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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by Northman View Post
    this so much.Did the Plenty fallen of the carousel after i was divorced.Trying to get back in the game.When i was still "that guy".Truly an eye opening experience.
    They will throw the vag at anybody that will pay them any attention.The big problem is its full of treble hooks trying to land that last catch.

    If there's one thing a woman truly hates it's supporting herself.
    I went and looked. I did a search on that site for women who are looking to get married (that's an actual search option/selection). The women I saw were average at best, Most were not and had hit the wall. Several were openly overly entitled with the 'I love to travel and go places' BS. Most of them had kids, and those without kids, wanted them or are 'not sure' - yeah ok, you're 39, and not sure if you want kids. One woman admitted she did not have kids and wanted to get married and immediately have a baby. The rabies was strong in that one. Several others I could look up before the search went to a default page were 'divorced' and 'ready to love again' after 'finding themselves'.

    That was one search page returning about 8 or 10 results and I didn't even look at all of them. Even if I were inclined to be looking on a dating website, that 6 minutes would be enough to not bother.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by FapMaster View Post
    If you're young, you're gonna look, period. Just keep in mind that for every beautiful woman, there's a man tired of putting up with her shit.
    That'll help some..

    It gets easier with age young brother
    I'm 59. I still look. But it doesn't bother me - screw them if they don't like it.
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    I'm 45 and I look just as much as I did when I was 17. It's natural to look. Just remember how dangerous they are...especially these days.





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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    http://pics.pof.com/dating/239/99/2j...97565752.2.jpg

    Hope this pic shows up here's what's available in my area guys on plenty of trash
    *warning may cause eye damage*

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    http://pics.pof.com/dating/239/99/2j...97565752.2.jpg

    Hope this pic shows up here's what's available in my area guys on plenty of trash
    *warning may cause eye damage*
    I bet she loves to travel, take walks on the beach and has an 'about average' body type.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.jr View Post
    I bet she loves to travel, take walks on the beach and has an 'about average' body type.
    Walks on the beach? She washed up on the beach!
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by Capo View Post
    http://pics.pof.com/dating/239/99/2j...97565752.2.jpg

    Hope this pic shows up here's what's available in my area guys on plenty of trash
    *warning may cause eye damage*
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    I have trouble with this too, but I remind myself that most girls need half their body weight in makeup just to look decent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chef View Post
    Walks on the beach? She washed up on the beach!
    Instant classic!
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by Demosthenes View Post
    Look at them. Enjoy what you see. Revel in the beauty. Enjoy the fantasy of what you see.
    Then accept that what you see is a fantasy.

    How many of them are using make-up? and then there is the rest of the bullshit, that will blow the togetherness fantasy out of the water. What would the actual reality of spending huge amounts of time be? Yes, there are the feel good parts, but what about the whining, the complaining, the expectations and demands? Take me here. Buy this. Spend money on that.

    [after rereading this - WARNING - TRIGGER - WARNING -]
    [stop here if you have relationship or marital PTSD]

    Why did you buy that? We need this. Oh that is so cute. Your place needs more color. I got you this. What are we doing for X holiday? I was invited to a party, are you coming with me? Do you like my friends? Are you having a good time? I want you to meet more of my friends. When are you going to introduce me to your friends. I think you should meet my parents. My best friend hates you. I don't like your friends. I think so-and-so is a bad influence. Do we have to have them over again? Why are you playing a game? Did you take the trash out? Honey, not now, I'm tired. I have a headache. I am so bloated. Do you love me? You're not going out of town with your friends are you? I'll be so lonely without you. Yes, I know you didn't go with your friends, but this is just a girls night. We're together like all the time. You should go do something, just not with any friends I don't like. Those are off limits.

    No, leave me alone. No I'm fine. I know I've been upset for a few days. I was late and I thought I was pregnant. I cried when I wasn't. I never thought of having a baby like this before. Where do you think this relationship is going? We should move in together it will save money too and we'll have more for us. If we're going to live together, I need more space for my stuff too. Unless you're not serious about our relationship. I hate that picture. I can't believe you still have this furniture. I have always hated it. You've got no tastes for decoration. You should pack this other stuff up. I packed this stuff up for you. That packed up stuff is taking up space. You should sell it. Or dump it.

    I think I'm late. Yes, I have been taking my pills, but I'm late, it's probably stress. I'm pregnant. I don't know, it happened. What are you going to do about it? For the last time, yes, I always took my birth control. The doctor said that antibiotic I took might have messed it up. Yes, he warned me, but we've not been using protection for so long, I didn't worry about it. We both hate condoms anyway. Don't you love me? Yes of course it is yours. Why are you acting like you don't trust me. Well my friends got engaged, and they weren't even pregnant.

    We're going to need a bigger place. We can't raise a baby in a place this small. You need a better job. With both of us working, we'll be fine. I don't feel like going back to work yet. I think I need to stay home with the baby. We'll cut back on some things, we can do it. We need a new car. I know I'm not working, but my car isn't running and I can't be stuck at home all day. I hate being home all day. You go to work, you see people.

    You're keeping me stuck at home. You don;t love me. All the baby does is cry all day. Yeah, I know you're working, but at least you get out of the house sometime. You never take me anywhere. I know we can't afford a babysitter, but what about my needs? Don't touch me. No, I'm tired. I'm sick. I feel gross. You never want to be with me anymore. How do you think it makes me feel to be rejected by you like that? You were rejected? You felt what? Oh please, that's not even the same thing.

    I'm looking for a job. And we need that new car if I am going to work. Yes, ok, I know most of what I earn just pays the daycare. I like not having to stay at home. God I hate my job. Are you trying to be funny? going to work is not socializing. Does everything have to be about you? Maybe I said that before, but you try being stuck at home all day. I think I am going to quit my job. Well, it's better than going to work all the time. I'll figure something out. I think the baby should be in daycare a few days a week so I can do errands easier. Why are you complaining?

    Why don't we have any money. OK, I know I agreed to work, and that's why we could afford daycare and a new car, but stop it. Well, work didn't work out well. I don;t know why you let me do that anyway. What were you thinking? Daycare? It's good for the baby and gives me free time too. We need to talk...
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by Demosthenes View Post
    Look at them. Enjoy what you see. Revel in the beauty. Enjoy the fantasy of what you see.
    Then accept that what you see is a fantasy.

    How many of them are using make-up? and then there is the rest of the bullshit, that will blow the togetherness fantasy out of the water. What would the actual reality of spending huge amounts of time be? Yes, there are the feel good parts, but what about the whining, the complaining, the expectations and demands? Take me here. Buy this. Spend money on that.

    [after rereading this - WARNING - TRIGGER - WARNING -]
    [stop here if you have relationship or marital PTSD]

    Why did you buy that? We need this. Oh that is so cute. Your place needs more color. I got you this. What are we doing for X holiday? I was invited to a party, are you coming with me? Do you like my friends? Are you having a good time? I want you to meet more of my friends. When are you going to introduce me to your friends. I think you should meet my parents. My best friend hates you. I don't like your friends. I think so-and-so is a bad influence. Do we have to have them over again? Why are you playing a game? Did you take the trash out? Honey, not now, I'm tired. I have a headache. I am so bloated. Do you love me? You're not going out of town with your friends are you? I'll be so lonely without you. Yes, I know you didn't go with your friends, but this is just a girls night. We're together like all the time. You should go do something, just not with any friends I don't like. Those are off limits.

    No, leave me alone. No I'm fine. I know I've been upset for a few days. I was late and I thought I was pregnant. I cried when I wasn't. I never thought of having a baby like this before. Where do you think this relationship is going? We should move in together it will save money too and we'll have more for us. If we're going to live together, I need more space for my stuff too. Unless you're not serious about our relationship. I hate that picture. I can't believe you still have this furniture. I have always hated it. You've got no tastes for decoration. You should pack this other stuff up. I packed this stuff up for you. That packed up stuff is taking up space. You should sell it. Or dump it.

    I think I'm late. Yes, I have been taking my pills, but I'm late, it's probably stress. I'm pregnant. I don't know, it happened. What are you going to do about it? For the last time, yes, I always took my birth control. The doctor said that antibiotic I took might have messed it up. Yes, he warned me, but we've not been using protection for so long, I didn't worry about it. We both hate condoms anyway. Don't you love me? Yes of course it is yours. Why are you acting like you don't trust me. Well my friends got engaged, and they weren't even pregnant.

    We're going to need a bigger place. We can't raise a baby in a place this small. You need a better job. With both of us working, we'll be fine. I don't feel like going back to work yet. I think I need to stay home with the baby. We'll cut back on some things, we can do it. We need a new car. I know I'm not working, but my car isn't running and I can't be stuck at home all day. I hate being home all day. You go to work, you see people.

    You're keeping me stuck at home. You don;t love me. All the baby does is cry all day. Yeah, I know you're working, but at least you get out of the house sometime. You never take me anywhere. I know we can't afford a babysitter, but what about my needs? Don't touch me. No, I'm tired. I'm sick. I feel gross. You never want to be with me anymore. How do you think it makes me feel to be rejected by you like that? You were rejected? You felt what? Oh please, that's not even the same thing.

    I'm looking for a job. And we need that new car if I am going to work. Yes, ok, I know most of what I earn just pays the daycare. I like not having to stay at home. God I hate my job. Are you trying to be funny? going to work is not socializing. Does everything have to be about you? Maybe I said that before, but you try being stuck at home all day. I think I am going to quit my job. Well, it's better than going to work all the time. I'll figure something out. I think the baby should be in daycare a few days a week so I can do errands easier. Why are you complaining?

    Why don't we have any money. OK, I know I agreed to work, and that's why we could afford daycare and a new car, but stop it. Well, work didn't work out well. I don;t know why you let me do that anyway. What were you thinking? Daycare? It's good for the baby and gives me free time too. We need to talk...
    And the follow-up is this classic gem:

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    QWV, that's such a perfect example that I'm going to copy-pasta it into this thread, "for truth":

    It's me! Every girl ever.

    Knock knock

    Oh hi, how's it going? It's me! Every girl ever. I'm really looking forward to this date. I'm not nearly as attractive as you remember me being because when we met the bar was dark and you were drunk. Come on in.

    Let's start off with the unavoidable tour of my incredibly typical post-college-girl apartment.

    You'll notice that I went ahead and purchased everything that Ikea and Pier 1 have ever produced. There's my decorative birdcage over there even though I don't have a bird, and there's my gay wicker basket with bamboo poles in it. I don't know what the hell that's thing's all about, but I bought it.

    Hey check it out, I have more candles in here than a Roman Catholic Church. Doesn't it smell like Hazelnut!? If I were to light all of my candles at once you could see my apartment from space! I fucking love candles!

    Come on into the living room.

    Oh, I see you met my cat there. That's "Freddy Paws Jr." Why don't you pet him and act like you like cats even though you hate cats? There you go. Oh, he took a little swing at your eye there huh? Yeah, he'll do that. Hey, let's check out the kitchen.

    Hey look at my refrigerator. There are pictures all over it! Look at all these pictures of me and my equally vacuous friends from college! We were so crazy! You can tell we're really good friends because our faces are all pressed up against each other like that.

    And check it out, we're holding up alcoholic beverages to the camera in every single picture. That's to prove that we were partying. College was so fun! But of course I don't talk to any of these girls anymore because now they're all bitches.

    Let's go back into the hallway!

    Hey, before we leave I'm going to go in the bathroom for ten minutes for some mysterious reason. Why don't you sit awkwardly in my big, stupid, round papizan chair over there while you wait for me. It's like you're sitting in a hug! Be right back...

    Sorry that took a half an hour, I don't know what the hell I was doing in there. Let's go!

    Wow! Thanks for opening my car door for me! I'm totally going to blow that meaningless gesture out of proportion and delude myself into thinking that you're a really good guy because that's what I want to believe.

    Well, here we are at the restaurant. No thanks waiter, I don't need to see a menu, just bring me some expensive things. Hey I know, while we wait, I'll tell you all about my unspeakably boring job. I hate my boss. He's a jerk! I might get another job. Maybe something in pharmaceutical sales.

    Now let's talk about my family. I love my family. I want you to love my family. I want my family to love you. I want you to make love to my family! I want you to go golfing with my semi-retarded brother Travis. That would be so God damned cute!

    Wow! I can't believe I ordered all this food! I have no intention of eating any of it. No thanks waiter, we don't need a box. Just throw it out.

    Hey, I've got an idea, let's go to a bar and have an after dinner drink! It'll be great, it will be just like how we're drinking here, only it will be louder and we'll have to stand up. Come on!

    See, isn't this better? Oh hey, what a coincidence. Look over there! It's a group of my friends that I knew was going to be here. Let's go over there so that they can judge you!

    Hey, I have to go to the bathroom for a half an hour again for some reason. You can stay here and talk to my unbelievably hideous friend Christine! Christine's so ugly she scares kids! Talk to her! She has a job and a family that she wants to talk to you about too. Be right back.

    I'm back! Sorry I was gone for three hours, there was a line. I want to go home now.

    Well here we are at my door again. This was really fun for me and not you. You should pretend like we're going to do it again sometime! Maybe I'll see you at Target a few months from now and we can avoid eye contact because you never called me. Here, have this awkward goodnight kiss that's as empty as my soul. Good night!

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by BeijaFlor View Post
    QWV, that's such a perfect example that I'm going to copy-pasta it into this thread, "for truth":

    It's me! Every girl ever.

    Knock knock

    Oh hi, how's it going? It's me! Every girl ever. I'm really looking forward to this date. I'm not nearly as attractive as you remember me being because when we met the bar was dark and you were drunk. Come on in.

    Let's start off with the unavoidable tour of my incredibly typical post-college-girl apartment.

    You'll notice that I went ahead and purchased everything that Ikea and Pier 1 have ever produced. There's my decorative birdcage over there even though I don't have a bird, and there's my gay wicker basket with bamboo poles in it. I don't know what the hell that's thing's all about, but I bought it.

    Hey check it out, I have more candles in here than a Roman Catholic Church. Doesn't it smell like Hazelnut!? If I were to light all of my candles at once you could see my apartment from space! I fucking love candles!

    Come on into the living room.

    Oh, I see you met my cat there. That's "Freddy Paws Jr." Why don't you pet him and act like you like cats even though you hate cats? There you go. Oh, he took a little swing at your eye there huh? Yeah, he'll do that. Hey, let's check out the kitchen.

    Hey look at my refrigerator. There are pictures all over it! Look at all these pictures of me and my equally vacuous friends from college! We were so crazy! You can tell we're really good friends because our faces are all pressed up against each other like that.

    And check it out, we're holding up alcoholic beverages to the camera in every single picture. That's to prove that we were partying. College was so fun! But of course I don't talk to any of these girls anymore because now they're all bitches.

    Let's go back into the hallway!

    Hey, before we leave I'm going to go in the bathroom for ten minutes for some mysterious reason. Why don't you sit awkwardly in my big, stupid, round papizan chair over there while you wait for me. It's like you're sitting in a hug! Be right back...

    Sorry that took a half an hour, I don't know what the hell I was doing in there. Let's go!

    Wow! Thanks for opening my car door for me! I'm totally going to blow that meaningless gesture out of proportion and delude myself into thinking that you're a really good guy because that's what I want to believe.

    Well, here we are at the restaurant. No thanks waiter, I don't need to see a menu, just bring me some expensive things. Hey I know, while we wait, I'll tell you all about my unspeakably boring job. I hate my boss. He's a jerk! I might get another job. Maybe something in pharmaceutical sales.

    Now let's talk about my family. I love my family. I want you to love my family. I want my family to love you. I want you to make love to my family! I want you to go golfing with my semi-retarded brother Travis. That would be so God damned cute!

    Wow! I can't believe I ordered all this food! I have no intention of eating any of it. No thanks waiter, we don't need a box. Just throw it out.

    Hey, I've got an idea, let's go to a bar and have an after dinner drink! It'll be great, it will be just like how we're drinking here, only it will be louder and we'll have to stand up. Come on!

    See, isn't this better? Oh hey, what a coincidence. Look over there! It's a group of my friends that I knew was going to be here. Let's go over there so that they can judge you!

    Hey, I have to go to the bathroom for a half an hour again for some reason. You can stay here and talk to my unbelievably hideous friend Christine! Christine's so ugly she scares kids! Talk to her! She has a job and a family that she wants to talk to you about too. Be right back.

    I'm back! Sorry I was gone for three hours, there was a line. I want to go home now.

    Well here we are at my door again. This was really fun for me and not you. You should pretend like we're going to do it again sometime! Maybe I'll see you at Target a few months from now and we can avoid eye contact because you never called me. Here, have this awkward goodnight kiss that's as empty as my soul. Good night!

    To continue with the "Q" theme: QRRR....
    Great stuff! Really deserves it's own thread!
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by Quarter Wave Vertical View Post
    And the follow-up is this classic gem:

    best of craigslist: It's me! Every girl ever.
    Money. (agree with making this its own thread; I'm sure guys will have their own observations to add)

    Well, here we are at the restaurant. No thanks waiter, I don't need to see a menu, just bring me some expensive things. Hey I know, while we wait, I'll tell you all about my unspeakably boring job. I hate my boss. He's a jerk! I might get another job. Maybe something in pharmaceutical sales.
    So true. Always complaining about work. Always some massive victim at the hands of someone or the other. One of the girls I was seeing was complaining about her small business employer, and somehow also found a way to criticize her co-workers for complaining even more than she did. I knew I was in the middle of some kind of recursive loop, but God knows where.

    It's not just her job. She's feuding with everybody. Her roommate is a little Hitler, her a capella group is excluding her in some way, her BFF doesn't want to party every night (total partypooper!). What would be the fun of being content in life?

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by Demosthenes View Post
    ......

    [after rereading this - WARNING - TRIGGER - WARNING -]
    [stop here if you have relationship or marital PTSD]

    Why did you buy that? We need this. Oh that is so cute. Your place needs more color. I got you this. What are we doing for X holiday? I was invited to a party, are you coming with me? Do you like my friends? Are you having a good time? I want you to meet more of my friends. When are you going to introduce me to your friends. I think you should meet my parents. My best friend hates you. I don't like your friends. I think so-and-so is a bad influence. Do we have to have them over again? Why are you playing a game? Did you take the trash out? Honey, not now, I'm tired. I have a headache. I am so bloated. Do you love me? You're not going out of town with your friends are you? I'll be so lonely without you. Yes, I know you didn't go with your friends, but this is just a girls night. We're together like all the time. You should go do something, just not with any friends I don't like. Those are off limits.

    No, leave me alone. No I'm fine. I know I've been upset for a few days. I was late and I thought I was pregnant. I cried when I wasn't. I never thought of having a baby like this before. Where do you think this relationship is going? We should move in together it will save money too and we'll have more for us. If we're going to live together, I need more space for my stuff too. Unless you're not serious about our relationship. I hate that picture. I can't believe you still have this furniture. I have always hated it. You've got no tastes for decoration. You should pack this other stuff up. I packed this stuff up for you. That packed up stuff is taking up space. You should sell it. Or dump it.

    I think I'm late. Yes, I have been taking my pills, but I'm late, it's probably stress. I'm pregnant. I don't know, it happened. What are you going to do about it? For the last time, yes, I always took my birth control. The doctor said that antibiotic I took might have messed it up. Yes, he warned me, but we've not been using protection for so long, I didn't worry about it. We both hate condoms anyway. Don't you love me? Yes of course it is yours. Why are you acting like you don't trust me. Well my friends got engaged, and they weren't even pregnant.

    We're going to need a bigger place. We can't raise a baby in a place this small. You need a better job. With both of us working, we'll be fine. I don't feel like going back to work yet. I think I need to stay home with the baby. We'll cut back on some things, we can do it. We need a new car. I know I'm not working, but my car isn't running and I can't be stuck at home all day. I hate being home all day. You go to work, you see people.

    You're keeping me stuck at home. You don;t love me. All the baby does is cry all day. Yeah, I know you're working, but at least you get out of the house sometime. You never take me anywhere. I know we can't afford a babysitter, but what about my needs? Don't touch me. No, I'm tired. I'm sick. I feel gross. You never want to be with me anymore. How do you think it makes me feel to be rejected by you like that? You were rejected? You felt what? Oh please, that's not even the same thing.

    I'm looking for a job. And we need that new car if I am going to work. Yes, ok, I know most of what I earn just pays the daycare. I like not having to stay at home. God I hate my job. Are you trying to be funny? going to work is not socializing. Does everything have to be about you? Maybe I said that before, but you try being stuck at home all day. I think I am going to quit my job. Well, it's better than going to work all the time. I'll figure something out. I think the baby should be in daycare a few days a week so I can do errands easier. Why are you complaining?

    Why don't we have any money. OK, I know I agreed to work, and that's why we could afford daycare and a new car, but stop it. Well, work didn't work out well. I don;t know why you let me do that anyway. What were you thinking? Daycare? It's good for the baby and gives me free time too. We need to talk...
    Wow, utterly TOTALLY nailed it. Spot the fuck on.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by FapMaster View Post
    Great stuff! Really deserves it's own thread!
    Quote Originally Posted by jagrmeister View Post
    Money. (agree with making this its own thread; I'm sure guys will have their own observations to add)
    Great find by QuarterWaveVertical! Shall I copypasta it into our "Game" section?
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    Quote Originally Posted by BeijaFlor View Post
    Great find by QuarterWaveVertical! Shall I copypasta it into our "Game" section?
    By all means. Maybe it should be labelled: "Don't Let This Happen To You!"
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by BeijaFlor View Post
    <snip>

    To continue with the "Q" theme: QRRR....
    Since you mentioned QRRR, are you an amateur radio operator?
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

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    Budding MGTOW here. I like to live my own life of hobbies.

    Problem is, it is summer time, and women are beginning to wear slutty cloths. I don't go out a lot, but still have to go out for food and grocery. I feel very frustrated after seeing young hot couples strolling and what not.

    How to avoid looking at them in the first place? Any tip and tricks?

    Thank you for your attention.

    Ajahn Amaro: 'When people met Ajahn Chah, they often asked how he came to embody such all encompassing wisdom. They wondered if it may have arisen through extensive study of the scriptures. Ajahn Chah responded to these assumptions in his characteristically direct and earthy way. "If wisdom has arisen," said Luang Por, "it was because of my defilements." Ajahn Chah was filled with restlessness, anger, tremendous doubt and voluminous lust. The only hindrance with which he was not blessed in full measure was dullness. The other hindrances blazed so magnificently in his psyche that there was no room for sleepiness.

    As a new monk, Ajahn Chah wanted to get a handle on his sexual desire. He decided, as a plan of action, not to look at any woman for the entire three - month rain's retreat. Whenever a female person entered the monastery, he practiced restraint and looked down. At the end of the retreat, he thought he had done pretty well. To test whether he had been cured of his lust, he decided to deliberately look at the village women when they came to the monastery. Rather than having gone beyond lust, he found that he was a complete mess. As he related it, when his eyes rested on a woman, it was as if he had been struck by lightning - his lust was that overwhelming. Although he failed in this instance, he learned a valuable lesson: restraint is insufficient in overcoming defilements. One needs to develop understanding as well.

    In 1979 in Barre, Massachusetts, during a question-and-answer session while on retreat, someone asked Ajahn Chah, "Is it necessarily a barrier to be in a sexual relationship? Can one not view sex in terms of it being the dance of the sacred marriage? Couldn't it be noble and mystical?" After Ajahn Chah had the question translated, he pondered for a moment and then started picking his nose in a very graphic and extended way. When everyone was rolling on the floor laughing and he was sure they definitely got the point, he pulled his finger out of his nose: "There's nothing more to it than that, except what the mind adds to it." Perhaps this story has been altered a bit in the telling, but it's still a good story.'


    My friend, you need to develop understanding. Think about the loathsome aspects of the human body. Under that skin is fat, flesh, blood and organs which don't look very appealing on their own. Is this not looking at reality to its fullest? Outside appearances are so superficial, they don't have much basis in reality.

    Instead of not looking, look more but reflect on the aspects of the human body. When you look at the hair, just think of the hair. When you look at the eyes, just think of the eyes. You'll (eventually) find that there is actually nothing special to the human form.

    NB: don't do this too much, there are cases of people who did this kind of reflection too much and ended up committing suicide.

    Also, nothing is permanent, everything passes, it doesn't matter if you live a trillion years, its still impermanent. We come alone, we go alone and looking properly, our life is also our own quest and it is up to us what choices we make at each turn.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Indian saints advised not to look at the eyes and face of a woman.
    Look at a shoulder or feet.
    Or at the third eye, which is between eyebrows and a little above.
    If you look at the 3rd eye, it would appear as if you're looking in her eye.
    So the she-devil would not get it.
    If you look straight in her eyes, it's dangerous as there is energy exchange in this case,
    and her low consciousness can enter into you and mess with you.
    And it's best not to mix with females at all, only limiting it to business.


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