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    Ask and you shall receive. I recommend grabbing some popcorn.

    I will start at the beginning
    I am a bi product of a single mother and no dad. I don’t know the full story of what happened there but both parties are to blame for their own failures. Dad I don’t talk to despite giving him multiple chances to be involved in both childhood and adulthood. One particular conversation when I was young he said “Don’t call here again.” This left me at the mercy of my mother. 18 years of her brainwashing put me as a good guy and full blown simp.
    First marriage, High school sweethearts and I was quite ignorant. She wasn’t. Got married during my military training. She had it all health insurance, steady paycheck, and someone who respected her. Turns out she wasn’t happy with that. Unknown to me she had an eating disorder and was able to keep herself in check when we weren’t married. Now? Full blown craziness. Her self-harming came back, binging and then purging. We are talking eating $40.00 at least of food then throwing it up. Then her mother got involved and things just got worse.
    Everything was a trigger, I couldn’t argue or question or I was the bad guy. This set the stage for her cheating when she went with her mother when I went on a thirty day field op. She later got drunk and confessed and begged for forgiveness. Me being the young little simp I did just that. For her she knew she could do it again and again. This only spiraled me towards depression and alcoholism. I had no will to file would have preferred a bullet over admitting failure.
    In the end we did divorce, she left one day and said I am not coming back and do whatever you want. I filed and got default judgment. Then came along the single California mother.
    She I will credit managed to paint a perfect picture. Could handle her liquor, had all the right curves and paid for her own boob job. I dated her for a year before marrying her.
    Needless to say she was far from picture perfect. I knew she had two kids from a prior marriage. Though I had been raised to disregard this fact. I would pay for it dearly. Once she had everything in my name the game was afoot. I ended up losing a vehicle I loved to pay for a mortgage she had started. We lost that too in the end. We moved back on base. This satisfied her but every field op was an argument, every late night was an accusation. Yet I stuck it out saying once my enlistment was over it would be better.
    Enlistment ended right after my first daughter was born. We moved up to the Pacific Northwest from there, her choice. I struggled to find a job for about a year. Ended up working as Correctional Officer. Not the best money but it paid the bills. Mind you every day since me enlistment was an argument about why we couldn’t do this, why we didn’t have enough money. Etc. etc.
    When I was working as a CO I started on the night shift. I was lucky to get three hours a sleep. She demanded I help around the house and show her affection. Even saying once “You have slept for three hours straight time to get up”. I just told myself get a day post and it will get better.
    Eventually I did get one and nothing changed in fact it worsened. I got yelled out for looking at a pair of tits after find the pictures in a cell search. That was another issue she had, any nudity or anyone she perceived as better than her she would go off the handle if I looked at them. At this point I was so tired, drunk, and isolated I couldn’t move out if I had the will too.
    I quite being a CO after a year and went to work for a satellite provider. The normal arguments about how I must be sleeping with sexy customers because I am too tired to have sex once I come home after working a 13 hour shift six days in a row. Then came the relationship ending fight.
    I had just had a vacetmony after being shamed into having a second daughter. I will never tell her she was a guilt baby. I was sore, drunk, and she had been yelling at me nonstop to do something other than sit in my chair and watch TV. Mind you I had complications and had to have a blood clot removed. I said enough! I want a divorce. She went to the kitchen an grabbed a knife and cut her wrist and knife in hand went over to where I was sitting with my newborn in hand and yelled “YOU DID THIS!” I grabbed my phone and proceeded to dial 911. She took my phone and broke it. I got up in my boxers and went to the neighbor’s kid still in hand and requested they dial 911 for emergency services.
    The police came and arrested her. I requested a protective order and it was granted. I figured I had a few days to heal and then I would go file. Girls safely with me. Mind you I also had to call the other two’s Dad and he came to collect them. I was wrong.
    I get a call out of the blue from a lawyer saying that he had paperwork for me and he needed to deliver it. It was a notice for an emergency hearing, and a divorce in 30 minutes. I got dressed and had someone watch my girls and rushed to the courthouse. They painted me as a drunk hooked on pain meds. I was told I had three hours to collect my things and vacate the house. No contact with her or the girls.
    I lost faith in the democratic system that day. I ended up getting my own lawyer and fighting back enough to get her to let me back in the house. We weren’t allowed to renew our lease and had to live in an rv. Few months’ later divorce was done. But I was stupid.
    I worked hard and ended up moving to Indiana. I slowly rebuilt my life and started to talk to her again. (Again stupid). She said she had learned and had gotten help with her issues and the girls needed their dad. So I married her again for the good of the kids. I will curse that day and myself for all eternity. She started yelling again a week into it. I toughed it out for a year and I filed again. It was most recently completed. Literally 76 hours ago the judge signed the paperwork. I got my home, car and unlimited visitation all without seeing a day in court.
    I got my first red pill almost eight months ago. I had just escaped one of her drunken tirades by her passing out. I googled “Marriage is a lie” this pooped up mountains of information including MGTOW. At the top was a video by Terrance Popp. He gave me first red pill and I believe my success with this divorce was due to his video Pre-Divorce mentality. It became my mantra for the six months following.
    Now that I have taken the red pill I have no tolerance for women’s bullshit. I have no desire to date, or even socialize with them. I have chosen to go monk and focus on my career and own personal image. It hasn’t failed me yet.
    That is the long story.
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    Hey zasta, they require a formal introduction here for vetting and screening proposes!

    Better get on it before agent pay phone rings your number in the MARTIX!

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    Quote Originally Posted by zasta View Post
    Wandered over here from TIM, seeing some familiar names. Long story short. I got the T-shirt collection in married mistakes. Three times stupid. Divorced again and goal at this time is going monk. Normally I am working and studying finally getting shit done without the nagging distraction.
    Hi zasta,

    In this "New Member Intros" forum, please read the sticky "How To Intro". Then, append your Intro thread here (add a new post, you don't need to start a new thread) and tell us about yourself, following the three numbered discussion topics found in that sticky.

    To clarify, for each topic we are seeking your personal experiences and not generalities, philosophy, or opinions of the manosphere, etc. Providing detail helps us to learn about you.

    We emphasize, do not talk about your philosophies or share generalities. That can come later. For this Intro, talk about yourself and your personal experiences only. Avoid being brief.

    A satisfactory Intro as described in that sticky is a requirement to join our community and everyone had to do one. We look forward to reading yours.

    Thank you.
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    Thank you I missed that post and have edited for information.

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    Re: Hello

    Completed

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    Quote Originally Posted by zasta View Post
    Thank you I missed that post and have edited for information.
    I saw that, thank you!

    You had mentioned in a few places that you were going for brevity ("long story short","to summarize"), Historically on this site, brevity is used in Intros a lot by people who do not belong here as they do not have the life experience to bring forth details. So, they wrote briefly or they summarize. The details, or lack of details, is how we catch infiltrators!

    Therefore, and just so you know, any members may ask you to flesh out anything that you wrote. I may ask you a question myself but I'll wait, to let other members go first, if they do.

    Or, you may want to go ahead offer in detail any part of your Intro. For instance, how did she get away with cheating on you with several people, statements she would make that were clever lies, etc. We have newbies and lurkers who may recognize their story in your detail and this helps them.

    Thank you.
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    Fair enough. My own blue pill blindness that she would stay loyal when I was working late, field ops, and considering the one time I did catch her I forgave her. After that it was open season. I will gladly redo it once more if need be.

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    Re: Hello

    You now have the rest of the story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zasta View Post
    Ask and you shall receive. I recommend grabbing some popcorn.

    I will start at the beginning
    I am a bi product of a single mother and no dad. I don’t know the full story of what happened there but both parties are to blame for their own failures. Dad I don’t talk to despite giving him multiple chances to be involved in both childhood and adulthood. One particular conversation when I was young he said “Don’t call here again.” This left me at the mercy of my mother. 18 years of her brainwashing put me as a good guy and full blown simp.
    First marriage, High school sweethearts and I was quite ignorant. She wasn’t. Got married during my military training. She had it all health insurance, steady paycheck, and someone who respected her. Turns out she wasn’t happy with that. Unknown to me she had an eating disorder and was able to keep herself in check when we weren’t married. Now? Full blown craziness. Her self-harming came back, binging and then purging. We are talking eating $40.00 at least of food then throwing it up. Then her mother got involved and things just got worse.
    Everything was a trigger, I couldn’t argue or question or I was the bad guy. This set the stage for her cheating when she went with her mother when I went on a thirty day field op. She later got drunk and confessed and begged for forgiveness. Me being the young little simp I did just that. For her she knew she could do it again and again. This only spiraled me towards depression and alcoholism. I had no will to file would have preferred a bullet over admitting failure.
    In the end we did divorce, she left one day and said I am not coming back and do whatever you want. I filed and got default judgment. Then came along the single California mother.
    She I will credit managed to paint a perfect picture. Could handle her liquor, had all the right curves and paid for her own boob job. I dated her for a year before marrying her.
    Needless to say she was far from picture perfect. I knew she had two kids from a prior marriage. Though I had been raised to disregard this fact. I would pay for it dearly. Once she had everything in my name the game was afoot. I ended up losing a vehicle I loved to pay for a mortgage she had started. We lost that too in the end. We moved back on base. This satisfied her but every field op was an argument, every late night was an accusation. Yet I stuck it out saying once my enlistment was over it would be better.
    Enlistment ended right after my first daughter was born. We moved up to the Pacific Northwest from there, her choice. I struggled to find a job for about a year. Ended up working as Correctional Officer. Not the best money but it paid the bills. Mind you every day since me enlistment was an argument about why we couldn’t do this, why we didn’t have enough money. Etc. etc.
    When I was working as a CO I started on the night shift. I was lucky to get three hours a sleep. She demanded I help around the house and show her affection. Even saying once “You have slept for three hours straight time to get up”. I just told myself get a day post and it will get better.
    Eventually I did get one and nothing changed in fact it worsened. I got yelled out for looking at a pair of tits after find the pictures in a cell search. That was another issue she had, any nudity or anyone she perceived as better than her she would go off the handle if I looked at them. At this point I was so tired, drunk, and isolated I couldn’t move out if I had the will too.
    I quite being a CO after a year and went to work for a satellite provider. The normal arguments about how I must be sleeping with sexy customers because I am too tired to have sex once I come home after working a 13 hour shift six days in a row. Then came the relationship ending fight.
    I had just had a vacetmony after being shamed into having a second daughter. I will never tell her she was a guilt baby. I was sore, drunk, and she had been yelling at me nonstop to do something other than sit in my chair and watch TV. Mind you I had complications and had to have a blood clot removed. I said enough! I want a divorce. She went to the kitchen an grabbed a knife and cut her wrist and knife in hand went over to where I was sitting with my newborn in hand and yelled “YOU DID THIS!” I grabbed my phone and proceeded to dial 911. She took my phone and broke it. I got up in my boxers and went to the neighbor’s kid still in hand and requested they dial 911 for emergency services.
    The police came and arrested her. I requested a protective order and it was granted. I figured I had a few days to heal and then I would go file. Girls safely with me. Mind you I also had to call the other two’s Dad and he came to collect them. I was wrong.
    I get a call out of the blue from a lawyer saying that he had paperwork for me and he needed to deliver it. It was a notice for an emergency hearing, and a divorce in 30 minutes. I got dressed and had someone watch my girls and rushed to the courthouse. They painted me as a drunk hooked on pain meds. I was told I had three hours to collect my things and vacate the house. No contact with her or the girls.
    I lost faith in the democratic system that day. I ended up getting my own lawyer and fighting back enough to get her to let me back in the house. We weren’t allowed to renew our lease and had to live in an rv. Few months’ later divorce was done. But I was stupid.
    I worked hard and ended up moving to Indiana. I slowly rebuilt my life and started to talk to her again. (Again stupid). She said she had learned and had gotten help with her issues and the girls needed their dad. So I married her again for the good of the kids. I will curse that day and myself for all eternity. She started yelling again a week into it. I toughed it out for a year and I filed again. It was most recently completed. Literally 76 hours ago the judge signed the paperwork. I got my home, car and unlimited visitation all without seeing a day in court.
    I got my first red pill almost eight months ago. I had just escaped one of her drunken tirades by her passing out. I googled “Marriage is a lie” this pooped up mountains of information including MGTOW. At the top was a video by Terrance Popp. He gave me first red pill and I believe my success with this divorce was due to his video Pre-Divorce mentality. It became my mantra for the six months following.
    Now that I have taken the red pill I have no tolerance for women’s bullshit. I have no desire to date, or even socialize with them. I have chosen to go monk and focus on my career and own personal image. It hasn’t failed me yet.
    That is the long story.
    Attention lurkers and prospective members: THAT is a great example of how to write an Intro!

    Thank you, zasta. You have been through the wringer but have now seen the light.

    Somewhere in all this, the part where you told us your hobbies disappeared. At your convenience, can you tell us again, please? But, don't remove any of what you already wrote, okay? You can make a brand new post with that info in it. Sometimes, hobbies and activities become a common point for discussion between members.

    Thank you again, and welcome!
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    I passed the test!
    My hobbies are shooting, hiking, and occasionally rock climbing. When I am not outside or working I play video games or experiment with my network. My employer is gracious after the third time I brought down our work network. Though can we get the original post back up? it says MGtower is the owner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zasta View Post
    I passed the test!
    My hobbies are shooting, hiking, and occasionally rock climbing. When I am not outside or working I play video games or experiment with my network. My employer is gracious after the third time I brought down our work network. Though can we get the original post back up? it says MGtower is the owner.
    Yes, you passed!

    Do you mean YOUR original post? I recapped your original post in my Post #2 above. Otherwise, I don't know what you mean, and, no, sorry, I have no cache to access previous message editions once members overwrite what they've written. If that's what you mean. That's why I try to recap Intro posts when I respond (using Reply With Quote), because some members overwrite them later while other members leave them as is by just adding a new post to the thread, and I can't know in advance which way the new member will go.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    Yes, you passed!

    Do you mean YOUR original post? I recapped your original post in my Post #2 above. Otherwise, I don't know what you mean, and, no, sorry, I have no cache to access previous message editions once members overwrite what they've written. If that's what you mean. That's why I try to recap Intro posts when I respond (using Reply With Quote), because some members overwrite them later while other members leave them as is by just adding a new post to the thread, and I can't know in advance which way the new member will go.
    No unless its my browser. My first post where I was editing is gone. It is now saying MGTower is the owner of the thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zasta View Post
    Ah, fixed. What happened is that our automation pulled your Post#1 offline because of its new (long) length so that a Moderator can review it then make it visible again. I didn't notice that it did that as all posts are visible to me as a Moderator. In fact, it had moderated my own Post #9 because of its length but that instance I caught!

    All should be okay now.
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    Hello zasta

    thanks for your intro. I hope you enjoy your stay on GYOW. See you on the forum.
    All the best
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    Welcome Zasta. Nice to have you with us.
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Thanks for cooperating Mr. Z. We hate welcoming trolls, and since all of us have done it one time or another, we get picky sometimes. But you did good. Welcome.


    Things have changed a lot. My five year old intro today would likely get mobbed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    Things have changed a lot. My five year old intro today would likely get mobbed.
    No doubt. As several members have pointed out, trolls, feminists, SJWs, and the like, are more sophisticated in their infiltration than they used to be.

    Interestingly, I find that, as MGTOW becomes more well known, there seems to be a tendency for some legitimate newbies to abbreviate what they say in the Intro, as if assuming we all have the same volume of information (well, we kinda do) and that quoting selectively from any of that vast knowledge about gynocentrism is sufficient passport. As if telling me how bad women are is what we want to hear. The feminists try to slide in under the radar on that, if they see that it works. It makes me push harder for the member-specific detail we seek, which has been Jagr's intention in his How To Intro sticky. I want feminist lurkers to see that diligent adherence and refrain from trying to get in.

    And like I say, once you're in, you're in. Subject to the Principles, of course.
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    Much thanks for the welcome. I have noticed just in my short time quite a few special ones attempted. The detailed intro makes sense now.


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