Now in Technicolor 3D!! Added posts for decent story
Skip the first post, Its just rage.
[I've been hurt in relationships, sure. Who hasn't been? Most of the times I was was when I was fairly ignorant and believed in all the disney nonsense. I've had fairly good relationships as well and I'm not really bitter, I'm just seeing things as they are, minus social and biological programming.]
[What does a female offer me in any situation?]
snatch, validation and arguably, affection.
and now what am I expected to offer?
money at every turn, chivilry when convenient, "fair" treatment when not, an EMMENSE legal risk, loyal and loving without being desperate and still displaying I can get other women, and a laundry list of other quasi-requirements.
Why on earth would I pursue a relationship with an individual who belongs to a group wherein enough members display the following characteristics that these are the rule and not the exception: MANIPULATIVE, entitled, emotionally abusive, hypergamistic, dishonest, childish, victim-complex, narcissistic, PRIVLEDGED, borderline sociopathic, etc.
And to top it all off, I am supposed to be the pursuing party, lucky in fact, to be allowed to pursue? I'm supposed to risk my life and resources for women I don't even know, because I am disposable? I am supposed to just sit here and listen to first world women, possibly the most privleged and provided for group in HISTORY, tell me that they are victims. I am supposed to be okay with being told statistics I know are horribly untrue and proven so time and time again; sit through prejudist VAWA presentations and straight up misandristic speeches at my CONSERVATIVE SCHOOL IN THE BIBLE BELT (MTSU) that are federally encouraged, practically labeling all men as predators and women as helpless victims, before I can attend school. Im supposed to believe that once a female takes a sip of alcohol she is no longer resposible for her actions, but for men, like so many other laws, this does not apply.
Thats whats underneath the icing of the cake thats for sale and I'm not buyin it.
Biologically I'm born addicted to it, Society says its delicious and if I'm a man I have to eat it.
If I'm a man I'll find some woman to provide for.
If I'm a man I'll ignore the 46% divorce rate, over 72% of which are initiated by WOMEN.
If I'm a man and divorced, I'll continue to pay for and support a woman that no longer supports me, even though she has a much higher chance of taking more than 50% of my resources at the start of the divorce EVEN IF SHE DID NOT CONTRIBUTE TO THEIR OWNERSHIP. Even if she is a psycopath or has a drug problem she is 80 times more likely to gain custody of our kids.
If I'm a man, divorced and left in financial ruin, I'm urged to get back out there and let this happen again, more probable than not that I will cut my resources by more than half again, while most females can only gain.
If I'm a man I take this in stride, happy even, to be a part of this madness.
I'll take a pass.
Logically I would be incredibly stupid not to.
I'll keep my money, my time, my sanity, dignity and self respect.
I refuse to be a slave to a broken system or any female and I'm not hungry for cake.
I've always been smart, especially for my age, but if, at 22 years old, I've got this figured out, theres a storm coming for females, and its going to be genuinley hillarious when it hits. what I don't understand is that it seems they're doubling down, speeding up, driving into the storm. My Username is Harleys&Beer cause I like those things, pleased to meet ya.]