Thread: How to avoid looking at girls?

Originally Posted by Morlock

Not that this is a common event but I like it when they give you that hopeful flirty look and you don't act on it or even notice. Then you get the look of disappointment on their faces.

How to avoid looking at them? Just keep in mind that despite what they protest about, they actually want to be looked at. I saw a woman the other day wearing this dress with a really high split up both sides her entire legs were exposed. She walked past a few men and not one of them even glanced at her.

You don't wear something like that to be ignored.

I agree, I don't care how much they cry about being 'objectified' and the BS of 'I dress for ME'. No the fuck you don't, thirsty bitch. It's amusing to see a woman swish by a group of guys , pretending to be completely indifferent, and when no one looks she somehow finds a reason to pass them a few more times. I've literally had women--alone, with a female friend, whatever--literally get up and switch seats just to be in my line of sight. No reason whatsoever for her to move in a mostly empty train car, unless she's unsatisfied with her current position in relation to the man she wants to notice her (I make it a point to sit opposite of wherever some random chick is sitting on the train, as most seem to assume you'll sit right across from her for the view).

They'll bend over for no real reason, then cannot help but glance at you for a reaction. Ignore them, be sincere with it, and notice the reactions. Notice the perfume and scented lotion coming out, notice the ghetto art of gum popping, notice the AWDTSS of sudden and vigorous hair-flipping (All Women Do This Stupid Shit).

She wore that short skirt and low cut top for a reason, and goddammit you'd better notice, stranger. She wants to go on social media and whine about all the thirsty men she's desperately trying to bait.

Once again, if you are hungry, go to the supermarket, or, if you do not feel like cooking and washing pots and dishes afterwards, go to the restaurant. Then, you wont be hungry for a while. Do not starve yourself. Do not torture yourself with a TV set that can only pull in the Food Channel.

If you are thirsty, drink some water. Repeat as necessary. Do not waste time obsessing over the water fountain for hours or days at a time.

If you are "thirsty," go to the oasis.

Internet connection, passport, suitcase, Travelocity, credit card, condoms.....you, too, can become a "passport playa."

Originally Posted by Montresor

I agree, I don't care how much they cry about being 'objectified' and the BS of 'I dress for ME'. No the fuck you don't, thirsty bitch. It's amusing to see a woman swish by a group of guys , pretending to be completely indifferent, and when no one looks she somehow finds a reason to pass them a few more times. I've literally had women--alone, with a female friend, whatever--literally get up and switch seats just to be in my line of sight. No reason whatsoever for her to move in a mostly empty train car, unless she's unsatisfied with her current position in relation to the man she wants to notice her (I make it a point to sit opposite of wherever some random chick is sitting on the train, as most seem to assume you'll sit right across from her for the view).

They'll bend over for no real reason, then cannot help but glance at you for a reaction. Ignore them, be sincere with it, and notice the reactions. Notice the perfume and scented lotion coming out, notice the ghetto art of gum popping, notice the AWDTSS of sudden and vigorous hair-flipping (All Women Do This Stupid Shit).

She wore that short skirt and low cut top for a reason, and goddammit you'd better notice, stranger. She wants to go on social media and whine about all the thirsty men she's desperately trying to bait.

Two of my favourite stories in regards to this are from my late teens. The first one was when I was trying to disembark from a train one day and as I was looking down I see a shape in front of me. I look up and there is a woman blocking my exit trying to get on. I move to my side and she moves too still blocking me. I get pissed off and dodge around her. I realize later that this was her idea of flirting with me. If I did the same to her it would have been some kind of assault.

The second one was when I was walking in the city with a male friend. A woman with nice legs walked past us and I commented to him that she had nice legs. The girl not so far behind us thought I was talking about her and so she speeds up and walks in front of us. I was this really odd naive nice guy back then and thought I offended her somehow, so I say to her "Oh sorry, I didn't mean you" well didn't she speed off quickly!

The point is that a woman will do just about anything to get a man's attention other than just approaching him and saying "Hi".

Originally Posted by sam luis obispo

Once again, if you are hungry, go to the supermarket, or, if you do not feel like cooking and washing pots and dishes afterwards, go to the restaurant. Then, you wont be hungry for a while. Do not starve yourself. Do not torture yourself with a TV set that can only pull in the Food Channel.

If you are thirsty, drink some water. Repeat as necessary. Do not waste time obsessing over the water fountain for hours or days at a time.

If you are "thirsty," go to the oasis.

Internet connection, passport, suitcase, Travelocity, credit card, condoms.....you, too, can become a "passport playa."

Ever notice that when you are thirsty or hungry that usually it doesn't take much to satiate that craving? Is sex even worth the effort when all you really want is an orgasm that you can give yourself?

The other day this girl fell over into me and blamed something on the floor. I looked around and noticed there was no trip hazard....and there was plenty of room around me. Oldest trick in the book.

Originally Posted by Neo

The other day this girl fell over into me and blamed something on the floor. I looked around and noticed there was no trip hazard....and there was plenty of room around me. Oldest trick in the book.

When something like this happens I immediately check for my valuables to see if they're all there.

Happened to me on the subway a few times, and it's only because I am usually the only male in the car not desperately looking for any eye contact he can get. The chick fell heavily into my lap, then looked at me and mouthed an insincere apology, smiling as if she'd just succeeded in getting my attention finally and was waiting for that smile to be returned. I looked at her as if she'd just farted.

Another hoodrat apparently couldn't believe her overly-accentuated ass was not magical, and actually positioned herself to literally put her entire ass as close to me as she could (again, she'd stood there on the train posing and preening to no effect). The only reason I didn't say 'Get your ass out of my face, thirsty bitch"--literally those words--is because there was no way to do so without causing a scene on the mostly full train, and I just wanted my usual peaceful ride. Ignoring her seemed to piss her off as she left the train in disbelief finally, but I would've loved to have cursed this presumptuous slut out.

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

When something like this happens I immediately check for my valuables to see if they're all there.

The only things that seemed to be missing were all of the fucks I didn't give....

It's really amazing how they can fake an interest in you, when they're really just sizing you up to find out your marital/financial/mental health/potential sugar daddy status. I keep remembering this when 'a friend of a friend' says she would like to meet me. How sometimes I would get involved, (live) with a female, & 3 weeks later would quit her job. That's ALL that continues to play out in my (sometimes thick) brain, and instantly, as I feel that disappointing miserable twisted pain in the pit of my stomach, I instantly change my focus, by NOT looking at them.
Occasionally, if I happen to be in a social situation, which is rare, & a woman tries to ask me things about my work, residence, hobbies, etc....I revel in being as vague as you can imagine, to the absurd, so that they walk away to seek out a willing victim.

Was out on the bike last summer, and decided to hit a food truck on the way home. I no more than set down when a women waltzes up and flops down at the same table, asking if it's alright after the fact. I had a few years on her, which would make her slightly younger than dirt. Wasn't bad looking for her age either, but she showed up at least ten years too late to have any luck with me. I was polite, but inside I was ice. Ate fast and left. She probably thought I was a loyal chump to some woman.

Pretending to be a loyal chump to some other woman is an effective form of ghosting isn't it? Since you had the bike out, you couldn't pretend to be already asset stripped, which is my favorite method of ghosting. Therefore acting as if you were already a claimed loyal beta wallet/orbiter is a good strategy under those circumstances. I may have to the same when I get my 2nd gen TransAm up and running and take it for a spin. (The 2 gens are becoming collector items now, so someone might realize that I have something of value.)

Originally Posted by SteelEye

It's really amazing how they can fake an interest in you, when they're really just sizing you up to find out your marital/financial/mental health/potential sugar daddy status. I keep remembering this when 'a friend of a friend' says she would like to meet me. How sometimes I would get involved, (live) with a female, & 3 weeks later would quit her job. That's ALL that continues to play out in my (sometimes thick) brain, and instantly, as I feel that disappointing miserable twisted pain in the pit of my stomach, I instantly change my focus, by NOT looking at them.
Occasionally, if I happen to be in a social situation, which is rare, & a woman tries to ask me things about my work, residence, hobbies, etc....I revel in being as vague as you can imagine, to the absurd, so that they walk away to seek out a willing victim.

I've noticed the same thing. They are cold as fuck about it as well. The first time this happened to me I was around 19 and a mess emotionally and in general really. Anyway this girl I worked with who was really cute starts talking to me at lunch, I wasn't thinking she wanted to date or fuck or anything but I did see it as a friendly gesture.

We had a chat and then she never spoke to me again. I realized all she was doing was getting data she needed and probably to gossip with her friend who was also cute that worked in the same place. Then they wonder why some guys go ballistic when they feel they have been led on.

I'm also long over their generic hobby, work, family type questions. They have no idea how to engage someone in conversation. Given women's supposed prowess at communication I really do expect better.

Originally Posted by Octavian

When you see a hot piece of ass remember that fucking it WILL cost you $42,000, according to scientific surveys on coupling costs.

Can never look at hot girls again.

Originally Posted by SteelEye

It's really amazing how they can fake an interest in you, when they're really just sizing you up to find out your marital/financial/mental health/potential sugar daddy status. I keep remembering this when 'a friend of a friend' says she would like to meet me. How sometimes I would get involved, (live) with a female, & 3 weeks later would quit her job.

OMG! Could they BE any more obvious that they have jumped off the "strong and independent" train and jumped into your wallet.

Use the thousand yard stare if you can. Focus on what you need to buy, stare ahead to the side of them.

I have an easy way to deal with this issue. I only look at feminine whimyn. That takes care of virtually every one I encounter. Those rare few that appear feminine are really just walking 3D photoshop parodies of femininity.

This thread title is one of the most embarrassing ones I've ever seen in the history of the manosphere.

Sounds like some prepubescent troll or something or someone trying to make it sound that way.

Women are very manipulative when it comes to IOI (indicators of Interest). They might smile, but it could be to provoke or to get some information for the follow up conversation.

Aside from that though, why would you avoid looking at women? It is proof of your manhood when you look at an attractive women, engage with them and romance/seduce them for your own pleasure (sexual, friendship etc.)

Originally Posted by Opaque

Women are very manipulative when it comes to IOI (indicators of Interest). They might smile, but it could be to provoke or to get some information for the follow up conversation.

Aside from that though, why would you avoid looking at women? It is proof of your manhood when you look at an attractive women, engage with them and romance/seduce them for your own pleasure (sexual, friendship etc.)

It is a part of me that I am not really wanting to shut down to be honest. I don't mind looking at times, I don't care if it gives them an ego trip if they even notice me looking in the first place. I am sure in many cases if they notice it makes them feel creepy anyway as I am hardly a Brad Pitt type.

Engaging with them though doesn't interest me. I just don't see them as something I can relate to anymore.

Call me Peter Pan but I talk to and interact with whomever I want and when I want. I don't go up rudely and act like an uncalibrated fool but at the same time I am not going to be paralysed from being able to engage with society in general.

I guess you can call me a ghost that hides in plain sight in a sea of people on this earth.