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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    Nope, this sure isn't a pity party where we cry in each other's soup! This is "ventilation" to air out the noxious built up gasses of feminism and gynocerntrism! And to totally steam the occasional cunt that manages to meander in and read the stark naked truth! We serve as a guide to anyone looking for the resolve they so desperately need to stabilize themselves and build a resistance to this menace!

    No lawyer or marriage counselor will dare to tread where we so boldly go! They'd be out of a job if they did!

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hoppes#9 View Post
    I will add this......The Church empowers women control over men....and we blindly follow..... I also left the church!
    It's not just the church but every area in life. There is not a place in the world(except here) that won't have some mangina scream NAWALT(Not.All.Women.Are.Like.That). But when men are damned.....its just laughs and nobody sticks up for us.

    A warm welcome! My life has gotten way better since I went MGTOW but the weird thing is I get more attention from women. I don't like it. I am a loner by nature and after dealing with women shit all my life, I need some me time. Grab a beer and feel free to post in the forum. Look forward to your posts.

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Nope, this sure isn't a pity party where we cry in each other's soup! This is "ventilation" to air out the noxious built up gasses of feminism and gynocerntrism! And to totally steam the occasional cunt that manages to meander in and read the stark naked truth! We serve as a guide to anyone looking for the resolve they so desperately need to stabilize themselves and build a resistance to this menace!

    No lawyer or marriage counselor will dare to tread where we so boldly go! They'd be out of a job if they did!
    All over the news we read of the dangerous Ebola virus........but in truth it is the pussy virus that will kill every man unless we fight for the dang truth

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    It's not just the church but every area in life. There is not a place in the world(except here) that won't have some mangina scream NAWALT(Not.All.Women.Are.Like.That). But when men are damned.....its just laughs and nobody sticks up for us.

    A warm welcome! My life has gotten way better since I went MGTOW but the weird thing is I get more attention from women. I don't like it. I am a loner by nature and after dealing with women shit all my life, I need some me time. Grab a beer and feel free to post in the forum. Look forward to your posts.
    Yeah it's not only the church....just that was the only thing I could think of where my ex enjoyed me going to with her..

    Yes I have been out a few times with the buddies for a Friday nite and it does seem the Ho's are paying more attention to me now than ever before.....Seems to me that now I don't give a shit about them they line up and take a number to ply their feminine trickery and deceptions. I sit back and just laugh at it all.. I can see the game clearly these days whereas I was blind before. LOL it's just so blatant and in your face.....

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    I feel your pain my dude. I would be wrought with vengeance if a woman had done to me what she done to you but a road of revenge is a dark path and the woman would still win either way so it's best to try and keep your sanity stable while being fully aware and not forgetting what the world has become now.

    Even when I realized marriage wasn't for me and millennials in general, I still thought that those who went on with matrimony in the 20th century had still stable marriages but even those are falling apart as well. Finally the concept of marriage prison is becoming dead and halfway extinct to the point that most marriages that still exist are unhappy ones and the only evidence of happily married people are buried together with their gravestones being their sole remains.

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    Jaden I think I have only met 1 or 2 couples that claimed to be happily married.....and that was a long time ago............the graveyard? yup!

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hoppes#9 View Post
    Jaden I think I have only met 1 or 2 couples that claimed to be happily married.....and that was a long time ago............the graveyard? yup!
    I know some happily married couples. But their so rare all they do is prove that for most of us, it will never happen.


    Shared hardship seems to be the secret ingredient most of the time, which would explain a lot. Since many Americans know little of hardship, let alone working together, conditions never line up. One couple I'm not sure about, but for the rest, they were forced into a us against the world attitude at some point in their life.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hoppes#9 View Post
    My real name is Mark.
    Well I have been married twice and am 2 weeks out from the 2nd divorce being done and over.
    I got 2 grown kids,...Boy 35 and a daughter 28 from the first marriage . Spent 28 years as a Union Industrial Electrician.....had a job accident that messed me up a bit so I cashed out early to enjoy life.
    Met my second wife in 2003 and we were soon married....shortly after I received a nice Workers Comp settlement and decided to leave the Beach where I was living and I bought a house with some land up-state out in the country.
    Wife claimed to be all for that....yeah right! Anyway,..payed off all my bills and hers too past and present at the time and then paid cash for my new(to me) property... Mine!!!!!
    Lots of work was need and my goal was to get to about 80% off grid and enjoy simple wholesome country life. For things to work out it required my wife to have a job of some kind...even if it was at min. wage.......just grocery and light bill money ya know?

    So I cleared 3 of the acres to use for gardens and chicken pen areas.....latter I added a goat lot as well. Planted much much food and had the chickens up to 45 head. In the mean time I'm putting on a new roof...fixing the septic,...building a barn and tractor shed,....re digging the well and generally busting my ass everyday on my land. Now my wife would find a job.....lose it in a month or so and the sit on her ass for 6 months claiming she was helping me... NOT!
    Always asking for a little money for this or that.....useless shit....wants not needs.

    I put 10 years into that property...10 years of sweat, tears,..back breaking labor and literal blood....she?.....might wash a dish or two...maybe burn some food in the evenings....stay on the internet most all day,....and asking for money.

    Now we got married when she was 36 and I was 45...she had 3 mostly grown kids,....and now y'all gonna say DUDE!! WTF? man. I know..I know...but see I had never heard of MGTOW back then and just have here in the past few months. So anyway when we'd fight I was always told and convinced somehow it was my fault. I am old fashion in most ways so I just shut my damn mouth and went on with the program.... well she was told by a doctor she was Bipolar...the menopause two years ago......Hell I always just thought she was crazy.....then ...then here last summer she turned violent....I mean VIOLENT.
    Got hit upside the head from behind with a kitchen fire extinguisher....then punched three times in the face even before I could wipe the blood from my eyes ( now my wife is a Black-Belt in Hapkido) plus she is just a mean old Indian bitch and loves knifes.

    I wanted to knock her fookin teeth down her dayum throat but instead went outside and called the cops.......wrong move!! In S.C. any domestic is always the mans fault....I got hauled to jail by way of the emergency room for stitches. 7 days.

    So lets bring this up to near now..... I couldn't get her grown kids to convince her to leave nor could I get her to seek help.. Other than going to jail for life...I decided to walk away from my house land and 10 years of hard work over this LOON!. In South Carolina property division is a 50/50 split...irregardless of her few hundred bux investment as opposed to my 165K.....she gets half..
    I could go on and on about her being a .. well a whatever,..and I could also go on about the fact I should have know better than to re-marry. So here I am living in a spare bedroom at my Son InLaw and Daughters place...stuck up in the dayum city

    I learned a short while ago about MGTOW and have lurked about on a few sites......I like the look and feel of this on... so here I am.....Am now MGTOW...it took a while but better late than never.

    Hope this intro is ok...if the mods need some more from me I will try to fill in as much as I feel comfortable with.... but as far as the running around with her lovers while I'm busting a*s plowing....i'd just as soon let that lay....it still pisses me off..

    Thanx
    Mark
    For what it's worth our stories about mirror each other. Except for the events that caused the split.

    I too built a dream home for us to retire in, out in the country. Did almost all of it myself.
    My ex wife helped me a good half hour or so out of the 3 year process.

    She too was bi polar. Mine didn't get violent. She was just fucking any man or woman she took a notion too.
    I found out and filed for the divorce.

    Had to walk from my home as well in the divorce process. I still remember pulling out of the driveway that last time.
    Just like you said. Law says half is hers. No matter who did the work.

    Welcome. Just know that some of us know EXACTLY what you speak of.
    "People are always angry at anyone who chooses very individual standards for his life; because of the extraordinary treatment which that man grants to himself, they feel degraded, like ordinary beings."
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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    After reading your story (I live in the same state as you now) I'm brought down a few notches. I got hit in the head with a wine glass in Washington (not with a fire extinguisher, thank God), but when I sought help I was arrested for disturbing the peace. My public pretender wouldn't even talk to me until five minutes before my "trial", if you want to call it that. I overheard a bartender talking about calling the cops on her boyfriend when I moved here. Apparently he had installed kitchen cabinets and done all sorts of other work that her new place needed. Once he was done with the renovations, she was done with him. Welcome to the forum...you and I have quite a bit in common...I was an electrician, too, for a while, but repairing electronic equipment was more my specialty. There isn't a state in the union that will even try to protect a man from a woman thanks to VAWA. Thanks Joe Biden, you worthless FUCK! As for us, well I pick a lot now and spend my time grinning from ear to ear because I don't have girlfriend and I don't want one either. I want a beer, a sandwich, and a request for a song. Here's one for our ex's Hoppe9...I hope you enjoy it...https://youtu.be/s5G1Z7RBbsU
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    I know some happily married couples. But their so rare all they do is prove that for most of us, it will never happen.


    Shared hardship seems to be the secret ingredient most of the time, which would explain a lot. Since many Americans know little of hardship, let alone working together, conditions never line up. One couple I'm not sure about, but for the rest, they were forced into a us against the world attitude at some point in their life.
    Both of the couples I knew lived during the depression era and ww2., they were my Grandparents.
    My Mother and Dad appeared to be happy...then one day back in 1968 they split.. Where I was from you did not see that kinda of thing it was rare... Now they both went on and remarried other people but by that time I was a little older and could see what I didn't see when I was younger.....they were never happy.
    My Dad put on a happy face in public and pretended all was well but was constantly worried about infidelity from his 2nd wife. He ended up committing suicide when I was 30. My Mother was just plain bitter 'till the end and made my Step Fathers life miserable.

    Things changed drastically during the 60's and seems like the worst in people came out..even in those that seemed to try the hardest.

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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    O.G. seems like it's a very common theme with us guys who are a little bit older.

    Now I look at what I lost with the time spent on her and have come to believe it was worth it to get rid of her. I mean when I get older and need to rely on a mate for help , I know she wouldn't have been there....... costly?...yes but I'm glad I found out now..



    Thanx for the welcome.
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    Re: Always believed it was somehow my fault.

    JoeTech.....yeah buddy good old Travis Tritt..
    Kinda funny but I had Gene Watson's "farewell Party" playing in the background while reading your comment. Always enjoyed Country music....the old kind, not this new progressive cross-over crap heard on the radio these days. Speaking of the old style,....George (no show) Jones was my favorite.
    I played with a bluegrass group back in the day...picked Banjo but an Earl Scruggs I NEVER was...I was mostly vocals. Anyway...long time ago in another galaxy.

    On the Work background,..I got into the Union apprenticeship program just as soon as I came out of the AirForce in 1980 My choice was High Voltage and Distribution Centers. Though I did do a bit of time with PLC .

    You mentioned the bartender getting rid of the guy fixing her house,...women yak about guys not wanting to commit and all but when they do the girl just chunks his ass like a disposable diaper


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