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    ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Good day gentlemen,

    I am ninelives1971. It is a pleasure to be on board this enlightening forum.

    I am in my late forties and I am an Educator.

    I have done a lot of personal research over the years pertaining to the gynaecocracy in which we live.

    I had been especially inspired by Angry Harry (R.I.P.) Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man."

    I have learnt a lot over the years and it really bothers me that so many men are privy to this information but seem to be content in living as betas, and ignorant of what is going on around them.


    For most of my life (from a teenager to my adult life) my relationships with women have been few and far between and most of them were transient. I have never been engaged or married. I tend to be cautious…

    I am from the Caribbean. I have been told many times that I am handsome, intelligent, honest, talented, funny, etc. I am also a confident and articulate person. Most women say that they want a man with my attributes. However, what they say and what they do are two different things. Just like everywhere else, they go for the bad guy/”rude boy” or the nondescript beta. However, such guys must appear to have lots of money, be from rich families or have a car. I can drive but don’t own a car because I have easy access to anything I want in my area.

    Usually, when I meet women they seem to be interested (or feign interest) and then start to act strange as I had done something wrong and then go for the bad boys or betas.

    Actually I once had a long-distance relationship with a chica from Latin America. I broke it off because I thought that she wanted money too often.

    I used to worry a lot about why I can’t find a meaningful relationship with a special lady? Am I a bad person? Aren’t women supposed to be loving and caring; the gentler and fairer sex? Yup them ol’ blue pill statements.
    Then via the advent of the internet, I came upon a treasure trove of information and realised that nothing was wrong with me at all. I came upon Angry Harry’s site, various You Tube videos, Happy Bachelor’s forum among others. I also came upon books such as “The Manipulated Man’ by Esther Vilar and “Sexploytation” by Matthew Fitzgerald among others. It all made sense to me because when I tied this newfound knowledge with what I observed around me I had an epiphany through the wisdom of the red pill.

    I previously had some blue pill notions that women were oppressed by men in some form or fashion; they were regular victims of all types of abuse from men; that they were kind, loving, fair, they did not cheat as much as men; they did not lie as much as men (yeah right, I remember one time a woman lied to me because she could not keep a promise made to me. She claimed that she had to deal with two deaths in her family over a weekend. They died from constipation…I kid you not…lol). I woke up and realised that these were all LIES!

    I decided not to turn back for I did not want to turn into a pile of feminist salt.
    I tried oftentimes in vain to educate other men about what I had learnt. Most generally had an indifferent attitude, were just plain dumb to understand, or felt as if they knew it all and women can’t walk over them (yet still women do walk over them).
    I had come to realise that modern feminism has found its way into every facet of the sociocultural, socioeconomic and sociopolitical landscape and is destroying it all bit by bit. It collectively forms an emasculating machine.
    As I look around I see too many broken marriages; single mothers who act as if they have their shit together but really don’t; men being ass-raped in divorce court and pulled away from their children; increased abuse of men by women (the cry is that men abuse women more but research and statistics show otherwise); women being deified for no particular reason as far as I see, etc.

    As a result of the foolish cacophony, I decided to do things my way which works perfectly well. I am a work in progress since I am not fully MGTOW as yet. Eventually somewhere down the road I want to go ghost; far away from the nonsense.
    I decided to join this forum initially to gain insight on a problem concerning my beta former best friend. I also want to gain further knowledge about MGTOW and contribute to the discourses here to support like-minded individuals.

    ABOUT ME: I am an educator in the Biological Sciences. I am from the Caribbean.
    I like to read (especially scientific books. However, these days I am engrossed in some classic literature by H.P. Lovecraft as well), listen to music (rock music-all types, however, moreso hard rock/heavy metal).
    I try my best to eat healthy and I exercise everyday by taking long walks.

    I also like to sing but I do not do it often due to my busy schedule.

    Thank you for having me on board.
    Last edited by ninelives71; December 28, 2018 at 3:11 AM. Reason: More detail required.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Excuse me mate: read the below and post a satisfactory introduction.

    In order to discern genuine users from trolls, we will request the following information:

    1. Relationship history
    (experience with women, red pills, what about it made you made you aware; note- you don't HAVE to have had relationships but you can speak of your interactions with women) -- it turns out trolls don't have good, realistic stories of this ilk.

    2. Awareness
    : your blue pill perspectives, how you transitioned to red pill, with enough detail about what brought you to MGTOW.

    3. Who you are
    : tell us a little bit of who you are. What you like, what you do, etc.

    You will be contacted by a moderator if you do not follow the process.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Quote Originally Posted by ninelives71 View Post
    Good day gentlemen,

    I am ninelives1971. It is a pleasure to be on board this enlightening forum.

    I am in my late forties and I am an educator.

    I have done a lot of personal research over the years pertaining to the gynaecocracy in which we live.

    I had been especially inspired by Angry Harry (R.I.P.) Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man."

    I have learnt a lot over the years and it really bothers me that so many men are privy to this information but seem to be content in living as betas, and ignorant of what is going on around them.

    I hope to learn more as well as making my contributions to this forum. All the best!
    Welcome. Please share what you say you learned. This forum requires a detailed intro. I am not being a dick but I had to go through it too. What brought you to the light? What are your feeling on things?

    Here is my intro. I hope it gives you a better idea of what an intro is.

    http://www.goingyourownway.com/mgtow-intros/mgtow-9002/

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Working on it.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Edited. I hope that this would suffice. Please accept my sincerest apologies.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Thanks. I edited it.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Welcome, I joined in October and have a habit of never reading rules when I join forums so I had to re-do my intro as well. I don't mind though if it means the amount of dickheads and assorted trolls is reduced on here.

    I related to a lot of what you said and look forward to seeing more of your posts soon.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Welcome.

    What you will also learn is that men that are beta and alpha, etc all fall into the same trap because they buy into the twisted narrative that women are the prize. And that these men are not the prize and that they must stay in their confined box as defined by society. Worse, a lot of times women will take men that are alpha and turn them into beta.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Lovecraft, hardrock and heavy metal! My man! \m/
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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Actually I once had a long-distance relationship with a chica from Latin America. I broke it off because I thought that she wanted money too often.
    Could you share some more information about that relationship. What did you notice about the female, what where the good, the bad? How did it end? Why were you attracted to her in the first place? How did you meet?

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    (from the other thread)
    Quote Originally Posted by ninelives71
    Thank you guys so far for your inspiring feedback. I really appreciate it.
    I just posted in the intros.
    Hey, everyone else: this is how it is done.

    Newb: "Post post post"
    Mod: "Dude, intro"
    Newb: "Oops, sorry". (Does intro.)
    Other members: "dude, read the sticky post"
    Newb: "Oops, sorry again". (Fixes intro)

    Not blithely ignoring the requirement. Not "why do I have to intro?" or "(spits dummy, storms off in a huff)". Not a couple of lines that say nothing. Not a page cribbed from somewhere, full of nothing but buzzwords.

    Ninelives71 introduced himself.

    This is why I'm ok with issuing my 7-day temp bans to people that refuse to intro. Because other people like this guy have no problem whatsoever with it. We have a forum full of people that did it right.

    Oh yeah, one more thing: Ninelives71? Welcome to the forum.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Lol. Thank you.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    This occurred when I was in my early thirties when I went with a friend to a Latin American country (I prefer not to disclose where) for a vacation. He went a year before and hooked up with a hot chica. I said, I better go with him and try my luck lol.
    When we went there, a guy who lived there and helped show my buddy and I around hooked me up with a hot chica. Man, she was hot and a great fuck as well. We used to write each other and I used to call her via her neighbour. She was quite poor in a poor country.
    The only words she knew in English were “fuck,” “shit,” and “ I love you for you” lol. It’s a good thing I could speak Spanish. She said that she had a child but I never met him.
    I visited her on my own a couple of years after. We had some great love making sessions. The thing is she always bugged me for money. It used to upset me a bit though. She wanted commitment with me in terms of marriage in the future and to be with me in my country and I agreed. I said that we will get engaged on my next trip within 1-2 years.
    We continued to communicate long-distance in the usual way and I kept on encouraging her to learn English if she want to live with me in my English-speaking country.
    As time went by, she showed no evidence of learning English. I used to make the effort to send her some money every month but she did not even try to fulfil my requests.
    The straw that broke the camel’s back (there were other things that made me upset that I don’t want to get into) was when she wrote me asking for 50 bucks to buy a bicycle! I was furious! I wrote her and told her very very bluntly that I did not want to be her boyfriend anymore. She never responded. I felt sad for a while after but I realised that I learnt a valuable (albeit a costly) lesson about the deviousness of women out there, anywhere!

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    This occurred when I was in my early thirties when I went with a friend to a Latin American country (I prefer not to disclose where) for a vacation. He went a year before and hooked up with a hot chica. I said, I better go with him and try my luck lol.
    When we went there, a guy who lived there and helped show my buddy and I around hooked me up with a hot chica. Man, she was hot and a great fuck as well. We used to write each other and I used to call her via her neighbour. She was quite poor in a poor country.
    The only words she knew in English were “fuck,” “shit,” and “ I love you for you” lol. It’s a good thing I could speak Spanish. She said that she had a child but I never met him.
    I visited her on my own a couple of years after. We had some great love making sessions. The thing is she always bugged me for money. It used to upset me a bit though. She wanted commitment with me in terms of marriage in the future and to be with me in my country and I agreed. I said that we will get engaged on my next trip within 1-2 years.
    We continued to communicate long-distance in the usual way and I kept on encouraging her to learn English if she want to live with me in my English-speaking country.
    As time went by, she showed no evidence of learning English. I used to make the effort to send her some money every month but she did not even try to fulfil my requests.
    The straw that broke the camel’s back (there were other things that made me upset that I don’t want to get into) was when she wrote me asking for 50 bucks to buy a bicycle! I was furious! I wrote her and told her very very bluntly that I did not want to be her boyfriend anymore. She never responded. I felt sad for a while after but I realised that I learnt a valuable (albeit a costly) lesson about the deviousness of women out there, anywhere!

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Welcome brother Ninelives71 - an eloquent introduction. Well written, Sir!
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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Thank you sir.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Quote Originally Posted by ninelives71 View Post
    I visited her on my own a couple of years after. We had some great love making sessions. The thing is she always bugged me for money. It used to upset me a bit though. She wanted commitment with me in terms of marriage in the future and to be with me in my country and I agreed. I said that we will get engaged on my next trip within 1-2 years.
    One year is a long, long time when you have only a five-year window of being hot and attractive. Two is out of the question.

    Quote Originally Posted by ninelives71 View Post
    I wrote her and told her very very bluntly that I did not want to be her boyfriend anymore. She never responded. I felt sad for a while after but I realised that I learnt a valuable (albeit a costly) lesson about the deviousness of women out there, anywhere!
    Relax! She got the money of one of the other dozen or so gringo boyfriends who are all totally, for real going to marry her in one or two years time.

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    Re: ninelives1971 newbie intro

    Great Intro! Welcome!
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    Welcome to the forum.
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    Yo, meh Caribbean bredrin.
    Mind me asking which island you hail from?
    Welcome.

    It's interesting how our people try to keep the best of both worlds: the conservatives/religious types and their intent on protecting the family life and the family name versus the liberal/amoral type with their debauchery and overt sexuality.


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