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    Talking My (long) intro to MGTOW

    Hey guys, I'm a 22 y/o MGHOW of the ghosting variety, but I wasn't always this way. I once bought wholesale into the female imperative. All the demands it placed upon me, all the benefits it conferred to the "fairer of the sexes," and the inevitability of marriage. Thank God, Allah, His Noodliness, or whomever the hell you wish that I woke up.

    Let's begin with my experience as a boy. As a military brat (with both serving and divorced parents no less), I had no set roots in any one place, and got along pretty well when the inevitable time came to leave. I had multiple "girlfriends" (consisted of just being with them and kissing and watching scary movies; the small stuff of youth) in these times up til the end of the 6th grade. During this time I "dated" girls my age and girls older, and with the older girls the petting got heavier. Now, in the 6th grade, I knew a girl we will alias as Janet. She was an older girl, about 8th grade iirc; well developed where it counted, and blissfully not where it didn't (she wasn't and isn't generating any great unifying theories in physics). She was a total slut. She would constantly engage in "games" which amounted to little more than tag with dry humping added, and eventually she would just solicit the guys around for sexual acts (free of charge), and eventually she came to little old me. I refused outright. I don't know why, but something about the concept of "sloppy seconds" was off-putting. I like to think I knew the end result of her actions before they arrived.

    6th Grade ends, my mom goes in for some training or other, so I move with my dad to Hawai'i. The climate, both literal and sexual, could not have been any more different. Ruled completely by the female imperative. Unfaithful men were castrated, and the expectation for every guy was to be a perfect "gentleman" (read: slave), with no exceptions. SMV was in full view by this point. Guys who could do the "jerk" (yeah, I was going through school during the height of the SwagF** craze) or did some sport were prime, and most others were just kind of around. This is the category in which I found myself, and it was jarring. Sure, I wasn't getting laid as a 6th grader, but I at least had female attention. Here, I was anathema. I've always been a pretty sharp guy in the book sense, but that was quite literally the way into being relegated to the ranks of card-game-players. So instead, I spent my time in the library, reading classic literature and manga.

    Fast forward 8th grade, I have my first girlfriend in HI, lasts not that long because I outed myself as a non-monogamous fella. Learned that *any* semblance of loyalty among men can be dissolved by cutty. 9th grade, nothing to speak of. I was full on nice-boy SIMP mode, and got the corresponding amount of action. However, I started smoking weed at the time, and this begins my reformation. I got busted by my dad, who beat my ass (it was this event that broke my parents up with finality, despite my dad had married the slag he cheated on my mom with). Moved with mom and proceeded to continue smoking. After this point, I was full on stoner. I was all-in. I spent my time smoking with the local kids when I wasn't with my best friend, henceforth James. We were Yin and Yang. I was bringing all the innocence, and he the wiles and savvy. We were always getting high and chilling. Eventually, though, he introduced me via FB to this girl he knew, and I was smitten. I went full beta-orbiter and never got so much as a kiss. She's a crazy sjw now. James is a full on druggie schizo.

    I apparently learned my lesson by the 11th grade (yeah, towing the line lol), when this girl who was a senior kindly punched my card and made a man of me. We were FwB and nothing else in my eyes, but she didn't see that way. She tried every which way to trap me, including false pregnancy and "miscarriage," but I had a pretty savvy slut on my team who knew it was all lies, so I dropped her after getting my rocks off was no longer an option. Enter stage left during the drama, Joleen. Having been socially proofed by my desirability to an older girl, Joleen and I met, started talking, and were dating soon after that. I knew she had some history on her, which was surprising considering she was in the 9th grade. I got female attention during this time, but never acted on it, out of respect for my programming. Until it was high time for my time in Hawai'i to end, and as always, the PCS tore me away from everything. Our relationship fell apart, and during that time I slept with another girl who gave the reason of reasons, "I just like nerdy guys." Being a young ass, I bragged, and then my now-ex girlfriend proceeded to fuck as many of my friends as she could, even marrying one (maybe to get him out of the barracks, but yikes nonetheless).

    The first one hurt the most, considering he was the closest in my motley crew, and the guy who got me the nerd-fucker in the first place. But I left the islands and came here to SA in a funk. I missed the deadline for school and fell into a pretty great depression (I kept, and keep, myself in good shape though). I played a lot of video games and eventually took up a job at a fast food place, where I met my druggie friends and fell in pretty hard (side note: Remember Janet? Turns out she was a military brat too, and ended up in SA, where I had heard she had had multiple abortions and run up her mileage higher than the most well-loved of Ford Rancheros). Thus began a period where I continually fucked off my studies and ran into trouble with the law, all the while getting older girls without much effort. This ended when I dropped out of school and got a job.

    I met a girl at this factory who's pretty great. I started taking her home, and eventually we started dating. The rush of courtship completely unmediated by drugs was exhilarating. But not as exhilarating as cheating, apparently, because some girl I had only tangential memories of from Hawai'i flew out for the sole purpose of letting me hit. It wasn't an hour after picking her up from the airport that we were going at it, and it didn't stop for a week straight. All on her dime (possibly my crowning SMV achievement thus far).

    The afterglow didn't last long; after this, I felt like shit, having betrayed the trust of the one woman who seemed genuinely into me since I had gotten to Texas. I broke it off and fell into a self-imposed exile from 21 to nearly-22 that I wouldn't exit until I got my current job. I was doing manual labour for 2 months in the hot sun before I got inducted into the QC department, and I've been there ever since, almost a year at the company now. You can figure from the timeframes involved that my mom PCS'd once more, and since august of last year, I've been living on my own.

    My Redpill Moment:
    Mostly came over time after I left the islands, realising it was never what I considered to be my "positive" attributes that got me laid, but the company I kept and the troubles that followed and emanated from me. I'd always known about the marriage and divorce bait-and-switch, but never realised exactly how daunting the odds are. My politics became pretty right-wing when I moved to Texas. I spent a lot of time on the internet, where I read many horror stories of the institutions that be inflicting great horrors upon good men. I also learned about MGTOW there, and while I was sympathetic to the plight of men going through ravaging divorce, I still thought AWAren'tLT, and that I stood a chance. I wisened up slowly over those intermediary years, and though I have no game that applies to "adult" life, I'm more or less jive to how hypergamy and the distribution of sex works in the real world.

    Stuff about me: I still play video games (less now, I'm moving into my second apartment at the moment), but I've quit drugs on the whole. I enjoy hiking and going to the library, and have a small collection of books I would like to expand. Not sure if you're a "ghost" if you keep friends, but I get along with most everyone who I'm forced to interact with (work), and have a group of online friends and 1 lifelong IRL friend with whom I speak nearly every day. I'm ghosting to work on myself and my goals, namely reaching passive income and educational attainment, and a level of self-assuredness to where I won't go out and revert to my old SIMPing ways. I have trained in Tae Kwon Do and Muay Thai, and want to resume and enhance my training for MMA. Big time MMA casual, not really a fan of many other sports besides hockey. I used to longboard and surf, and would like to resume longboarding or begin biking (in consideration of my <2 mile commute). I came here to reach a better understanding about what works, what doesn't, and how other guys here Found Their Own Way.

    Thanks for reading, hope I made some kind of a coherent narrative, but it's hard to tie these things together into a neat and tidy package.

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    Re: My (long) intro to MGTOW

    Welcome DAHD. Self preservation is a natural right and I see you've chosen wisely to protect that right! Unfortunately "the fairer sex" expects us to surrender that right and subject ourselves to harm both mental and physical for their sole benefit and decadence.

    You sir have come to realize the false narrative of equality and the ensuing gynocentrism spawned by it, to be lawfully conscripted into the service and preservation of another without reciprocation and consent is the definition of slavery, and that's where men have been lawfully placed by the false narrative of equality. Ghosting the fairer sex releases us from the laws, guidelines, and conscription of this modern day form of slavery, glad to see you recognize the chains that bind you and decided to cut them free! You have your whole life in front of you and your freedom papers are notarized by your recognition of this ongoing injustice.

    Welcome to the club where free men gather and compare notes!

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    Re: My (long) intro to MGTOW

    Welcome to the forum.

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    Re: My (long) intro to MGTOW

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Welcome DAHD. Self preservation is a natural right and I see you've chosen wisely to protect that right! Unfortunately "the fairer sex" expects us to surrender that right and subject ourselves to harm both mental and physical for their sole benefit and decadence.

    You sir have come to realize the false narrative of equality and the ensuing gynocentrism spawned by it, to be lawfully conscripted into the service and preservation of another without reciprocation and consent is the definition of slavery, and that's where men have been lawfully placed by the false narrative of equality. Ghosting the fairer sex releases us from the laws, guidelines, and conscription of this modern day form of slavery, glad to see you recognize the chains that bind you and decided to cut them free! You have your whole life in front of you and your freedom papers are notarized by your recognition of this ongoing injustice.

    Welcome to the club where free men gather and compare notes!
    Thanks, mgtower. I figured Id just start dealing with my life with a degree of seriousness.

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    Welcome to the forum.
    Thanks!
    Last edited by DeathAndHisDog; May 14, 2019 at 6:18 PM. Reason: Lost my reply to Mgtower

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    Re: My (long) intro to MGTOW

    Quote Originally Posted by DeathAndHisDog View Post
    Thanks, mgtower. I figured I’d just start dealing with my life with a degree of seriousness.



    Thanks!
    The pleasure is all mine! We're like raindrops of justice after a long and bitter drought, relief is more than well deserved and long awaited among men! As for the women? Not our problem!



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