Ghosting can be very difficult to explain to just about everyone besides another ghost.
One needs to be there before they can get there, or be in two places at the same time.
One needs to begin keeping promises made only to ones' own self and provide for their
fulfillment, ahead of schedule and under budget.
It can be extremely difficult if one is his own project, risk manager, accountant, engineer,
typist, secretary, and president.
Ghosting could possibly be described as:
"The Art and Science of Presiding over ones' own Self and no other".
Women naturally think this is "selfish" and "wrong". Women want control.
Women are also naturally inclined to make false, baseless accusations and
presume an unrebuttable posture of correctness while falsely attributing their
posture with our desires.
Women justify their existence by creating more of both men and women.
They cannot accomplish this with an unwilling male, nor without creating
conflict and controlling the conversation about the issue and their feelings
How a woman treats a daughter is very different from the way she treats a son.
What a woman tells her daughter is very different from what she tells her son.
Illogical at best, malignant at worst.
How do I deal with this crap as a ghost?
I realize that all my feelings put in a plastic bag are worth less than the bag.
I realize that even my mother lied to me. She apologized for this many decades
later. Every woman I ever met lied to me to gain some undue advantage or to
diminish my status without comprehending what it was I was doing.
I realize that I am truly on my own, nobody can help me and everyone might be against
me as well. I need to be ok with that.
It's been 7 years since I wanted to have sex enough to speak about it.
I still don't want sex- most of the time. The rest of the time I try to figure
out what it is a woman wants in exchange for sex and how to politely
avoid that bad, sick and wrong deal.
In the last 7 years, I have accomplished more, saved more, invested more and
built more than in the past 39 years of living. It's not by accident.
I went my own way and became engrossed in it.
What a difference.
My life is so much better now.