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    Seeking Asylum

    Hey All,
    Stumbled across this forum a couple of days ago, a refugee from the other site that appears to be imploding ~


    Edited Intro
    Well, my story is a bit backwords as I only recenlty learned what has happened to me over the course of my life. It began when I was researching topics for divorce, I found the site that talk about "the List" but the focus there is geared more towards men who have younger children and maintaining parenting time. A lot of good strategy info for handling lawyers and courts and exes and so can be found as well. I forget if it was a post from that particular site or just from the Google machine but eventually I came across a couple of the mens sites. This has profoundly changed my view on life and relationships (I will leave it at that because we are not supposed to talk philosophy). Anyway, I realized from my newly found world of knowledge how gullible I have been all along.


    One particular relationship I recall after I graduated form tech school and began my first professional job, I ended up sharing a 2 bedroom apartment with a coworker. His Girl from back home would visit often and then his sister returned with her one day, not bad on the eyes, but being a 2 bedroom apt, I'm thinking, where is she going to sleep? Of course next thing you know we become an item. Well life goes on for a few months then one day my buddys girl is pregnant, ahh how sweet (but we all are like 22, so how does that affect things I ponder). So geez, never suspected this kinda thing back in the day but don't you know miraculously the sister is now "pregnant" a week later (oh fuck me, what the hell am I gonna do now....). and then after a couple of weeks of fret and worry all of a sudden she is "not pregnant", WTF man how does that happen? Saddness for a bit, then next thing I know, like another week or 2 later she leaves to go back home and I never hear from her again. Saved? definately relieved I think.


    A couple of girlfirends later, I had one flat out say to me "let's make a baby"...... fuck no girlfriend, get the fuck out! Thinking this was my responsibility someday to be a dad, but not now.


    by my mid to late 20's I have had numerous girlfirends and somehow, it seems like I always managed to attract the "nut jobs" or that is how viwed every one them after awhile. I came to a point wondering if in fact there was truly something wrong with me.


    So I had about 2 years of freedom and then I found my unicorn. Being brainwashed by society in the 60's, 70's and so on of course by this time I thought I was late to the party for getting married (all my friends were), so it happened. Life goes on.


    And on and have now been married for over 20 years. Many of these years have been miserable. As I mentioned in the first paragraph, I recently became aware of MGTOW and MGOY and so on. As I read more and more I know undertsand completely what the hell has gone on all these years. The are nut jobs and AWALT! Holy crap!. Why couldn't someone, anyone, have imparted this wisdom unto me 40 years ago? Alas, having been raised Catholic it is of course death as the only acceptable way out. However, I am studying, researching to see what I can do with the least amount of damage.


    I applaud those who created this forum and the others like it. Thanks for opening my eyes.
    Last edited by Warfish; March 12, 2019 at 12:49 PM. Reason: New Intro

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    Well Warfish, your a lap down already. Must be two or three dozen a your friends got here before you. Welcome just the same.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Welcome. Good to see you found the site.

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    Hello Warfish

    welcome to GYOW. I hope you have a great stay here. Can you please post your former intro here as well. We don't ask much only an Intro and sticking to the rules.
    Certain of your comprehension looking foward to see you on the forum
    Thanks
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    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    Well Warfish, your a lap down already. Must be two or three dozen a your friends got here before you. Welcome just the same.
    Someone mentioned this site the other day and I browsed briefly. Was holding out hope of the previous home coming back up but it's not looking so good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Natural Born MGTOW View Post
    Hello Warfish

    welcome to GYOW. I hope you have a great stay here. Can you please post your former intro here as well. We don't ask much only an Intro and sticking to the rules.
    Certain of your comprehension looking foward to see you on the forum
    Thanks
    I have it almost verbatim above and no prob with rules, ex mil, kinda use to following orders if you will.

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    Thank you. It's important to us so we can get to know each other better over the time. There are no orders being given here. Just read the forum rules once and you are good to go.
    Welcome once again
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    Quote Originally Posted by Warfish View Post
    I have it almost verbatim above and no prob with rules, ex mil, kinda use to following orders if you will.
    Hi Warfish,

    Did you forget to post your Intro here? There has been a renewed emphasis on ensuring compliance with our requirement on this.

    Please read the sticky "How To Intro" found in this New Member Intros sub-forum. Then, post again in your Intro thread here to tell us about yourself, following the three numbered discussion topics found in that sticky.

    You sound like you know the drill but I'll write here our standard expectations:

    The Intro is your chance to show our membership that you are not a woman, a troll, or a trouble-maker. Therefore, we advise that you do not cut corners or be brief in your Intro or else it will waste your time and ours. To clarify, we are seeking your personal experiences and not philosophy or opinions of the manosphere, etc. as you respond to the three numbered topics.

    Here is an example of a good Intro, one of many on this site:

    http://www.goingyourownway.com/mgtow...duction-11639/

    A valid Intro is a requirement on this site and everyone had to do one.

    Thank you.
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    Re: Seeking Asylum

    PM sent to newbie directing him to Post #8, allowing a few more days to provide a valid Intro.
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

    The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.
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    There are 10 types of people in the world - those who understand binary, and those who don't.

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    Re: Seeking Asylum

    Been married for about 22 years, last 12 of which have been miserable. Constant beat down, canít do anything right, always being accused of things, screamed at, etc. but just have been mindlessly plodding along trying to figure a way out......
    Hope you decide to join us. In the mean time here is some of the best advice I got when trying to decide when, how, and whatnot on exploding my life with a divorce.

    When the pain of staying, exceeds the pain of leaving, that's when you will finally leave. So now you know.

    It appears your staying pain tolerance is incredibly high. How's that working out for you?

    Some other well said advice:

    "People are always angry at anyone who chooses very individual standards for his life; because of the extraordinary treatment which that man grants to himself, they feel degraded, like ordinary beings."
    - Nietzsche


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    Re: Seeking Asylum

    guys, sorry I have been remiss, Like I mentioned to Unboxxed, I usually just read new posts in the Lounge and haven't noticed the PM or added posts in this thread. Will update the intro soonest.

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    Okay guys, intro has been updated in the first post

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    Re: Seeking Asylum

    Quote Originally Posted by Warfish View Post
    Edited Intro
    This has profoundly changed my view on life and relationships (I will leave it at that because we are not supposed to talk philosophy).
    Well, I know you know what I'm about to say, but for the sake of others reading here, I meant only in your Intro to avoid that, as we want you to relate in your Intro only your personal experience and avoid lapsing into philosophy and generalities, so easy to do when typing out an Intro.

    Welcome!

    P.S. You can now philosophize away in other threads or in new ones that you create.
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

    The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.
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    There are 10 types of people in the world - those who understand binary, and those who don't.

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