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    I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Hey Everyone. WhewÖwhere do I start? I guess for one Iíll start with my stats.

    Iím 6í2, 170 lbs. soaking wet, I ran track and field through Junior High, High School & Community College and even at the age of 32 Iím at good peak physical condition. One would think by just that alone I would have a healthy sex life with a couple of relationships under my belt.

    Ö

    That couldnít be any farther from the truth. Iím socially awkward, have had bouts with acne ever since I turned 15 so that has taken a hit to my confidence, my voice is deep and dull, Iíve been diagnosed with a mental disability at the age of 3, so I feel that has played a part in lack of social skillsÖitís not Aspergers deep but itís fairly noticeable. I just feel like Iíve been cursed and I have let that play a part in my insecurity for years until I reached the age of 30. Due to my horrendous luck with women, aside from online dating and long distance relationships, Iíve never had one in person and since no woman has every found me attractive enough for intimacy, I am still a virgin. It doesnít even bother me any more and I wish I was mentally strong enough to have not let it bother me much sooner. Iíve had more female bullies than males while coming of age in Brooklyn, NY. East New York to be exact where many women have low standards in men quality wise and just saw me as ďweakĒ because I was mild mannered and wanted to keep out of trouble which constantly befell my many African American peers of my age.

    Something like this would make me a part of inceldom but since Incel culture has become rather toxic, I donít wish to identify myself in that moniker. Iíve known about MGTOW before incels became a popular subculture so I feel like thatís something I can identify myself with. What made me MGTOW is not necessarily what has happened to me but what happened to those close to me and my friends. I used to be envious of my peers getting into relationships and getting married, now Iím pretty happy and content being single. 3 close friends of mine all got married and in the span of 2 years they all went through very ugly divorces, one of them attempted suicide when his bitch of an ex wife was really forcing his hand with the divorce proceedings. That was a wake up call for me, that is not gonna be me. That will never be me. I lost all faith and belief in marriage, that outdated, archaic tradition that only benefits women nowadays. Hell I will also throw in staying away from relationships as well which leads to my 2nd MGTOW checkpoint.

    If it werenít for the typical male sex drive, I would have absolutely no interest in women whatsoever. After coming in contact with women from time to time, women in general are just, BORING! All they talk about is mundane, meaningless shit that revolves around them and in social media, all they post on there is just them partying and bullshitting, constantly parading around half naked for the gram. Yeah your body is nice but is that all you have to offer? They will also start random shit for no reason as if drama is the spice of life for them. Iím not down with that fuckshit so I prefer not to participate. Men and Women virtually have nothing in common in conjecture, itís a natural wonder that weíre able to procreate. Rick Sanchez from Rick and Morty hit it right on the head when he said, ďWhat people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage.Ē

    During my time being alone, finally alone and having my own place since early this year, there are more pros than cons with my situation now. I am in the best of health, no STDs or anything of the sort, no kids, no baby mama drama, no bitter ex hellbent on ruining my life or shitting on my dreamsÖI have learned the nature of the woman in her entirety and if anything, I canít really hate them. I actually feel a sense of gratitude for them basically shunning me because for one, you canít really ruin a man who basically has nothing to lose and Iím not conventionally handsome enough for them so I donít have to worry about having any of them shacking up in my place wanting to rearrange shit or move their stuff in with mine. I remember saying at one time ďIf having a girlfriend is gonna be anything like living with my Mom during the majority of my life, then Iíd rather stay single.Ē Sex ainít even the be all, end all to life, thereís a world to explore and philosophies to be studied and adapted into life. Itís actually for the best to just focus on me because Iím at peace with my own thoughts and no distractions.

    My bad if that seemed like a helluva lot to take in.

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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Hi JaydenJazz,

    Geez, you wrote all that for us, yet, in all these months, none of us have commented one way or the other. Bad on us. Perhaps that's why you haven't checked back since January as maybe you gave up checking for responses, dunno.

    You've talked about your relationships with women (lack of, rather) and how you became MGTOW. You got spared a world of hurt by watching what happened to those around you. In saying that, I am not dismissing your own situation. Do you have any hobbies or activities that you enjoy?
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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Hey there, I completely forgotten about this site since January since I felt my post got lost in the shuffle and felt invisible until today so it was quite a surprise. Grateful to finally have a response.

    Not gonna lie, part of me kinda wishes I've at least had experience with one woman, just to say that I have done it but I come back to my senses after a short amount of time, convincing myself that even if I have had experience with a woman or not, it's all irrelevant at this point of time now. I remember a saying that goes "Wise men learn from the mistakes of others" so I feel like I vicariously lived the struggles of relationships through the eyes of others and my consensus is that it's not worth it, especially with how women are now where privilege and narcissism are at an all time high.

    As for hobbies and activities, my New Years Resolution of this year is to reignite my passion for running like I used to during my adolescent days. I recently became a member of the New York Road Runners club, which gives me access to attend various marathons in the city during the calendar year and I'll be going to a few Warrior Dash & Spartan Race events. I'm the quintessential sportsman, I play basketball and football in recreation. Being active makes me feel alive. I currently work as a computer technician, being introduced to computers at the early age of 6 so I'm pretty skilled in that craft. Building my own gaming PCs are a lot of fun, although thankfully since I make good money in my job, I can afford getting the best parts whenever I can.

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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Quote Originally Posted by JaydenJazz View Post
    Hey there, I completely forgotten about this site since January since I felt my post got lost in the shuffle and felt invisible until today so it was quite a surprise. Grateful to finally have a response.
    I was surprised to see you log in today after I posted the above message. I had not PM'd you which I know would have sent an email to get your attention. But I hadn't done that. I was not aware that merely posting in a thread could alert. So, I am curious, how did you know I had posted here today, for you to log in today after having not logged in since January?
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    I got a notification from my Gmail. Took me off guard for a minute since it has been this long. I was waiting for my intro to become recognized here before I start to become more frequent to the forums here. Apparently I'm subscribed to this thread, I guess that makes sense since I created this thread, any post on here would notify me on my Gmail account so it kinda works like facebook, or any social media site in general. I wouldn't truly know how everything works here, I'm just going by that speculation.

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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Welcome to the forums, Jayden. I'm a loner, too, so I can relate to hard it can be to be like us. It's great that you're settling in to your own place. Just don't start thinking up ways to fuck it up, like with a room mate...especially a female one. Single women can be the biggest slobs! I know. I have a daughter and three nieces.
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Quote Originally Posted by JaydenJazz View Post
    I was waiting for my intro to become recognized here before I start to become more frequent to the forums here.
    I kinda figured that. There's no telling how many more posts your Intro will get so feel free to move around and participate. Welcome.
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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Welcome Jayden. Very well written intro. You expressed a desire to know what it's like to have a womyn submit before you. Why haven't you tried hookers? Seriously. You're in New York? You said that you make excellent money. Treat yourself. Get it out of your system. The best part is that the very idea of you satisfying your sexual hunger without suffering the 10,000 pounds of bullshit a left leaning SJW modern day womyn can throw at you infuriates the entire feminazi culture.

    Go out and fuck some young tramp then post about it on social media just to stir the pot. LOL.
    ​Have you considered fucking a doll instead?

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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    Welcome to the forums, Jayden. I'm a loner, too, so I can relate to hard it can be to be like us. It's great that you're settling in to your own place. Just don't start thinking up ways to fuck it up, like with a room mate...especially a female one. Single women can be the biggest slobs! I know. I have a daughter and three nieces.
    I know that all too well, I've only had one roommate. The roomie was a dude but he was a lazy ass bum and I felt like I was the one that had to keep the place clean as well as remind him constantly to put up his half of the rent. I hate having to nag someone to get their shit together because that's feminine energy but after that ordeal, I rather have the place to myself. Even if I have to pay full rent at least it'll be there on time and my place won't look like utter shit.

    I've heard horror stories about female roomies. One of my female cousins shared an apartment in Coney Island with one of her college acquaintances. She's not in the category of a slob but she is really overbearing, a bitch on wheels so when her roommate told be that she's like a tyrant, it didn't surprise me at all. She even have the audacity to judge my single livelihood by saying "Are you going to find a woman at any point? Don't want people thinking you're gay or anything." No one brought that up except you bitch, just like a typical woman. Yep there's 2 extremes of a woman being a roomie, you either wind up with one that pigs out on junk food and doesn't keep the place clean, or you get one like my cousin, who damn near controls every space of the place and good luck trying to have a spot to yourself because she'll dominate that shit too on some Alpha Female shit.

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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    I kinda figured that. There's no telling how many more posts your Intro will get so feel free to move around and participate. Welcome.
    I feel validated. I'm certain I'll feel at home here. Thanks.

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    Re: I'm here wanting to become a part of this community. (Couldn't think of a more creative title, apologies)

    Quote Originally Posted by Manuallaborer View Post
    Welcome Jayden. Very well written intro. You expressed a desire to know what it's like to have a womyn submit before you. Why haven't you tried hookers? Seriously. You're in New York? You said that you make excellent money. Treat yourself. Get it out of your system. The best part is that the very idea of you satisfying your sexual hunger without suffering the 10,000 pounds of bullshit a left leaning SJW modern day womyn can throw at you infuriates the entire feminazi culture.

    Go out and fuck some young tramp then post about it on social media just to stir the pot. LOL.
    LOL I've been wrestling with that mentally for the longest time. Back in my 20's I refused to consider that because I had too much pride to go for a hooker. I was still looking for the ideal girlfriend, the often fabled NAWALT to lose my virginity to, that and I still believed in relationships. I'm definitely leaning towards hooking up with some young, promiscuous women to quench the sexual frustration. I haven't gotten to that because I've been keeping myself busy that I've never even gave myself the time to even think of a woman. When the urge comes around, might be very soon, I'll take that in consideration. Sex is just sex. My mistake was placing too much importance and value in it when I was younger.


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