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    "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    Time to "Man Up" guys. It is all our fault that women are having kids late in life, or not having them at all!!

    It has absolutely NOTHING to do with the women wanting their own careers, some time - a decade or two - for them to ride the 'cock carousel' while accumulating a cock count somewhere north of an entire college football, with all of it's bench players too, and basketball team combined.

    Yep ... we are to BLAME. It is all OUR fault. The females are totally blameless.

    (there are a few good nuggets in the article ... I was shocked that the editor actually let them sneak in)


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    Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life

    New York Post:By Melanie Notkin
    Link: Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life | New York Post

    I hear the same story, told in different ways, all over New York City.

    There’s 34-year-old Kate, who works in finance downtown. “She’s beautiful, smart, talented . . . everything going for her,” her colleague tells me. “But her boyfriend doesn’t feel settled in his career, so she spent thousands of dollars to freeze her eggs as she waits for him to be ready.”

    Susan, 41, a single senior marketing executive from the Upper East Side, is eight months pregnant. After waiting for her match and not finding him, she decided to have a baby on her own.

    And then there’s Joanna, from the Upper West Side, who tells me that at age 32, she stepped off the partner track at her law firm, halving her salary to work in the firm’s marketing department, so she could focus on landing a husband. But at 39, Joanna is still single and childless — and unsatisfied in her career.

    These women aren’t alone. The latest US Census Fertility Report, published last week, found that for the first time in reported history over half (53.8 percent) of women ages 25-29 are childless and a record 30.8 percent of American women ages 30 to 34 haven’t given birth. Most of these women are college-educated. And most are single.
    The census labels childless college-educated women over age 35 the “delayer boom” — as if we gathered together in a collective conspiracy in defiance of motherhood. Others dub this cohort “career women” as if we made a choice between having a family and a career. (There are no “career men,” mind you.) Some blame women for being naive about their fertility, as if we had no monthly reminder of our own ticking clock.

    The trouble with all this finger pointing is that it leaves out half of the baby-making equation: men.

    Women want an equal partner, but there are increasingly fewer candidates to choose from. The census reports that “the average adult woman in the US is more likely to be a college graduate than the average adult man.” Moreover, today’s young, childless female city-dwellers with college degrees are out-earning their male counterparts by 8 cents on the dollar. Their higher incomes may be why they are less likely (29 percent) to be living with their parents than single men (35 percent).
    It’s not surprising then that a 2012 Pew Research study found, in a reversal of traditional gender roles, that while two-thirds of millennial women say that “being successful in a high-paying career or profession” is of high importance to them, only 59 percent of young men do. At the same time, a significantly larger number of young women than men say that a successful marriage is “one of the most important things in life.” Almost 60 percent of women rate successful parenting as one of the most important parts of life, while only 47 percent of young men do, according to Pew.

    Today’s empowered young women are not only placing greater value on the importance of marriage and parenthood than the generation that precedes them, they also value high paying careers more than ever. And millennial men? They’re lagging behind.

    This shift has caused a seesaw effect. “When women are in oversupply, men have the advantage and delay marriage and parenthood,” Jon Birger, author of “Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game,” told The Post. And when men are scarce, women put an even stronger focus on their careers so they can take care of themselves with a financial safety net. Meanwhile, men take a step back in their career ambition, no longer having to impress an oversupply of women with their financial prowess.


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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    Today’s empowered young women are not only placing greater value on the importance of marriage and parenthood than the generation that precedes them...


    As feminists would say, "Wow, just wow. I literally can't even."
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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    Look at her other articles. They are all about her, using her real pictures. She is good looking to be honest.

    And then there’s Joanna, from the Upper West Side, who tells me that at age 32, she stepped off the partner track at her law firm, halving her salary to work in the firm’s marketing department, so she could focus on landing a husband. But at 39, Joanna is still single and childless — and unsatisfied in her career.
    She gave up trying to reach the top, and tried to marry someone from the top instead. I feel sorry for this woman. She did what all of us do on a daily basis - projecting. She believed that men want what she and other women want. An educated and entrepreneurial partner with an amazing career, instead of just youth and beauty. Companies make this mistake all the time. Developing what they believe to be the perfect product, that the customer doesn't want.

    Difference here is, that the company and not the customers get the blame.

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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Nuggets View Post


    As feminists would say, "Wow, just wow. I literally can't even."
    LOL i love how he keeps pack of cigarettes rolled up his sleeve
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Forever View Post
    Look at her other articles. They are all about her, using her real pictures. She is good looking to be honest.



    She gave up trying to reach the top, and tried to marry someone from the top instead. I feel sorry for this woman. She did what all of us do on a daily basis - projecting. She believed that men want what she and other women want. An educated and entrepreneurial partner with an amazing career, instead of just youth and beauty. Companies make this mistake all the time. Developing what they believe to be the perfect product, that the customer doesn't want.

    Difference here is, that the company and not the customers get the blame.
    LOL yes ! They make the new product so complicated to use ...nobody wants to go back to school , we are adult men , we want simple things .

    We do not want another mommy , we want our dicks sucked .


    LOL she downshifted and halved her income ... yeah right ! Its what people do , piece of cake .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    What a load of horse crap. Most probably another college educated woman who studied gender relations. It is really amazing how many people are really writing stupid things about gender issues,
    WTF.
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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    They've waited much too late to 'start' looking for a husband and to have children at their ages.

    They don't seem to understand that the type of guy that wants a wife and children is either already off the market because he already wed a 18-22 year old for that purpose, or by the time he is ready to be a father and husband, he will be looking for a girl within that age range.

    Plus, a lot more men are sort of secretly subscribing to the 'no hymen, no diamond' philisophy when it comes to that wife becasue the truths of female psychology are more mainstream now thanks to the internet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever View Post

    - projecting. She believed that men want what she and other women want. An educated and entrepreneurial partner with an amazing career, instead of just youth and beauty.
    ^ This! Young and beautiful and feminine and emotionally stable are pretty much the only requirements, which are all related to each other. If she has an intellect, too, then that's all gravy.

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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    So the article is basically "we are strong and independent women, so, you filthy man need more money and a better social status so we can marry (because we will never marry anyone if him don't earn more money than us) and be a happy "house wife", left my work and have babies (maybe not yours but, who cares?), you should pay for everything and i will never change a diaper or cook or open my legs again or do anything other that spend your money, yell to the cleaning lady or the nanny or any employee you pay so i can be a full time parasite of your fortune and complain about how "i left everything for my family."

    It must be so difficult for those poor, poor women with all those broken dreams about hypergamy and be a parasite of men.

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    The first example is most notable to me, as the other two simply failed to find a man, which is likely entirely their own fault. But Kate, who has "everything going for her" (including a soul-killing job in "finance downtown"!) apparently has a boyfriend already -- he is just wise enough to wait a little until he is financially secure! Can you really blame him?

    Men never do anything right in the eyes of these women, until they do exactly what the women demand. Kids at 25? She wasn't ready, you ruined her chance for a career! Kids at 35? You waited too long! This has deeply disturbing implications for the children, who become the product of psychological warfare, not amiable relations between parents.
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    Hmmm...too picky only to become childless? Someone cue the violins. I bathe in stuck-up bitches' tears

    That's what ya get for thinking the Chads who pump and dump ya will be there when you are post wall, ha ha.

    As a general rule, men should stick to a woman who is an SMV point out of 10 below them. (They do have the more in demand sexual organ so a point is given here). Women should know friggin better than to hold out for some Chad who pumps and dumps her for 20 years-- who is 2 or 3 SMV points above her.

    No fucks given from my end. The idiot thought she was BETTER than the men who were an SMV point above her. Thought she could just hold out for a Chad.

    Her fuzzy hamster math told her that her 6 SMV plus Chad's 9 rating (from a one night pump and dump) made her MAGICALLY a 15 out of 10 rating. So 7s are NOT GOOD ENOUGH for her anymore. Despite her being a SIX!

    She waited ten years past her best-by date and I am suppose to feel sorry for her?
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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Ace Francis View Post
    She waited ten years past her best by date and I am suppose to feel sorry for her?
    That's the thing. We all have a best-by date.

    Hey, ladies, I'm going to wait until I'm 85, unemployed, and disabled to settle down. That okay with you?

    Oh, wait... by that time I wouldn't have anything you look for in a long term relationship...
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    Holding out for Chad, while dragging ass at work. Good job ladies, you just busted your career and private life both. But as usual, it's da man's fault.
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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    It have been noted over and over, but:

    If you wait till 35+ to have a child, then you will have a teenager when you are 50+. I'm 50. No way would I want to be parenting a teenager at my age.

    They just don't think. They want a baby - baby, baby, baby. Ladies: they don't stay babies. That's why mankind bred pets into existence - animals that stay immature their entire lives (cats meowing and dogs licking faces are both neotenous behaviours).

    You don't want to be managing a teenager when you are any older than in your forties. That means finishing up with the breeding by the age of 25. Late 20's is pushing it. Shit - even mother nature agrees: a woman's fertility starts to drastically decline after 28 or so.

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    Jon Birger, author of
    “Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game,” told The Post. And when men are scarce, women put an even stronger focus on their career s so they can take care of themselves with a financial safety net
    Men are scarce? Really?! Really?!?!

    Try telling that to Russian women, you stupid fucking SPOILED 21st century women, to those who TRULY had a shortage of men after the Stalin purges and WW2. Or other man shortages due to other wars.

    If you want to whine about man shortages, why don't you just go get some new White Feather Campaign going or something while you're at it too?

    Because it's all about YOU, your FEELZINGs, right? Thought so...

    Here's a 2 star review of that book. Funny how they use the word PICKY like I did too in my earlier post here.

    But I guess we're supposedly just both DELUSIONAL and don't GET IT or something....

    Quote Originally Posted by 2 star Amazon review of the book in the link in the OP
    This book defends only women as if they are the innocent and victims of heartless men.

    Verified Purchase
    Takes only the part of women, not thinking it could be very well their fault if there are so many singles or broken relationships nowadays. The real problem is that women have become pickier than ever and will go for the perfect man or none.
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    All the blame in the world will not turn back the sands of time; they are all just waiting to be de-listed from the sexual marketplace.
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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Ace Francis View Post
    Men are scarce? Really?! Really?!?!

    Try telling that to Russian women, you stupid fucking SPOILED 21st century women, to those who TRULY had a shortage of men after the Stalin purges and WW2. Or other man shortages due to other wars.

    If you want to whine about man shortages, why don't you just go get some new White Feather campaign going or something while you're at it too?

    Because it's all about YOU, your FEELZINGs, right? Thought so...

    Here's a 2 star review of that book. Funny how they use the word PICKY like I did too in my earlier post here.

    But I guess we're supposedly just both DELUSIONAL and don't GET IT or something....

    Modern women are entitled beyond belief as they have grown up in a world without war on their doorstep. You are 100% correct in that how did women the past thousands of years cope with men going to war, never coming back or being invaded by a new batch of men?

    There is no agency to their actions that are negative...they want to be awarded the gold star for every tiny achievement, but want people to look away at their transgressions. Compare that to men...men are told their tiny achievements in life is not enough and when the falter they are told they are worthless.

    The game of gynocentric society is rigged.

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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    I was reading this one the other day. The amount of comments from men {on Yahoo} bashing the author and smacking these bitches with the truth stick was inspiring to me... as was all the MGTOW promotion i saw.

    Here's the link if you'd like to see some great rebuttals:

    https://www.yahoo.com/news/m/a7a61b4...blame-for.html
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    Re: "Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life" - -Time to "Man Up" guys!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Chukhed View Post
    I was reading this one the other day. The amount of comments from men {on Yahoo} bashing the author and smacking these bitches with the truth stick was inspiring to me... as was all the MGTOW promotion i saw.

    Here's the link if you'd like to see some great rebuttals:

    https://www.yahoo.com/news/m/a7a61b4...blame-for.html
    Damn! I went and checked out the rebuttals and they're brutal. Not that there's anything wrong with that. lol


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