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    I was a member of a previous MGTOW Forum. When it and others shut down I came to this one. I once believed I had to put up with my ex's BS just to prove I was a good man. I no longer believe that. I was that blue pill guy in my younger days when I plowed any female who let me and lead me to being taken advantage of over and over.I don't believe in marriage anymore, I won't be suckered into having more kids and I scrutinize any female that takes an interest in me. Not trying to end up raked over the coals over what I worked hard to have. I've paid 64,000 in child support so I have no love for the system. I still like women but I'm more cautious based on my age and experiences. If I can provide any insight to the brethren I won't hesitate to do so.

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    Sorry, we don't want no Californians. Just kidding.

    What was your family life like growing up? Did it somehow set you up for what happened later? You don't sound like a troll, but you didn't say much either.
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    Sacramento?! They're the worse of the worst! Like Boston is to Massachusetts! It's where all the money goes never to be seen again! The rest of us live in dirt and rubble!

    I have empathy for you!

    Welcome to the forums! I likely know you if you were on the kitty litter forum. Or should I say Gargamel and Cats, Inc.

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    I was born and raised in New York City. Joined the Air Force and got stationed in California. Been here since 91 but I don't consider myself a Californian. My kids live with their mom because my rules are too strict.Been working a state job and have 13 years years to go before I can retire.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sergiovalmendea View Post
    I was a member of a previous MGTOW Forum. When it and others shut down I came to this one. I once believed I had to put up with my ex's BS just to prove I was a good man. I no longer believe that. I was that blue pill guy in my younger days when I plowed any female who let me and lead me to being taken advantage of over and over.I don't believe in marriage anymore, I won't be suckered into having more kids and I scrutinize any female that takes an interest in me. Not trying to end up raked over the coals over what I worked hard to have. I've paid 64,000 in child support so I have no love for the system. I still like women but I'm more cautious based on my age and experiences. If I can provide any insight to the brethren I won't hesitate to do so.
    Thank you, sergiovalmendea, for responding to my PM request for an Intro. You have been a member here since Feb 2014 so you were one of the very first here. You had PM'd me to say that you had forgotten your password and had trouble logging in but recently you were able to do so. Nice that you are back. Jagr indicates an Intro is optional for former MGTOW forum members. I mention that so newer members will not wonder why I am not chasing you for more complete information than what you have provided here, as everyone knows I am by necessity a pit bull for compliance with our Intro requirements. These requirements came into being after the time you had joined, to screen out the blue pills and purple pills, the trolls, the women, and any others who are not red pill.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sergiovalmendea View Post
    I still like women but I'm more cautious based on my age and experiences. If I can provide any insight to the brethren I won't hesitate to do so.
    I don't mean to be intrusive but could you maybe expand a little on your 'experiences'. I get that you've been taken through the ringer with regards child support (and probably alimony), but a little more detail would help us understand where you're coming from.

    Also you state that you still like women. Many of us here still interact with women in some form or other, but could you clarify if you still consider having a long term relationship, even if, as you have previously stated that marriage and children are off the cards.

    Edit: I was composing this post unaware that Unboxxed had posted a reply while I was in the process. While I'm still curious, I will of course respect the statement provided by Unboxxed.

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    Ok...well howdy..I am one of the newer Deplorable old somabitches.

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    My most recent ex was cool when I met her. I was open and honest when we first met because past relationships soured when I asked questions about a girlfriends past and they offered none, then surprisingly a problem from their past pops up to cause me problems. As time went on more problems appeared and I asked why didn't she mention that she was a former junkie, a drunk, stubborn as hell and talked alot of shit and acted like she never said a word of it. She dumped me for a jobless, no car, no apartment, weed selling thug and lied about when she started talking to him. I was boring, no fun and never took her anywhere. Later she lost her job, got a DUI and he left her to be with his baby's mother. She pleaded with me to take her back and I did but I was a jerk to her and she acted right when I was a jerk. When I was nice she showed no interest. This pissed me off. I planned my breakup with her for Valentines Day. I learned about MGTOW from the Blackmenvent forum. When she heard me come home she was drunk and went apeshit throwing everything she could grab at me. Broke up with her right there. She moved out and tried coming back in with a spare key so I changed the locks. Its been 5 years and she keeps trying convince me she's changed but I get drunk voicemails from her and I laugh my ass off. I ignore her calls. Get another thug is my response. Peace and quiet rules my home plus one 17 year old Calico. No bitch is taking my cat.

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    Shit Sergi, your a pioneer compared to most of us. You should be shaking us down, not the other way round. Welcome.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sergiovalmendea View Post
    My most recent ex was cool when I met her. I was open and honest when we first met because past relationships soured when I asked questions about a girlfriends past and they offered none, then surprisingly a problem from their past pops up to cause me problems. As time went on more problems appeared and I asked why didn't she mention that she was a former junkie, a drunk, stubborn as hell and talked alot of shit and acted like she never said a word of it. She dumped me for a jobless, no car, no apartment, weed selling thug and lied about when she started talking to him. I was boring, no fun and never took her anywhere. Later she lost her job, got a DUI and he left her to be with his baby's mother. She pleaded with me to take her back and I did but I was a jerk to her and she acted right when I was a jerk. When I was nice she showed no interest. This pissed me off. I planned my breakup with her for Valentines Day. I learned about MGTOW from the Blackmenvent forum. When she heard me come home she was drunk and went apeshit throwing everything she could grab at me. Broke up with her right there. She moved out and tried coming back in with a spare key so I changed the locks. Its been 5 years and she keeps trying convince me she's changed but I get drunk voicemails from her and I laugh my ass off. I ignore her calls. Get another thug is my response. Peace and quiet rules my home plus one 17 year old Calico. No bitch is taking my cat.
    What a worthless piece of shit! AWALT!

    They just don't get it, it's not our responsibility to maintain their happiness and any attempt is futile.

    Where are all the good men? Staying good to themselves by dumping this shitbag society in the sewer modern women have made it!

    They can go swim with the turds for all I care, drowning need help? Toss her an anvil!

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    Hello Sergio. Glad to meet you.
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