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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Yeah it definitely goes against our programming to be alone and not procreate. Perhaps if women and society were not as fucked up then maybe I’d change my stance and settle down but at the moment I’m happy to go my own way and I honestly can’t see that changing.

    Unless there is a paradigm shift in the way we live our lives then I see humanity is quickly going become extinct.

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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    after reading the owner's manual for the brain, and reading the nature versus nurture part, a kid is probably better off with good genes. its best to choose a good looking woman or a healthy, symmetrical woman. the group socialization theory says that it doesn't matter much about raising the kid, just the genes.

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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    I think that it's mainly about the feeling of time running out. If we're not married by the time we're 30 years old, we're supposed to start panicking. Of course unmarried women in their 30s get pats on the back, but men start to get treated differently by EVERYONE around them. Even people who previously supported them suddenly get this attitude problem. They start to patronize us and look down on us.

    So men marry ugly women because they think "now or never". Especially without awareness of the red pill, these same men have no idea that their SMV goes up with age. They think that a 40 year old man dating a 20 year old woman is the same thing as pedophilia, so that only increases the feeling of crunch time.

    The worst part is that marriage is portrayed as the gateway to being a normal human being. "Finally, I'm one of the good guys, I'm married." Nobody can ever say that I'm a bad person.

    There are so many different ways you can look at it. It definitely depends on the man, but it doesn't help when every fucking thing around him tells him that he's a psychotic freak if he remains unmarried. Or he's supposed to be an irresponsible child for remaining unmarried. Which is truly insane, once you unpack all the assumptions that go into it. An unmarried man is supposed to be never doing anything productive or meaningful. He's probably just fucking around all day with his car, or his video games, or porn. If he had a wife step in, then suddenly he has to man up (tm). Now he's finally forced to be responsible for once! It's not like he could have doing that all along...that's impossible
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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aintdealingwithyoshit View Post
    Is our species even worthy of continuation? I'm not misanthropic, but I don't see a whole lot of worth in humanity as a whole. The popular sentence "emotions are what makes us human" is the most obnoxious crap people say, emotions aren't specifically human, even animals feel emotions. Maybe not in such a great variety, but in my opinion emotions are what makes us inferior. Reason is the only thing that makes us ACTUALLY superior towards animals and has put us on top of the foodchain. It's going to be interesting how nanotechnology and neuroscience will shape the world in the following decades, though my expectations aren't all that high.
    For the stoics, reason was "God". Today it appears as if emotions are "God". To me, that is a regression.
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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    I didn't marry until I was 35. By then at least 50% of my close friends who had married early on were divorced. The rest got divorced in the next 5 years. It was an eye opener. Fat or thin. Ugly or good looking. I knew the chances were high that I'd be divorced if I married young, so I basically cratered any relationships I had through age 30. After 30 I slept with many various women. If they talked marriage I quickly disappeared. That to me was ghosting.

    I know now that if I hadn't met my wife, I'd still be single. I haven't met a woman since age 35 that I'd want to be married to. My wife is a rare beast. She prizes her independence as much as I do.

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    Sometimes personality are better then looks. also ugly women fuck better!

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    Today I was also thinking that people naively think having kids will turn them into responsible, capable people. Men infected with the male hamster (must prove how much shit I can put up with), might choose ugly women because it's "better than nothing". And they need to show the world how hard they can work, how much shit they can put up with from a nagging wife...
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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rollingsolo86 View Post
    Sometimes personality are better then looks. also ugly women fuck better!
    Show me a woman with a personality and I'll show you a transvestite.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nuggets View Post
    Today I was also thinking that people naively think having kids will turn them into responsible, capable people. Men infected with the male hamster (must prove how much shit I can put up with), might choose ugly women because it's "better than nothing". And they need to show the world how hard they can work, how much shit they can put up with from a nagging wife...
    but what happens when the world no longer gives a crap? Everyone likes to say the differences people have are between things like race and gender. The real battle is between single people and married, with or without kids. I find as a single man i dread going to affairs where everyone is hooked up with someone. Its like the only reason they get together is to compete in some weird contest who has the most perfect blue pill life. What happens when more and more people don't see that as a badge of honor, and more truth comes to light that it was just a really stupid move. It will suck for them when they become the abnormal, and they're stuck in a situation of not only slavery but also no more badges given out for it

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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rollingsolo86 View Post
    Sometimes personality are better then looks. also ugly women fuck better!
    Oh yeah boy !


    Its not that ugly woman fuck better its hot girls that are absolute garbage . Uglies fuck normal .

    Though it would be more nice without fat chicks
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    Quote Originally Posted by do not disturb View Post
    but what happens when the world no longer gives a crap? Everyone likes to say the differences people have are between things like race and gender. The real battle is between single people and married, with or without kids. I find as a single man i dread going to affairs where everyone is hooked up with someone. Its like the only reason they get together is to compete in some weird contest who has the most perfect blue pill life. What happens when more and more people don't see that as a badge of honor, and more truth comes to light that it was just a really stupid move. It will suck for them when they become the abnormal, and they're stuck in a situation of not only slavery but also no more badges given out for it
    Its already abnormal to have kids if you aint rich . Nobody says it out loud but it already is .

    As it was 100 years ago so it is now 90% of the children are drunken oopsies .
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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Isaiah4:1 View Post
    Understand this: fat and ugly women absolutely believe they're worth as much as attractive women.
    yeah..there are some who find larger women attractive.... but as for me, I just don't know anymore.. (like i said, no "standard"..)
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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Many great post here,about this subject.I also think it comes down to a mans self-esteem/
    self worth;these days guys are so desperate,that they will take any woman,no matter how ugly or fat,
    so that they prove to themselves or/and their friends and family,that they dont stand out.(single)
    I see this all the time;in public places and at my work;were masculine,ugly,fat,bragging land-whales,
    are worshipped like GODDESESS! Totally insane to me though.I have been told,that I am ugly;this may be true,
    but I due have self-esteem,and dignity.I know I can't have the woman I desire,(sex),but that doesn't mean
    I will settle with any woman "in my league" or lower.(Thats why I choose P4P)Back to the subject;we all know that we can't change the nature of women.Therefore the fault lies with bluepill MEN,AND NOT WITH women.

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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    BeijaFlor beat me to it! That's we he is a great and powerful mod.


    I would say, even despite MGTOW, men are still as thirsty as ever. Also, women have really let themselves go.

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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rollingsolo86 View Post
    Sometimes personality are better then looks. also ugly women fuck better!
    Only to a certain extent. I knew one who was begging to suck my brain out through my dick and do everything to please me but I couldn't deal with her ugly short hair and facial features. Nope.. not happening, not now, not ever! I would rather just download some porn.
    Marrying a woman is like taking a shit upside down every day for the rest of your life. Don't do it!

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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    The way I see it, in terms of long-term exclusive relationships--you've gotta date a woman 9/10s as good looking at you. They've already got the pussy advantage

    If you don't believe that, ha ha, try to sell your ass on a non gay red light district. It just ain't happening! Whereas some fugly woman would find some thristy enough simp to least sell her ass at crack/meth whore rates in no time! All she'd have to does is dress up slightly slutty. Whether it be a little cleavage or fish net pantyhose, that futon women could guy to pursue her way faster than a Chad Thundercock trying to pull off a gigalo trip. I'm not a betting man, but I'd bet good money on it that Miss Fugly could sell her ass faster than Chad in the right atire. It would not even have to be that slutty. Just some hooker boots or a fish net and that broad wound get paid faster than Chad.

    Now on the other hand, there is a problem with dating a chick that is too fat. Instead of appreciating that you have the damn time of day for them, they'll be DUMB enough to resent you--just as Bonecracker said--as if you cannot get anything better eventuality. Even when you know it's not true. Some of the will eventually slowly but surely overtly resent you for it. [B]This is what you get for lowering your standards and not fulfilling your SMV potential. That old song "Marry An Ugly Girl"' is OLD news nowadays. Thanks to dickless simps who take back virtually brazen cheaters back and to online dating, these hamster minded hive creatures nowadays think they're God's GIFT To Men!!

    To sum it up, date a woman 9/10s as good looking as you, not 6/10s or less! That just does not work anymore. Times change!!

    I would've never believed this back in the day. But when I read this Book Of Bonecracker except, I looked back at a few of my relationships with fat or fugly girls and thought, damn, Bonecrackwr is right again. I love his closing point, "the problem isn't the body, it's the mind."

    http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.c...girls.html?m=0

    Quote Originally Posted by Bonecrackr excerpt from Fat Bottomed Girls
    Women, on the other hand, tend to be fat because they are neurotic and insane. Compulsion, shame, fear and hatred are the watchwords here. Most fat girls have a severe eating disorder, usually Bulimia. Traits very similar to Borderline Personality Disorder go hand in hand with that. They are big time into suffering, mostly theirs. However, they want to take you along for the ride. One thing is for certain, their opinion of you is very, very low. They think you are a loser because you can't date anyone better then them. They despise you because they feel they can't do any better than a loser like you. They will hate you because they think you secretly consider them disgusting, ugly and worthless. They will blame you for everything bad in their lives including their fat.

    Approaching Fat/Ugly Chicks is Harmful to Your Self Esteem
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    Approaching fat/ugly chicks can be seriously harmful to your self-esteem. They are no more likely to find you attractive than a Pamela Anderson look-alike, and you will feel like total shit when they give you that, “get away from me you loser” look. But, it gets worse….MUCH worse. Fat/ugly chicks assume that if you are paying them any attention at all, you must be such a fucking loser that you can’t get anyone else…..and they treat you like it. Of course, this does zero to affect their sense of entitlement. In other words, you are a loser for wanting someone so heinous but they are still a princess, even though they ARE heinous. Plus, women who are fat/ugly are usually INSANE. They are into suffering big time and want to take you along for the ride. Unlike men who are usually fat because they eat too much, women are usually fat as a side effect of serious personality disorders that manifest as bulimia (binge eating, with or without vomiting), drug use and other fun stuff. Stay the hell away from women like this.

    Women often bitterly complain that they are discriminated against if they are fat. But, it’s not true. A man who is fat has no chance with women (unless he is in the criminal scum class….but that’s another story). But, most fat/ugly chicks have a man. The people who discriminate against them are other women, not men. However, many men learn the hard way that they aren’t just fat, they are demented assholes. They give them a chance, often giving several fat women a chance, only to be treated like total dirt in the most fucked up situations. So, they learn to avoid them (at least I have, lol). It’s this issue that makes men avoid fat chicks, not their weight
    I've seen both sides of the coin. I've had woman treat me like gold who were chubby.

    On the other hand, the worst treatment I ever got was some fat bitch my age. I totally see and feel what Bonecracker says that eventually hate you subconsciously because you had to settle for them. Yet conversely they think they're a fucking princess.

    Compared to women who were kind of out of my league, it was the fugly woman who acted if I was beneath them. Go figure. You'd think it be the other way around.

    Well, the days are past where I take shit from some fat ass. Sorry, but there is sometimes nothing lower feeling than being talked down to by some bitch someone would have to throw a brown bag over the face of just to withstand having sex with them!
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    ^ This guy's blog is great. Realistic PUA advice without any preachiness
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    Often they cook good and give really good head. One of the best blow jobs I ever had was by a ugly woman. Perhaps they aren't as demanding as a hot woman. The best thing is to avoid all marriage and just go Mgtow.

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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Quote Originally Posted by AdTheBad View Post
    Who's to say whats ugly?
    I've known women who wouldn't turn a head from the 'in' crowd and would be laughed out of fashionista fairytales, out of style and proportion but glowing with self confidence, emotional balance and grounded in reality, beautiful to behold in the passing moment, for a moment, but passing, mention the realms of mammon and its gone awalt. But the most beautiful women I've ever met have been 'ugly'.
    Says a woman disguised as a man!

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    Re: Why do men marry ugly women?

    Maybe they find them attractive? Not everyone has the same standards for attractiveness as you.


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