! Your first mistake was concern, your second mistake was addressing that concern.

    I say, if it smells like shit, by all means don't step in it!

    I've been publicly excoriated and humiliated in the press, only because I stood up for the truth and what's righteous, now I don't care who's going the wrong way nor why, I simply step aside and avoid all unnecessary conflict, only a fool will argue with a meat grinder, the wise man tosses in some rocks and some hardened steel nuts and bolts and lets mechanics rule the day!
    When the law becomes so corrupt that nobody dare question it (in fear of reprisal), there tyranny has spawned and seeks to devour endlessly and relentlessly.MGTOW: Escaping and evading the jaws of injustice and tyranny, choosing liberty instead of a perilous death march through living hell!

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    The only women you should be seen alone with is a prostitute.
    Amen.
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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    I will take into account that I overlooked how fickle women can be. I guess you can say that I perceived the young woman at the register a NAWALT considering in the 2 1/2 years that I've known her, we've never had a problem until now. If she were just some stranger, I wouldn't have given a fuck. I would have just written her off as some harpy on her dumbshit but since she was someone I invested a connection with for an extended period of time, that sudden shift in her attitude towards me got me fucked up. We were cordial and platonic too and I've always preferred to keep it that way. I've never asked a woman out for anything in the past 3 years and I have no intention of doing so (because doing so only led in rejection, heartbreak and mental issues for me), so to hear that wild shit from her got me heated and I made it a personal mission of mine to shatter her ego while shutting the rumor mill down because I wasn't gonna let that go unchecked.

    One would say that I acted on emotion, you sure are right about that because one thing came to mind, vengeance. I wasn't gonna tolerate that shit and I felt the need to confront. Technically it was more indirect than direct but I was fishing for a response and she took the bait. It's all out of my system now and I'm just gonna reduce those pharmacy trips to weekday mornings. The older ladies there aren't the extreme bitches that the younger ones are but I'm just gonna stay in my lane and keep my transactions in a strictly business manner.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Whenever I am baited into drama with a female, I just ask myself one question: how will this drama benefit her? The answer usually explains her motives and provides me with ample reasons to not comply with her intent.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    There is no sense as to letting this cause you inconvieneince. You know when the bitch works, be there when it's not....
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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Quote Originally Posted by ABigSiameseCat View Post
    I hope there is another pharmacy that you can use. My take on your experience is that even what used to be considered normal polite social interaction with women is now risky behavior. Lurkers, seriously consider the benefits of ghosting.
    As much as I HATE smartphones and everything they have wrought unto society, at least maybe scenarios like this partially explain why I see so many people texting next to each other and not talking.... Next thing you know us guys will be walking around with a Stephen Hawking computer voice synthesizer to use when communicating to these whymenz. A sterile, robotic voice with no inflections that can be misinterpreted and can be recalled at anytime.
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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Quote Originally Posted by JaydenJazz View Post
    If she were just some stranger, I wouldn't have given a fuck. I would have just written her off as some harpy on her dumbshit but since she was someone I invested a connection with for an extended period of time, that sudden shift in her attitude towards me got me fucked up.
    Personally I blame social media for this for the most part.

    It used to be that an older gentleman being friendly towards a younger woman (say more than 5 years difference) was considered an innocent compliment or a bit of fun, nowadays they put all of their interactions with men onto social media and get a horde of malcontents giving them bad advice and making out all guys ever think about is sex. We’re fiends that cannot get enough of their bodies – yeah right!

    I recently visited on old friend of more than 35 years in my home town. She and I used to confide everything to each other, a closer couple of platonic friends you could never find.

    About 10 years or so ago she discovered Facebook. I immediately noticed small changes in her attitude towards me but thought little of it as we rarely see each other any more. This has gotten progressively worse over the years to the point that I no longer want anything to do with her. During my recent visit – the first in over a year – she virtually ignored me. She did not want to discuss anything: not what was happening in her life, not what was happening in mine, not what was happening in the news, nothing. And when she did speak there was a definite agitation, even anger, in her voice. Also she spent a fair amount of her time concentrating on her phone leaving a real life friend sitting beside her in silence. When I said she wasn’t well in this behaviour (I eventually got a bit annoyed but said it in a joking way) she was less than amused. This is a woman in her 50’s.

    Now I would normally take this type of behaviour personally but a few years ago she broke with her long term partner. He obviously had enough of this behaviour as well.
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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Unbelievable. I wish I could say I'm surprised...but hell, this probably could have happened at MY pharmacy. Or any pharmacy, for that matter. Anywhere you have a female-heavy environment, shit like this is bound to happen.

    This is just one of the many reasons I just choose not to engage them. It's not like they have anything interesting to say anyway. I never make small talk with them. I'm polite, but give the shortest responses possible. I avoid even looking at them. I don't want to give them any reason at all to think I have any interest in them whatsoever, and I certainly don't want to hear about how their fucking day went or whatever mundane crap she wants to chirp about. All I want is to get in and out with as little unnecessary drama as possible, and that means minimizing interactions with women as much as I can.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    After reading over your "incident report" I have to say that I think I see the hamster logic behind her attitude. She was very nice to you...at first. This means (in hamster speak) "Hey! You're cute! I like you!" When you failed to fall all over yourself to impress her and get her number she realized you were rejecting her. And we all know how well women handle rejection.
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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    After reading over your "incident report" I have to say that I think I see the hamster logic behind her attitude. She was very nice to you...at first. This means (in hamster speak) "Hey! You're cute! I like you!" When you failed to fall all over yourself to impress her and get her number she realized you were rejecting her. And we all know how well women handle rejection.
    I was thinking the same thing, she was hinting at him and he ignored her advances and she flipped it to him making a move and her rejecting him.

    my grandfather told me at a very young age "boy, there is only one thing a woman wants from a man...... it's 6 inches long and has a head on it..... and its a dollar bill"

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Unfortunately, you need a new pharmacy. Good news - since everyone and their dog is on one or more drugs these days, there's one on every corner! lol. There are some stores I am more chatty in than others. One thing you'll notice about women - ESPECIALLY white women - is that they believe that every living male wants to fuck them. So, what's happened here is the hen's have been talking about the male customers and you got put on the "unwanted approaching" list. Just you being in the store is now seen (felt) as a sexual assault. Basically, it comes down to this simple cartoon again. "Empowerment" now means women in retail positions can choose with whom they will chit chat. I supposed they have every right to be off putting and not talk to certain customers directly. My take is that you gave off a vibe that you were single and looking, and your confidence and willingness to talk to women at work (a bold move today) made them band together and collectively reject you from the hive, the hive being that particular retail outlet. Smile and move on. The risk for a #metoo or "he followed me home" is VERY high here because they KNOW any complaint they would have is baseless. So, they will have to make up something ACTUALLY CREEPY to justify expelling a customer from the hive, because according to management, there is no hive. According to females, EVERYWHERE is the mating arena and according to blue-pill zombies EVERYONE is trying to mate. This is especially true for women maybe 35 or 30 and under who have had "proper feminist training" on how males think and behave, which is to say everything we say and do is a precursor to rape.

    Are you lurkers starting to get a comprehension of the sheer depth of pure narcissism women suffer from these days? If you even LOOK at them it's some sort of "approach" and sign you basically want to throw them down and fuck them? Or just ask them out for coffee? Even when you had no such intention.

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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Yes, I'll reiterate that one point. Saying "You're mistaken - I was just chatting with you, I would never ask you out / never had that intention." You're voluntarily wading into #metoo sexual harassment territory. She made it abundantly clear SHE was rejecting YOU and if you DARE try to turn the tables, she will certainly need to "make you pay".

    Remember: Men *always* pay.
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    Re: This might have been the closest I've ever come to socking a woman across the jaw

    Joetech, starcruiser, I hear y'all on that one but I'm too old to be playing those games and I'm FAR removed from High School. Whatever goes on in her mind and however it works is her own personal problem 'cause I don't give a damn. Just not giving a damn is actually a relieving feeling. In my blue pill phase, this would be weighing on my mind for a couple of weeks and I wouldn't have been aggressive with her as I was at that moment. The self entitlement that revolves around women makes it that much worse which leads to the typical man being frustrated over it.


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