Results 1 to 11 of 11
  1. #1
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2019
    Posts
    5
    Reputation
    14
    Type
    Monk

    [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    Hello to everyone from Portugal,

    I've been a huge lurker of MGTOW, my story is pretty simple I've been a social outcast since I've been born, resembling a mouse in a cage "trapped" by my 4 sisters and 3 blue pill brothers. Honestly, all these years of failed courtship, escaping with excuses like "she deserves better" and being bullied by some of them didn't help too, internet hobbies like memeing, searching useless topics and games became common ground unfortunately.

    In my failed years of courtship, all i can say is my experience with girls is close to zero except for a "lucky" break and my one and only scare of a lifetime, her and my mistake. Every girl i ever met did two things: friendzoned or baited for me to somehow become an orbiter but i never did. I felt emasculated as they flaunted their lies and built drama over speculation. There's not one girl or two girls i can pin point because it was close to 99.9% of them that manipulated their surroundings and changed their behavior without a moment's notice always trying to incite something primal, bad behavior, out of me. One day, i thought i was done and i stumbled upon MGTOW away back by mistake.

    EDIT: I've been told to elaborate so there's two stories i can tell about lying women:

    1st story:
    There's a girl that i met during Calculus and we hit it off, she laughed at all my jokes and it was all normal, i went my way but we always stayed in touch. So later that year, i was planning to go to Erasmus and i told her i didn't want her to go to the same city as me because i had a little crush on her. She ignored me and resumed to apply for Erasmus to get close to me but it never happened because of paper issues, we talked a few times but later, i discovered through mild stalking that she had a boyfriend. It turns out, she tried cheating on her boyfriend with me but i dropped all communication with her before that could happen, understanding their behaviour and giving a whole new special appreciation to the phrase: "She was never yours, it's just your turn."

    2nd story:
    A girl i knew in Erasmus flirted with all of the boys equally while juggling with her boyfriend's constant messages and calls. One day, i went further and asked if she had a boyfriend and she replied no, previously i never knew she had a boyfriend and flirted back. I only discovered because a friend of mine made sure to advise me to not pick her up. Which i took the advice seriously and by the finale of the semester, by chance found hypergamy and since then haven't seen girls or women the same way.

    I was made aware of female nature with my sisters and how disposable men were to them, almost like pawns on a chess match.
    When i went through Erasmus i heard a lot of stories of the girls along the months and it made me seclude myself and drifting away of trying to pick up to getting disgusted by those behaviours and morals (or in some cases, non-existent). After that period, I've been acclimatizing to your philosophy because i always wanted to end my life with something being left behind, a kid or two maybe, to suddenly focusing on celibacy above all else which to me sounds and looks more logical than marrying somebody and suddenly lose everything, it opened my eyes and since then i haven't looked back. I discovered MGTOW in the middle of Erasmus before the red pill and step-by-step kept searching for material and slowly been taking the red pill daily to kill any thought of my personal family and paint an image or road to truly develop a meaningful life without women.

    That's my story, i feel I'm not fully MGTOW but I'm on my way there. I feel now, i just need to develop meaningful relationships and focus on building bridges on other places like programming, writing a book, meditate more, etc.. I am a software enginner bachelor and i guess wish me luck in my journey as I slowly kill my blue pill ways and yes, you could say I'm an incel going through rehab.
    Last edited by Gnuf; March 31, 2019 at 5:25 PM.

  2. #2
    Senior Member #Redpillbible's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2018
    Location
    Heaven
    Posts
    204
    Reputation
    815
    Type
    # I AM THE WAY

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    Welcome Gnuf. I live in the shit hole known as America, sounds like the women are just as shitty on your side of the planet as they are over here, I’m not surprised, I’m hearing the women are shitty everywhere. You’ll fit right in, make yourself at home.
    #HE IS THE ONE #LEGENDARY CROSS #MGTOW JESUS CHRIST

    #(DEFENDER OF MGTOW FORUM GO YOUR OWN WAY)

    #LIKE A DOVE FROM HEAVEN. (Luke 3:22)

    #I AM THE WAY AND THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE, NO ONE COMES TO THE FATHER EXCEPT THROUGH ME. (John14:6)

    #IN MY VISION AT NIGHT I LOOKED, AND THERE BEFORE ME WAS ONE LIKE A SON OF MAN, COMING WITH THE CLOUDS OF HEAVEN. HE APPROACHED THE ANCIENT OF DAYS AND WAS LED INTO HIS PRESENCE.(Daniel 7:3)

  3. #3
    Moderator Unboxxed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2014
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    2,380
    Reputation
    9226
    Type
    enigmatic

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    Quote Originally Posted by Gnuf View Post
    Hello to everyone from Portugal,

    I've been a huge lurker of MGTOW, my story is pretty simple I've been a social outcast since I've been born, resembling a mouse in a cage "trapped" by my 4 sisters and 3 blue pill brothers. Honestly, all these years of failed courtship, escaping with excuses like "she deserves better" and being bullied by some of them didn't help too, internet hobbies like memeing, searching useless topics and games became common ground and . When i went through Erasmus i heard a lot of stories of the girls along the months and it made me seclude myself and drifting away of trying to pick up to getting disgusted by those behaviours and morals (or in some cases, non-existent). After that period, I've been acclimatizing to your philosophy and logic which to me sounds and looks more logical than marrying somebody and suddenly lose everything, it opened my eyes and i can't thank you enough.
    That's my story, i feel I'm not fully MGTOW but I'm on my way there. I feel now, i just need to develop meaningful relationships and focus on building bridges on other places like programming, writing a book, meditate more, etc.. I guess wish me luck in my journey as I slowly kill my blue pill ways and yes, you could say I'm an incel going through rehab.
    Hi Gnuf,

    You are too general here. In that PM I sent you, it directed you to our How To Intro sticky. Please carefully read some of what it said, and why:

    In order to discern genuine users from trolls, we will request the following information:

    1. Relationship history
    (experience with women, red pills, what about it made you made you aware; note- you don't HAVE to have had relationships but you can speak of your interactions with women) -- it turns out trolls don't have good, realistic stories of this ilk.

    2. Awareness
    : your blue pill perspectives, how you transitioned to red pill, with enough detail about what brought you to MGTOW.

    3. Who you are
    : tell us a little bit of who you are. What you like, what you do, etc.

    9 times out of 10, a failed intro will NOT provide enough detail about who you are and relationship history.
    A mod will request more detail. At which point, more detail should be provided soon. If it's not forthcoming, the user will be removed. We need to be strict about this to ensure the community stays high-quality as it has been from the start.

    So...

    1. We ask that you give detail on "all these years of failed courtship". Pick one or two good ones and explain in detail what happened, what she said and did. Explain with the idea that you are teaching others. Here is an admittedly great example of how to provide detail:

    http://www.goingyourownway.com/mgtow...88/#post136188

    2. How did you actually discover MGTOW so that you would begin acclimatizing to it?

    3. I think you have this one covered. You are interested in programming, in writing a book, and meditation. Are you a student or what is your occupation?

    Thank you.
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

    The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.
    - Henry David Thoreau

    There are 10 types of people in the world - those who understand binary, and those who don't.

    Suitable for bookmarking: www.fakehatecrimes.org and www.breitbart.com/tag/hate-crime-hoax

  4. #4
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2019
    Posts
    5
    Reputation
    14
    Type
    Monk

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    I will edit when i get back.. i really want to be apart of this community give me a time frame to polish my intro. @Unboxxed

  5. #5
    Moderator Unboxxed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2014
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    2,380
    Reputation
    9226
    Type
    enigmatic

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    Quote Originally Posted by Gnuf View Post
    I will edit when i get back.. i really want to be apart of this community give me a time frame to polish my intro. @Unboxxed
    When you get back... when? Next month? The time frame is within the next few days if you ghost me.

    In my failed years of courtship, all i can say is my experience with girls is close to zero except for a "lucky" break and my one and only scare of a lifetime, me and her mistake.
    No sir, that is not "all you can say." If that is true, then I will close your account right now for insufficient Intro.

    I hope when you said polish that you meant expand in detail.

    If this lucky break is all you have, then this is the one experience that you really need to elaborate. You see, what you have written can be written by a female pretending to be a male. They, too, really want to be a part of this community. We must be this way with you. I predict you are not used to such inquiry but I really need to get your attention on this. Read again the 9 out of 10 thing above. I provided you an example of first-person level of detail.

    Thank you.
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

    The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.
    - Henry David Thoreau

    There are 10 types of people in the world - those who understand binary, and those who don't.

    Suitable for bookmarking: www.fakehatecrimes.org and www.breitbart.com/tag/hate-crime-hoax

  6. #6
    Senior Member mgtower's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2019
    Posts
    144
    Reputation
    704
    Type
    Ghost

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    #METOO! I'm a shit hole dweller like Redpillbible! He lives in an over populated shit hole and I live in an under populated shit hole! We met one another a while back and stuffed our guts with cowboy steak! Eating steak in a shit hole makes it taste better!

  7. #7
    Super Moderator Mr Wombat's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2014
    Posts
    4,520
    Reputation
    21219
    Type
    Neutral

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    I'm a bit more relaxed than Unboxxed, but I always like to hear a story. SOme specific thing that happened one day, a bit of he said/she said.

    Wanting to get women, have a kid one day - I don't personally think that conflicts with mgtow. For me, mgtow is mostly about the red pill, mostly about realising that you - we - have been lied to all our lives especially about women and relationships.

    If you'd like to get out of the friendzone, there is one piece of RP advice that matters: the royal road to pussytown runs though the gym. There is no substitute for getting at least a little jacked. Put on a little muscle, and the doors to club S mysteriously swing open.

  8. #8
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2019
    Posts
    5
    Reputation
    14
    Type
    Monk

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    Unboxxed don't be mad mate. When i said i will get back i was in the impression that a moderator would delete my account the other day without a proper Intro. I am trying... no need to full nuke an account of a guy who is trying his best. I edited the post is it sufficient now?

  9. #9
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2019
    Posts
    5
    Reputation
    14
    Type
    Monk

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    I am trying callisthenics now.. hopefully i can keep up the habit. I fully agree with you to, I'm honestly developing skills for a monk mode because I'm honestly feeling betrayed by a system which raised me since I've been born. It never came to my mind i was being indoctrinated by multiple women and because of my absent father, the formula naturally escalated to simp mode and now I'm seeking male figures to fill the void.

  10. #10
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    May 2014
    Location
    Gizzard Gulch Or.
    Posts
    1,840
    Reputation
    7173
    Type
    Ghost

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    While your people might of made things worse, try not to let it bother you. My parents gave me almost nothing for advice on dealing with anybody, man or woman. Without any propaganda from them, I still started out about as blue pill as you can get. A guy's just made to lean that way, it's built in. Course Americans got plenty a brainwashing with or without our parents help. TV, movies, the recording industry, all hopelessly blue pill to this very day. Walt Disney leads the pack, but rest were and still are guilty as hell.


    Be glad you figured it out before someone made a project out of you. Sounds like your still young, and haven't yet been trapped. Count your blessings and keep the women in your rear view mirror. Your doing fine.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

  11. #11
    Moderator Unboxxed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2014
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    2,380
    Reputation
    9226
    Type
    enigmatic

    Re: [Intro] Hello, i'm Gnuf

    Quote Originally Posted by Gnuf View Post
    Unboxxed don't be mad mate. When i said i will get back i was in the impression that a moderator would delete my account the other day without a proper Intro. I am trying... no need to full nuke an account of a guy who is trying his best. I edited the post is it sufficient now?
    Hi Gnuf,

    I am absolutely not mad! Nothing near that! I am more intellectual than touchy. I know that tone is everything nowadays but please don't let my lack of chirpiness make you think I go around with attitude! I always try to get to the point because I want to condense any back-and-forth messaging in trying to get the Intro done. I have many to address and some new members just want to drag it out! Just so you understand me, here's what I saw from you, and I'm not saying this to be mean but to show you what you sounded like to me in comparison with what needed to be done:

    First, I had sent you a Private Message with everything we believe you needed to know to provide the Intro we seek, including the stern warnings. In apparent response, you posted something much less and informed us that it's "all you can say". Gee, were you blowing off the effort we made to help you help us? Were you snubbing us in your own way? Of course, I must respond!

    Then you asked me to accept that you will return after some undefined time. I don't have ESP! LOL. But, yeah, I was a bit of a snark to say A Month? but I wanted to get your attention to your lack of info. I had no idea if you meant after coffee break, or tomorrow, or this week, or yeah after you come back from vacation. Gee, are you blowing me off some more? I hope you can see what I mean.

    So, I figured you are a person who does not realize how the things he says lands on the reader. Thus, I figured the best approach is some tough love and I had to... Get. Your. Attention!

    I would be sending you mixed signals if I provided you the above blue text with all of its stern warnings but then told you, "Yeah, sure, whenever, not a problem!" Also, I cannot allow our lurkers reading this to believe they can push boundaries.

    So, I adopt the tone of sternness because that's what The Boss stated. But, yeah, I would have closed your account before long had you ghosted me. All I can say to a newbie who was in your situation is to really be communicative with the Moderators. That is the best.

    Thank you for appending your Intro Post #1.

    And now... welcome!
    Last edited by Unboxxed; March 31, 2019 at 8:30 PM.
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

    The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.
    - Henry David Thoreau

    There are 10 types of people in the world - those who understand binary, and those who don't.

    Suitable for bookmarking: www.fakehatecrimes.org and www.breitbart.com/tag/hate-crime-hoax


Similar Threads

  1. Having a Go at an Intro
    By Vitruvius in forum New Member Intros
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: November 24, 2017, 4:01 AM
  2. Intro
    By SpringHeelMark in forum New Member Intros
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: July 5, 2017, 12:22 PM
  3. My intro
    By supercheese in forum New Member Intros
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: March 29, 2016, 1:42 AM
  4. My Intro
    By BeeInKc in forum New Member Intros
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: July 12, 2015, 5:34 AM
  5. My Intro
    By YourTipOfTheDay in forum New Member Intros
    Replies: 11
    Last Post: April 27, 2015, 7:38 AM

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •