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    For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    23 year old virgin here.

    I come from a fairly conservative Christian family. I noticed that when I became 21 my parents began to notice. My siblings made some jokes about it and recently my parents made some comments about it. I feel like they are wondering about it, but feel to awkward to ask. I noticed that my sister sometimes stairs at me when she is talking about boys and I believe that she is secretly wondering about why I don't have a GF.

    Thoughts?
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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Do you worry what other people think about how you live your life?.. If so, why? And if not why care?..

    Also are you a conservative Christian? If so then you know well that you shouldn't be sleeping around, and certainly no sex before marriage., they may be wondering instead why you are not married yet.. But ultimately that's down to you., not them.

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by Born-A-Redpill View Post
    Do you worry what other people think about how you live your life?.. If so, why? And if not why care?..

    Also are you a conservative Christian? If so then you know well that you shouldn't be sleeping around, and certainly no sex before marriage., they may be wondering instead why you are not married yet.. But ultimately that's down to you., not them.
    NO. I am an atheist, just my parents are Christian.

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by bcroger2 View Post
    23 year old virgin here.

    I come from a fairly conservative Christian family. I noticed that when I became 21 my parents began to notice. My siblings made some jokes about it and recently my parents made some comments about it. I feel like they are wondering about it, but feel to awkward to ask. I noticed that my sister sometimes stairs at me when she is talking about boys and I believe that she is secretly wondering about why I don't have a GF.

    Thoughts?
    Dude , you are a neuro surgeon here

    A very , very clueless one but still
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    Dude , you are a neuro surgeon here

    A very , very clueless one but still
    No i'm not.

    Who said I was?

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by bcroger2 View Post
    No i'm not.

    Who said I was?
    Oh , good , good thing you are not . Phew ! I thought you are that nigga that said he was


    Good half of the 23 yo guys from normal families are virgins . And they should thank their lucky stars .

    Ok you fuck a girl , then what ? Will you boast to your "friends" ? Its nothing to boast about because everybody says " im not a virgin " regardless .

    So whats the point ?

    I will tell you what is the point ... if you fuck up on your first time that is if you wont be able to get it up because its gonna be nothing like it is in porns .

    Boy oh boy its going to kill you inside . Guys commit suicides because of that . Or drink/drug themselves to death later in life anyways .

    So you better pop a pill of cialis on your first time . Just in case


    And tell your sis to stop watching all that sibling porn
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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    Oh , good , good thing you are not . Phew ! I thought you are that nigga that said he was


    Good half of the 23 yo guys from normal families are virgins . And they should thank their lucky stars .

    Ok you fuck a girl , then what ? Will you boast to your "friends" ? Its nothing to boast about because everybody says " im not a virgin " regardless .

    So whats the point ?

    I will tell you what is the point ... if you fuck up on your first time that is if you wont be able to get it up because its gonna be nothing like it is in porns .

    Boy oh boy its going to kill you inside . Guys commit suicides because of that . Or drink/drug themselves to death later in life anyways .

    So you better pop a pill of cialis on your first time . Just in case


    And tell your sis to stop watching all that sibling porn
    Thanks for the advice

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by bcroger2 View Post
    23 year old virgin here.

    I come from a fairly conservative Christian family. I noticed that when I became 21 my parents began to notice. My siblings made some jokes about it and recently my parents made some comments about it. I feel like they are wondering about it, but feel to awkward to ask. I noticed that my sister sometimes stairs at me when she is talking about boys and I believe that she is secretly wondering about why I don't have a GF.

    Thoughts?
    My first thought is that we project into others what we FEAR they might be thinking. What you are seeing is most probably your own insecurities.

    Being a virgin is equated today with some kind of leprosy. Considering the risks of STDs that is ridiculous, so what is going on? Reality is that men that fail to pander to women's demands as means of accessing the "magical vagina" are simply shamed.

    Virgin? What is that? Women at least have a hymen to lose, so there is a meaning to the word. But men? Putting your dick into a hole does not make you different in any way.

    Yet society will shame men for it:

    "If you dont chase women, you are a loser", it is said.
    "If you dont have a women, you are a loser".
    "If you never had a women, you are a BIG loser".

    The thing is, say "loser" long enough and the word stops making sense. What are you losing exactly? The opportunity to sacrifice time, money and integrity to "stop being a loser"? It appear to be the opposite, it is dealing with women that results in LOSING time, money and integrity.
    And what do you gain? The opportunity to stick your dick in a hole?

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    I am 30 years old and never been in a relationship with a female, nor I would. Very few people in matter of fact ever asked me why I don't have a girlfriend. My dad when I was 18 or 19 asked me once and never again. Some of cousins started to ask me recently when we have family gatherings. When they ask me, I tell them that "I'm not interesting to girls" and they leave me alone.

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by djibril View Post
    I am 30 years old and never been in a relationship with a female, nor I would. Very few people in matter of fact ever asked me why I don't have a girlfriend. My dad when I was 18 or 19 asked me once and never again. Some of cousins started to ask me recently when we have family gatherings. When they ask me, I tell them that "I'm not interesting to girls" and they leave me alone.
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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    2nt thread on what others think about you instead of what counts and that is making yourself better and getting there. As far as your family tell them you are after an intellectual goal. Math and Accounting fit so you are not telling them a lie.
    ,..and realize how rare you are in your community. Math and accounting. Add in the current crap school system and even in a country like the US as a whole you are rare.

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by bcroger2 View Post
    I come from a fairly conservative Christian family. … I noticed that my sister sometimes stairs at me when she is talking about boys and I believe that she is secretly wondering about why I don't have a GF.
    Thoughts?
    Thoughts? How about: if the bible is true, then your sister will burn for eternity in the fires of hell for fornication. If she can be sexually active (as she obviously is), then she doesn't really believe and is not actually a christian at all.

    I'm not actually a christian myself, but I can still recognise hypocrisy when I see it.

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    I strongly suggest you learn from Tim...

    It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    I'd probably go back to my virgin days - that innocence you get with it is great. My sex life is awful - one girlfriend and the rest pros but I learnt it is all bullshit. I always wanted the wife and two kids and a life in the country...I still want that but I also want to travel to other planets and meet alien life - the latter is more likely!

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Why do people value sex so much? You are not missing anything. I was in such a hurry to lose my virginity because everyone else was doing it or so I thought. If you really think its going to be like TV where you are under the moonlight and stars while making slow passionate love to a beautiful woman then you need to be checked into the psych ward..........FAST! You always pay for pussy. ALWAYS. It might be with your wallet, things she uses you for, your heart, emotions, etc. It's not worth it. If I could turn back time, I would ever never ever stuck my dick in a cunt. It lead to a horrible life which to me years to recover from.

    We are all men here so I will say this. I find it more relaxing and satisfying to wack it. I can get off in the shower and there is no after effects and those stupid thoughts of pussy are gone. By doing that I saved time, money, my heart, and quite possibly my life.

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    Re: For 21-29 year old virgins, how does your family (specifically parents) react?

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    Why do people value sex so much? You are not missing anything. I was in such a hurry to lose my virginity because everyone else was doing it or so I thought. If you really think its going to be like TV where you are under the moonlight and stars while making slow passionate love to a beautiful woman then you need to be checked into the psych ward..........FAST! You always pay for pussy. ALWAYS. It might be with your wallet, things she uses you for, your heart, emotions, etc. It's not worth it. If I could turn back time, I would ever never ever stuck my dick in a cunt. It lead to a horrible life which to me years to recover from.

    We are all men here so I will say this. I find it more relaxing and satisfying to wack it. I can get off in the shower and there is no after effects and those stupid thoughts of pussy are gone. By doing that I saved time, money, my heart, and quite possibly my life.
    Its the same as people believe that is you do good at school you will be rich , if you work hard you will be rich , if you do the good thing you will be rewarded ...

    All bullshit but people put their lives on it .

    You said why ?


    Because its all marketing .

    And marketing translated into human language = a lie .
    You cant keep a player down!
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