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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    Oh my, look at these two comments posted just an hour ago from a 35-year old male
    Quote Originally Posted by Etherbroker
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    35 year old male putting in my 2c.

    Between the ages of 18-30 women pretty much ignored me and society treated me like a loser. I never understood how it could be possible that such a hard worker like me could not attract any attention from women.

    I worked hard, acquired wealth and status - and now some 35 year old cat lady expects me to marry up? LOL

    You see a young woman is supposed to partner with a man with POTENTIAL. If you wait until your man gets rich he is going to travel the world dating 18-22 year olds - why would I have worked so hard on all those lonesome nights to hook up with a cat lady??
    Ha HAAaa...I wonder how long till they delete this comment ensuring it's still a "safe space" away from reality?
    Quote Originally Posted by EtherBroker
    Women today have completely lost the skill set of evaluating mates. You missed a 35 year old 6'4'' self made millionaire right here. Yea it would be great to travel the world with my adoring wife and our children - and making those wholesome kinds of memories. But that didn't happen did it? You really think I am going to marry a used up roastie now? LOL
    Bingo! Comment #2 from the same person. Guys who got passed up by women in their prime are not gonna settle for paying for a used up, worn out looking version of what Chad got for free!

    I'll admit the lady Haunted sounded alright in saying that she was a serial monogamist. But was she good at being one or was she nagging and demanding or playing sex games like some women do after they get a man committed in a relationship? I'm not going to guess. But without more info than a "woe is me" letter, I'm just saying it might just be a possibility.

    What the 48 year old lady advising Haunted says in response is like the blind leading the blind!

    Saying something ridiculous like the 95 year old version of Haunted will look at the 35-year old one thus would be HAAaaaapy or some crap like that.

    The reason I have a lot more sympathy for men in that position than herself is because men have a lot less power in the dating game than women do. So naturally when I hear a woman talk about wasted life, I almost get a sense of SCHAUDENFREUDE.

    Is that unfair of me? Welcome to the other side of The Wall TM. Welcome back to Planet Earth.

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    I think Terrace Popp would hoist either a beer or a whiskey in salute to your roast. I think I will salute your efforts with a dark roast coffee. A good roast, well done!

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    The problem is this woman is mid 30s and is looking at life as a series of milestones and achievements that must be met to keep up with other women in her life. Family, house, kids, career, etc.

    I have never looked at life as a series of milestones that I have to hit. But I do set goals that I can strive for long term and while I have failed a lot I have also succeeded far more than I ever anticipated.

    Women without the guidance of older men and women simply look at life as a short term amusement park ride with all the buzz the first few minutes. I view life as a journey in a buggy wagon which is slow and methodical. Maybe boring sometimes, but other times it feels good to slow down and enjoy the tranquility.

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    Sorry in advance if this has already been mentioned, but (and I'll use female pronouns since we're talking about a female in this topic) a person's focus will have a lot to do with her success in life. By "focus" I mean inward or outward. If she's inwardly-focused, if she's preoccupied with self -- that's a recipe for a career trainwreck. No one gets promoted by being inwardly-focused. No one even gets work in the first place being inwardly-focused.

    Here are my two secrets for success and income generation. They have always, always, always worked for me.

    1) Find a need, and then fulfill it. Henry Ford saw a need: a need for transportation. Thomas Edison saw a need: a need for illumination. But not all needs are strategic. Most are tactical, at much lower organizational levels. It can be something as simple as solving the need for better communication among the people in a ten-member team. Go fix that, even if you're only a lowly team member. You'll eventually get promoted to team leader. Then start looking for needs to satisfy one or two levels above you, go satisfy those, and you'll get promoted to Group Leader.

    2) Whoever you work for, that person will find you invaluable primarily on one attribute: your capacity for reducing that person's daily (or even hourly) stress. If you can make that person's problems go away, and if you can do that routinely, you're going to get promoted so fast that you'll need a seat belt and an oxygen mask. You want that person to have uppermost in his mind, "Every time Amanda's around, a lot less seems to go wrong. Things always seem to improve. And I don't even have to get involved. It just seems to happen."

    You can see how both habits possess a focus that's exclusively external. Preoccupation with self (my generation called it navel-gazing) is a great way to stay broke and unhappy.

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    Quote Originally Posted by Don Keyknob View Post
    There's nothing humorous about a 35 year old depressed woman, full of strangers semen who has had to freeze her eggs AND at the same time realise that life doesn't exist solely for HER own benefit.
    In my heart of hearts I know you are right, but in my loins it is Schadenbonerific!

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    That dude 35 yo self made millionaire still does not realize that there is no such thing as adoring wife and LOL adoring children

    His adoring children would already be popping oxys in between breaks of snorting the white Colombian Together with their hooker mom fucking their pet malamute


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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    Alik, man, you're the best, rofl...... I could be having the shittiest day in the world and you can still get a laugh out of me!

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    That dude 35 yo self made millionaire still does not realize that there is no such thing as adoring wife and LOL adoring children

    His adoring children would already be popping oxys in between breaks of snorting the white Colombian Together with their hooker mom fucking their pet malamute


    Acapulco ayyayaya yay
    But it is just me saying that .

    Maybe someone here thinks it is actually possible the adoring wife and kids thing .

    All the MGTOW shit aside if you started making 50k a month or you already do . Could you pull it off ?
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    There was a movie made in 1956 called "The Man in the Gray Flannel Suit" whose theme is exactly what Alik is talking about. Fredric March plays the rich CEO whose daughter's gone off the rails. Gregory Peck plays the up-and-coming executive whose kids might, based on the little we see (and apparently he sees) of them. Though I'm sure she was a very nice person, I can't stand Jennifer Jones as an actress, otherwise I would've watched it more than twice (separated by more than a decade). The movie is a warning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    Sorry in advance if this has already been mentioned, but (and I'll use female pronouns since we're talking about a female in this topic) a person's focus will have a lot to do with her success in life. By "focus" I mean inward or outward. If she's inwardly-focused, if she's preoccupied with self -- that's a recipe for a career trainwreck. No one gets promoted by being inwardly-focused. No one even gets work in the first place being inwardly-focused.

    Here are my two secrets for success and income generation. They have always, always, always worked for me.

    1) Find a need, and then fulfill it. Henry Ford saw a need: a need for transportation. Thomas Edison saw a need: a need for illumination. But not all needs are strategic. Most are tactical, at much lower organizational levels. It can be something as simple as solving the need for better communication among the people in a ten-member team. Go fix that, even if you're only a lowly team member. You'll eventually get promoted to team leader. Then start looking for needs to satisfy one or two levels above you, go satisfy those, and you'll get promoted to Group Leader.

    2) Whoever you work for, that person will find you invaluable primarily on one attribute: your capacity for reducing that person's daily (or even hourly) stress. If you can make that person's problems go away, and if you can do that routinely, you're going to get promoted so fast that you'll need a seat belt and an oxygen mask. You want that person to have uppermost in his mind, "Every time Amanda's around, a lot less seems to go wrong. Things always seem to improve. And I don't even have to get involved. It just seems to happen."

    You can see how both habits possess a focus that's exclusively external. Preoccupation with self (my generation called it navel-gazing) is a great way to stay broke and unhappy.
    Can you imagine a world where women actually tried to reduce men's stress levels and strove to make problems go away? Wouldn't that world be worthy of a Twilight Zone Episode? At the end of the show, the man would wake up and find himself back in this world again. Or maybe he would reject a rescue attempt mounted by the simps of this world. Just a passing thought on the strangeness of it all.

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    Cat, to your two questions I would answer Yes and Yes. Now, someone might think that's a contradictory response, and I understand that. Here's the key, though: In each individual scenario, how much baggage is each person carrying? If its zero for both people, or close to that, then by all means it'll work. If it's a lot, but each person has chosen to set it aside temporarily to accomplish the goals of the business, then it'll work. I've seen it work hundreds of times, and oftentimes with people who are in the process of being fucked over by a piece of shit spouse. It's called being an adult and being the boss of oneself, versus letting one's emotions run the show (and sooner or later running it into a ditch). I've worked with both. The latter type of person is corrosive to an organization. I've never seen people like that get promoted. They usually get stuck in a cubicle and given "busy work" to do until they eventually tire of it and quit to go off and infect some other business.

    Maybe the question is this: How many are there, today, of each type? I really don't know. I suspect not many, and so I can see your point. I'll be the first to acknowledge that there's probably a lot of tempestuous, wah-wah-wah children walking this planet posing as adults. My generation always sucked it up and got the work that needed to be done, done. Maybe that doesn't happen so much any more.

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    I havenít kept a friend, lover, or foe around long enough to give anyone a chance.
    Giving men a chance is compromise to most; if not all women in the modern gynocracy. And compromise is the dirtiest a word a woman can hear. Why should she compromise? She wants chad and bloody well, she will get it. Chad will fuck her and others as well.

    If she even had a little logic in her fucked up brain, she would actually have fairly exchanged her good qualities, including offering herself sexually to other men who may not be hyper alpha's and see where things would have gone from there...

    At least she would have some male friends in her older years, and who knows maybe one of them might be romantically interested in her in the long term.

    But actually no! The modern cunt cringes at words like 'compromise' and 'giving him a chance'. No wonder no man would want to spend time with her. Why would any man with self-respect chase a woman who is going to instantly shut him down based solely on his looks?

    Let the bitch suffer; all well and good.

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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    "... All the while still trying to be the sexpot 25-year-old I thought I was until what seemed like a moment ago...."

    All I needed to read to know that she was a ME ME ME, .... it's ALL about ME ALL the Time female.

    She isn't good relationship material, and, wasn't good relationship material.

    Sometimes actions do have consequences.


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    Re: Where the carousel ends..

    Quote Originally Posted by ABigSiameseCat View Post
    Can you imagine a world where women actually tried to reduce men's stress levels and strove to make problems go away? Wouldn't that world be worthy of a Twilight Zone Episode? At the end of the show, the man would wake up and find himself back in this world again. Or maybe he would reject a rescue attempt mounted by the simps of this world. Just a passing thought on the strangeness of it all.
    I lived in a world like this. Course I was a snot nosed kid who didn't know what he was looking at.

    Back when dinosaurs roamed the earth, a single dad couldn't take care of his kids without help. He had to be at work long before school started, and no boss would let you show up late on a regular basis. The kids might get home before he did as well. Without good friends or neighbors, you were screwed.

    Society wouldn't let a single mom starve, but her lot was no bed of roses. All the respectable woman in town considered them little better than whore's, and you can bet their husbands weren't allowed to be anywhere near one.


    Now days employers are more likely to help a guy out if they can, though some jobs are still unforgiving for hours. The big difference is women no longer need us since being a whore is OK, and big daddy government will provide.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Yay!

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