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    Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    So I have been working with this cunt in the marketing department for a while. I made a massive mistake by dating her a few times. I called off the last date because we had a massive argument during work once (not inside the office, but on visit to a client).

    So I dumped her basically. And now I think she is in revenge mode. She keeps trying to tell me how to do my job. The other day, she suggested that I contacted so and so client and see if we can work with them.

    I told her that the particular client is not interested in working with us because they have strict requirement for the products they want to buy.

    She begins asking what I meant by that, and that maybe their policy has changed recently etc...
    I eventually said I will call them later which I did and I got no response.

    This cunt keeps doing such provocative shit throughout the work day.
    Next time if this shit happens, I plan to look her in her face and tell her 'you have no business asking me this question, its not related to your job' and give her a stern and intimidating look in the process.

    I am valuable to the company, I bring money and sell a lot!
    She just joined and does a half assed job. She is disposable.

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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    Your better at this stuff than I am, so I ain't got much. But it's time to put her on double secret probation and start a notebook on her dumb ass. She's sure to cause trouble if she ever gets the chance. Have the facts ready when she does.
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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    Yup, I know a secret about her which could damage her reputation. And it is related to something she did which cost the company a lot of money.

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    And this is exactly why dating in the workplace is off limits for so many men, no matter how 'not like that' she seems and pretty she is.
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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    I think she is not done having that argument with you and she will keep picking at you until she gets a high-energy response from you. They live for that shit.

    If you know how to signal to her that you will never give her what she seeks, a signal embedded in the context of the next issue she tries to make with you, this could make her realize how fruitless her quest it. It's all situational so I cannot tell you specifically how to do it.

    Marketing Department, you say? Uh oh. There's a lot of latitude for a women to be a cunt in a Marketing Department, yes?
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    The key is consistency and set a standard you do not waver from. Also, be very vigilant to record and log all your work through a personal journal with dates and time stamps on what you are working on throughout the day. Plus, the added bonus is that it also helps with your work and also gives you a cover for possibly down the line. Think big with such little nuances and these little nuances may end up paying off eventually IMO.

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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    Your better at this stuff than I am, so I ain't got much. But it's time to put her on double secret probation and start a notebook on her dumb ass. She's sure to cause trouble if she ever gets the chance. Have the facts ready when she does.
    "Also, be very vigilant to record and log all your work through a personal journal with dates and time stamps on what you are working on throughout the day. Plus, the added bonus is that it also helps with your work and also gives you a cover for possibly down the line. "

    For a paper record, this form is very useful.

    http://www.citadel.edu/root/images/c...-form-1594.pdf
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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    Thank you for this.

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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    She is in revenge mode. Women like to do the dumping and brag. But when it happens to them then all bets are off. You made the big mistake of shitting wear you eat(AKA dating a bitch from work).

    The one part you said got to me. "Next time if this shit happens, I plan to look her in her face and tell her 'you have no business asking me this question, its not related to your job' and give her a stern and intimidating look in the process."

    Why did you even answer it in the 1st place? Women are liars and love to twist things around. Think of a woman like you would a cop. All their questions are loaded. Asking something as simple as "What's the weather going to be like on Thursday?" might be taken as "Why would he know the weather days in advance? He must have something planned".

    Your best options are to.........

    1. Ignore her. Don't respond to her at all. She is looking for a reaction to ruin you.
    2. Talk to your boss and/or management. Cover your own ass. Be the first to make a report. I have learned in my life that in any way, shape , or form that the one who makes the first report/move is the one that carries the most weight.
    3. When she is around then you better make sure others are around. Never be alone with a crazy bitch.

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    When the shit hits the fan, those that have documentation have both a sword and a shield. She makes an accusation, you walk into Human Resources, open your book, and say, "No, Ma'am, that didn't happen, not where it happened, or when it happened. I account for every minute of my day. The day she said I did that, I was actually in a meeting with Mr. Smithers. I have the who/what/where, and what we talked about. On the back, I took notes. "Smithers, anniversary, wife, tie stain, booze breath." Yes, I remember now, Mr. Smithers just came back from lunch with his wife: they had celebrated their wedding anniversary, and split a bottle of wine. I made a note, I recall he had a marinara sauce stain on his tie, and had boozy breath. I have witnesses of where I was, so the accuser is lying."

    You make copies of the book and let HR know that you have it. (but don't give more than a sample sheet to them, let them know you have months of entries. That way the complaining THOT will be deterred from making stuff up, because if she is wrong about details, it hurts her credibility. "I could NOT have hurt her feelings on that day, because I was sick/travelling/away that day.")

    The front of those pages are for short, details of time/place/activity/encounters (potential future witnesses), and the back is for notes that jog your memory, but would be look innocent until you flesh them out.
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    The book also serves another purpose. When it comes to evaluation and bonus time, you can go over months of entries, and highlight all your accomplishments. He who comes into performance evaluation season with the most, and the most documented contributions, has the strongest argument for bonus, positive evaluations, and promotion. You tend to forget all the little projects that caused you to work late, or those times you saved the company money, etc....when months have gone by.
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    Spend a few minutes a day jotting this stuff down has a psychological benefit.

    It relieves stress. You building a little insurance policy, which relieves the feelings of helplessness. It is very cathartic to pull the negativity and stress OUT of you, and onto the paper.

    The first time you use it, it is very intimidating to all who wish you ill. You have jotted down all the times your coworkers came in late, left early, took a long lunch, took a liquid lunch, stole office supplies, used the company phone for 90 minute private call, calling in sick so much they never worked a full month or even week, who locks themselves in the office or goes to the car for naps, etc.

    When people realize that your file has enough accumulated dirt to get everyone fired, they will back off and tell the accusing THOT to STFU.

    They will treat you the way politicians, actors, and everyone who had something they didn't want to be known treated J. Edgar Hoover.

    You are a nice guy, but all this time, you were ultimate "listening device," but you didn't do anything about it....until someone fucked with you.

    When lay offs come, the boss will come to you to find out who is malingering, who is stealing from him, and who is sabotaging him.
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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    I've also tried to make a calendar of her period cycle. That's when she usually goes ape shit. Same for my manager who is also a cunt who got her position by sucking the MD's dick. I have it all in my diary, and that is when I know when to back off and when to go in for it.

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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    I've also tried to make a calendar of her period cycle. That's when she usually goes ape shit. Same for my manager who is also a cunt who got her position by sucking the MD's dick. I have it all in my diary, and that is when I know when to back off and when to go in for it.
    Very good.

    You are thinking outside the box and you are starting to see through the window dressing. This works also with men that are under the pressure of having a baby on the way. These men tend to be more passive aggressive toward males that are not married or have any kids during those nine months and also a year after the baby is born. This is because we as free men are a daily reminder of what life could be for a man that is free, so expect to see these men undermining you at work or giving bad vibes toward you.

    Workplace nuances are really complicated to understand given you are dealing with too many unknowns. However, others in this thread have given great, great advice so far and you have a solid grasp of what to look out for.

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    Ignore her and pretend she's not there

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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    If this keeps up.. just tell her flirting with coworkers is NOT in your job description

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    I would also recommend preemptively going to HR. Tell them you have concerns, but are not ready to name names....yet. Rember, the first person to go HR wins. By going now, you put a "placeholder," that you can use later.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post
    "Also, be very vigilant to record and log all your work through a personal journal with dates and time stamps on what you are working on throughout the day. Plus, the added bonus is that it also helps with your work and also gives you a cover for possibly down the line. "

    For a paper record, this form is very useful.

    http://www.citadel.edu/root/images/c...-form-1594.pdf
    I'm with Sam here; I've done this before and if shit hits the fan you pull out your big file with journal entries and time stamps. Makes them looking like massive idiots. If people talk shit and people realise it, then their integrity is in shreds. Record everything.

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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    Another advantage of the "pre-emptive strike" visit to HR is that, if the other party denounces you afterwards, and sets supervisors against you, you can then claim that was done as "retaliation" for "whistleblowing" about the hostile work environment you were subjected to.
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    Re: Cunt at work is trying to provoke me

    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post
    Another advantage of the "pre-emptive strike" visit to HR is that, if the other party denounces you afterwards, and sets supervisors against you, you can then claim that was done as "retaliation" for "whistleblowing" about the hostile work environment you were subjected to.
    Absolutely correct. You have to get out front early and have written evidence regarding what company expectations have been expressed and how you are conducting yourself. You then have an approved model to validate other work interactions again in the event that they start working against you.

    I strongly recommend to new employees that they start using journals for meetings and projects. Bound composition books are great, $.50 each and clearly show that no tampering has been done. This written proof helps prove consistent chronic patterns of abuse and harassment. Best of luck.
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