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    Hello Migs!

    I’ve always been a social outcast. I’m only a step above being an incel, so I might as well get that out of the way. I have the social skills of a gnat.There were a couple of times in highschool when girls became interested in me, only to be mocked and teased so much for it that they stopped talking to me. I never held a grudge against them for that. It wasn’t as if a shy teenager like me would have been any better at standing up to peer pressure, so I couldn’t really fault them for it either.


    I still felt a cold rage towards the faceless assholes who shamed and mocked them. These people had probably had girlfriends several times over but they had to go out of their way to fuck with me. A girl had finally shown me some interest after years of being ignored and they couldn’t even let me have that. I couldn’t understand what sort of vindictive motivation drove these assholes.


    What I DID resent from these girls was that after quickly moving on from me they hooked up with actual assholes. That’s not just envy talking because I openly admit I felt plenty of envy. These were guys who I had already considered assholes long before. Girls would tell me to my face that they also considered these guys to be assholes, and then the next thing I heard they were getting dicked by these same guys.


    Another experience that sticks in my memory was when I was hanging out with a few“friends”. (Friends is a sketchy word since I was always at the bottom of the pecking order in whatever social group I was in). I must have been 16 or 17. I was over at a friends house and we were hanging out in his basement. There were a couple of girls in the group. One of them was dared to do some kind of sexy dance in front of us. She looked directly at me and said “Not for that geek. I won’t do it for that geek.” The mood in the room plummeted right through the floor. I got up and walked out while trying to look like I didn’t give a shit but I don’t think I fooled anybody.


    That experience stuck with me not just for how much it stung but for what it showed me about females. They viewed their sexuality as a tradeable social asset. Only males of their own social rank were worthy to gain enjoyment from it. This wasn’t just when it came to sex but for any sort of vicarious enjoyment of their sexuality. Sexuality wasn’t just about fun, or physical intimacy, it was a token of their social status. If they shared their sexuality with men of lower social status it was like casting their pearls before swine.


    I won’t go over every bad experience I’ve had, I mention these because they stuck with me the most. I’ve had other similar experiences that confirm that women have an overwhelming urge to chase assholes, and that they view sex as transactional.


    I did eventually get a girlfriend who I settled down with, and managed to loose my virginity before I turned 20. She’s the reason why I’m more purple-pilled than red-pilled. I don’t want to say how long we’ve been together and possibly dox myself, but she certainly hasn’t tried to “trade up”. That doesn’t mean we’re in a blissful relationship through. Our “sex life” is a quickie on the weekends.


    I don’t place the reasons for that entirely on her since I know I’m far from perfect.But we’re basically in a passionless swamp of a relationship, and we have kids so we can’t just move on. But that’s another reason why I’m purple pilled. We’re both on the same page about the fact that the kids need both of us. She’s not some narcissist who thinks it’s all about her. She cooks & cleans like a tradcon & she works part time. I certainly don’t feel sorry for myself when I read about some of the horror stories out there from other MGTOWs.


    But the fact that our sex life had gone South was what led me into the manosphere. I tstarted with PUA since I was looking for a better sex life, but I didn’t want to put into practice the kind of things I read. If our sex life revolved around a bunch of mind games like negging or being an asshole then for me the purpose was defeated.


    But PUA was the hook that pulled me deeper into MRA, MGTOW and even the blackpill. I could relate to the anger of these men because of my own past experiences and my current frustrations. I had always resented the fact that men have to put in all the effort while women are presumed to have automatic value just by existing.


    As for my bluepill perspectives, I was very leftist for a while. The thought of joining Antifa sounded like a good idea to me and I was definitely pro-feminist. Even while I was delving into the manosphere I remained a leftist for some time. Plus I had been raised as a tradcuck which pedastolizes women in its own way. Sure it teaches you some redpilled things like male headship, but it assumes we live in a world where the social contract between men and women is still intact. If there’s one thing I learned from MGTOW is that it definitely isn’t.


    What do I like?Tech, and the great outdoors. I want to combine them in some kind of eccentric way. Maybe homestead while using my own mini-hydro dam to run servers and mine crypto and let that double as a heating system for my log cabin. I like hiking in long stretches of innaccessable wilderness where no one goes for decades at a time. There’s a weird dichotomy where I love the lawlessness and solitude of nature but also the connectedness and drama of the modern world. I’m looking to synthesize those two things somehow.


    I’m also interested in Chading up. That’s my word for it. This isn’t for the sake of slaying some pussy on ashleymadison or anything. The blackpill has taught me the importance of looks, how the halo effectcan open up opportunities for you that you would normally be barred from. I’ve given this some thought and realized it could have a cascading effect into other areas of my life such as my poor social skills.


    If I’m photogenicpeople will be more forgiving of my social akwardness and I’ll gain more social experience. It’s a simple and straightforward way of circumventing my own self-consciousness; just hit the dumbells and the protein shakes and develop some style in how I dress. It will attract the things I want in life instead of me having to chase them.


    Finally I like the idea of ghosting. In my case I can’t go completely ghost since I have a family, but I can become as self-sufficient as possible and minimize my economic footprint so that I’m paying as few cuck-taxes as possible. My main reason for wanting to come here is the opportunity to network with MGTOW ghosts, or else MGTOWs who’ve found a way of living in society on their own terms.

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    Re: Hello Migs!

    Quote Originally Posted by konstant_k View Post
    I’ve always been a social outcast. I’m only a step above being an incel, so I might as well get that out of the way. I have the social skills of a gnat.There were a couple of times in highschool when girls became interested in me, only to be mocked and teased so much for it that they stopped talking to me. I never held a grudge against them for that. It wasn’t as if a shy teenager like me would have been any better at standing up to peer pressure, so I couldn’t really fault them for it either.

    I still felt a cold rage towards the faceless assholes who shamed and mocked them. These people had probably had girlfriends several times over but they had to go out of their way to fuck with me. A girl had finally shown me some interest after years of being ignored and they couldn’t even let me have that. I couldn’t understand what sort of vindictive motivation drove these assholes.

    What I DID resent from these girls was that after quickly moving on from me they hooked up with actual assholes. That’s not just envy talking because I openly admit I felt plenty of envy. These were guys who I had already considered assholes long before. Girls would tell me to my face that they also considered these guys to be assholes, and then the next thing I heard they were getting dicked by these same guys.

    Another experience that sticks in my memory was when I was hanging out with a few“friends”. (Friends is a sketchy word since I was always at the bottom of the pecking order in whatever social group I was in). I must have been 16 or 17. I was over at a friends house and we were hanging out in his basement. There were a couple of girls in the group. One of them was dared to do some kind of sexy dance in front of us. She looked directly at me and said “Not for that geek. I won’t do it for that geek.” The mood in the room plummeted right through the floor. I got up and walked out while trying to look like I didn’t give a shit but I don’t think I fooled anybody.

    That experience stuck with me not just for how much it stung but for what it showed me about females. They viewed their sexuality as a tradeable social asset. Only males of their own social rank were worthy to gain enjoyment from it. This wasn’t just when it came to sex but for any sort of vicarious enjoyment of their sexuality. Sexuality wasn’t just about fun, or physical intimacy, it was a token of their social status. If they shared their sexuality with men of lower social status it was like casting their pearls before swine.

    I won’t go over every bad experience I’ve had, I mention these because they stuck with me the most. I’ve had other similar experiences that confirm that women have an overwhelming urge to chase assholes, and that they view sex as transactional.

    I did eventually get a girlfriend who I settled down with, and managed to loose my virginity before I turned 20. She’s the reason why I’m more purple-pilled than red-pilled. I don’t want to say how long we’ve been together and possibly dox myself, but she certainly hasn’t tried to “trade up”. That doesn’t mean we’re in a blissful relationship through. Our “sex life” is a quickie on the weekends.

    I don’t place the reasons for that entirely on her since I know I’m far from perfect.But we’re basically in a passionless swamp of a relationship, and we have kids so we can’t just move on. But that’s another reason why I’m purple pilled. We’re both on the same page about the fact that the kids need both of us. She’s not some narcissist who thinks it’s all about her. She cooks & cleans like a tradcon & she works part time. I certainly don’t feel sorry for myself when I read about some of the horror stories out there from other MGTOWs.

    But the fact that our sex life had gone South was what led me into the manosphere. I tstarted with PUA since I was looking for a better sex life, but I didn’t want to put into practice the kind of things I read. If our sex life revolved around a bunch of mind games like negging or being an asshole then for me the purpose was defeated.

    But PUA was the hook that pulled me deeper into MRA, MGTOW and even the blackpill. I could relate to the anger of these men because of my own past experiences and my current frustrations. I had always resented the fact that men have to put in all the effort while women are presumed to have automatic value just by existing.

    As for my bluepill perspectives, I was very leftist for a while. The thought of joining Antifa sounded like a good idea to me and I was definitely pro-feminist. Even while I was delving into the manosphere I remained a leftist for some time. Plus I had been raised as a tradcuck which pedastolizes women in its own way. Sure it teaches you some redpilled things like male headship, but it assumes we live in a world where the social contract between men and women is still intact. If there’s one thing I learned from MGTOW is that it definitely isn’t.

    What do I like?Tech, and the great outdoors. I want to combine them in some kind of eccentric way. Maybe homestead while using my own mini-hydro dam to run servers and mine crypto and let that double as a heating system for my log cabin. I like hiking in long stretches of innaccessable wilderness where no one goes for decades at a time. There’s a weird dichotomy where I love the lawlessness and solitude of nature but also the connectedness and drama of the modern world. I’m looking to synthesize those two things somehow.

    I’m also interested in Chading up. That’s my word for it. This isn’t for the sake of slaying some pussy on ashleymadison or anything. The blackpill has taught me the importance of looks, how the halo effectcan open up opportunities for you that you would normally be barred from. I’ve given this some thought and realized it could have a cascading effect into other areas of my life such as my poor social skills.

    If I’m photogenicpeople will be more forgiving of my social akwardness and I’ll gain more social experience. It’s a simple and straightforward way of circumventing my own self-consciousness; just hit the dumbells and the protein shakes and develop some style in how I dress. It will attract the things I want in life instead of me having to chase them.

    Finally I like the idea of ghosting. In my case I can’t go completely ghost since I have a family, but I can become as self-sufficient as possible and minimize my economic footprint so that I’m paying as few cuck-taxes as possible. My main reason for wanting to come here is the opportunity to network with MGTOW ghosts, or else MGTOWs who’ve found a way of living in society on their own terms.
    Hmm. In a single post you twice say you are purple pill. This is a red pill site. Your blue-pill perspectives that you mention here are expressed in the past tense. You also say the black pill has taught you. The black pill is the idea that the red pill has not gone far enough. You like the idea of ghosting and I infer you are not that.

    Purple pill = red + blue. So, tell us all about your present-tense blue pill beliefs.

    Also, konstant_k is an unusual handle. Are you the same person as the one on youtube, with these videos? :

    Konstant_K


    Lastly, outside of MGTOW, I have been trying to determine the meaning of a 1930s phrase "flapper migs" but have had no luck. You wrote Hello Migs. What does the word Mig or Migs mean to you and is it common to your geographical area?
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    Re: Hello Migs!

    You communicate pretty smooth for a "social outcast." That's ok, but it don't seem to fit with what your saying very well.
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    Re: Hello Migs!

    This isn't a purple pill forum, and you mention that you are mostly purple pilled. What makes you think that this is the right forum for you?
    That you express interest in "Chading Up" is a PUA like term. This forum isn't about that either.
    You mention a desire to be photogenic as means to improve other's perceptions of you in one paragraph and then mention a desire to ghost in the next paragraph which is a contradiction to the previous paragraph.
    You intro looks more like a word salad than a coherent intro to me. I suggest you rewrite it and try to explain why a married purple pill man who wishes to continue cohabiting, thinks he is a good fit for this forum.

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    Re: Hello Migs!

    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    You communicate pretty smooth for a "social outcast." That's ok, but it don't seem to fit with what your saying very well.
    Communicating over the internet is a lot different from communicating in real life social situations... I've always been a much better writer than speaker, I like being able to think about what I want to say, and say it properly. I wouldn't say I'm socially awkward, but I can sympathize with the OP on this.

    @konstant_k - As to the rest of the intro... I don't think you are anywhere near MGTOW. You're in a LTR with kids. I applaud your desire to raise your kids properly, there are way too many single moms these days and it shows in society. If your main complaint is your sex life, I think you're in the wrong place.

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    Re: Hello Migs!

    I did eventually get a girlfriend who I settled down with, and managed to loose my virginity before I turned 20. She’s the reason why I’m more purple-pilled than red-pilled. I don’t want to say how long we’ve been together and possibly dox myself, but she certainly hasn’t tried to “trade up”. That doesn’t mean we’re in a blissful relationship through. Our “sex life” is a quickie on the weekends.

    I don’t place the reasons for that entirely on her since I know I’m far from perfect.But we’re basically in a passionless swamp of a relationship, and we have kids so we can’t just move on. But that’s another reason why I’m purple pilled. We’re both on the same page about the fact that the kids need both of us. She’s not some narcissist who thinks it’s all about her. She cooks & cleans like a tradcon & she works part time. I certainly don’t feel sorry for myself when I read about some of the horror stories out there from other MGTOWs.

    But the fact that our sex life had gone South was what led me into the manosphere.
    Man, if you're getting laid once a week, with the mother of your real children, who cooks, cleans, works, isn't fucking crazy or a slut; if you are living with and raising your kids, not thrown out of your home, not on supervised visitation for two hours every other week, then dude not only are you doing pretty damn good, you have yourself a real unicorn there. Unless she decided that having a kid gave her permission to get morbidly obese, of course.

    If the only problem is that sex has become a bit meh, you don't need MGTOW, you need a copy of this month's Cosmo and "20 ways to spice up your sex life", and maybe a little weed. "Kissin' don't last, cookin' do."

    You want to Chad up? You want to go ghost? You'd neglect the mother of your children, who does everything you can reasonably expect a wife to do, to fuck and entangle your life with bar sluts or tinder whores? Outright bunny-boilers and worse? You wanna get gonorrhoeasyphilaids? Listen, the #1 fact and priority of you life is your kids. If you brought them into the world, they are your responsibility for the rest of your life. (If you didn't, then some single mother's chadspawn are not really your problem).

    If she's not fat (really fat), and the kids are yours, then forget MGTOW. You have it pretty good.

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    Re: Hello Migs!

    What we seem to have here is an unhappily married man in the doldrums of a long term relationshit. Further confirmation that there is no paired bonding in this life where the sex tap does not run dry.

    It's odd. Let's imagine that womyn genuinely lose all desire to fuck after the honeymoon phase of a relationshit has passed. Our collective experience seems to indicate this. Let us also trust that these womyn are fully aware that their men will never lose interest in ejaculating in their holes.

    Under the circumstances stated, why then do we not see more womyn that do it because it's their job? Myself, I take pride in a job well done, as my internet name would imply. At work, sometimes I have to push through a task that I'd rather not be doing. But I continue to do it to the best of my ability because my pride is on the line. I am an excellent "insert trade here", therefore I will smash this work and finish the job. Have these womyn no pride?

    Why don't they fulfill their job requirement and suck and fuck the cum from their man like they agreed to in their wedding vows, even if they don't feel like it? So that they can carry on with their head held high knowing full well that they sucked a good dick that day and maintained their excellent track record of never letting their man leave home with swollen balls.

    My theory for this shitshow of sexless matrimony is because their failure as an intimate partner is in private. The world doesn't know that Bob in accounting hasn't dipped his dick in his wife in over nine months. Nobody finds out about the mechanic that visits hookers every payday because his wife
    stopped spreading her legs shortly after the ring was on her finger. Public shaming could be the answer. What if you post on her social media page that her pussy is as dry as the Sahara from disuse? Would she be embarrassed into spreading her legs? Couldn't make matters worse. Divorce is inevitable anyway.

    As far as Konstant_K is concerned, I'd say check back in with us after you've truly stepped out on your own and taken the first step of the going your own way journey. In the meantime, do as our fellow member suggested - read up on ways to spice up your sex life. Who knows, maybe you'll discover something about the wifey you didn't know. . .
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    Re: Hello Migs!

    I've posted a response to all the previous comments save the last one, which wasn't there when I last posted. Is it awaiting moderation or was there a glitch that prevented me from posting?

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    Re: Hello Migs!

    Quote Originally Posted by konstant_k View Post
    Migs was just me shortening out the way MiGTOW is pronounced
    Doh, I should have seen that! I am so caught up in that 30s term so that's all I saw.

    konstant_k, you have not gone your own way. This site is for those who have. This site is for red pill, not purple pill.

    I want to network with men for the sake of sharing practical ways of living the redpill in their everyday lives rather than just refining the philosophy.
    You don't live the redpill. What's for you to share? You are still on the outside looking in and sharing is reciprocal. You want to discuss but you say you are not interested in converting people into NAWALT hunters and trying to win them over to the "purple pill". You carry an ideology that is not ours so why would I allow you here? If you don't share that then whaddya got? I won't assume your purple means you are transitioning from blue to red, or that you want to remain in the middle to blend in to increase your job and business opportunities, goals you had mentioned as your reason for PUA, another disqualifier. This site has a sub-forum where your MGTOW research will fit in nicely. Much of this conversation belongs there. It's called the Opposing Views sub-forum, a catch-all label where purple-pillers, blue-pillers, feminists, curious folks, researchers, haters, and all others who are not MGTOW can ask their questions and seek discussion with members of this forum. Just like you are doing now. You can have your discussion there, but without registered membership which is the way we denote those who are MGTOW and the integrity of that must be maintained.

    So, I am closing your account. Hopefully you received enough conversation here to wet your whistle. Head over to Opposing Views. Good luck to you.
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    Re: Hello Migs!

    People come here to ingest red pill knowledge. Not everyone has it when they arrive. Welcome to the forums. I'm so glad we're only 17 once.
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    Re: Hello Migs!

    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    Welcome to the forums.
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    He had a line through his name.
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