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    Question How to avoid looking at girls?

    Budding MGTOW here. I like to live my own life of hobbies.

    Problem is, it is summer time, and women are beginning to wear slutty cloths. I don't go out a lot, but still have to go out for food and grocery. I feel very frustrated after seeing young hot couples strolling and what not.

    How to avoid looking at them in the first place? Any tip and tricks?

    Thank you for your attention.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    I have a wonderful trick; Think of the most disgusting things you know, so you eventually don't want to look at them. Or, simply be no longer attracted to them.
    In the end, I will always prefer to walk alone, simply because I enjoy the peace and freedom of my free will. -Me

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    You have to build a mental bridge, this is what worked for me:

    Everytime when you look at a women imagine:

    Think of your wallet, think of taking out the cash and burn half of it with your lighter .. right now in the middle of the street.
    And than you calculate how many hours you had to spend to get that money.
    Than do the math for your monthly income, do it for a 7,5 year average marriage.

    After that:
    Imagine fetching that amount of money from your bank.
    Piling it up right where you are now and setting it on fire.
    Imagine people and police coming to prevent you from burning your money !


    1) Suddenly your mind has to focus from an emotional visual thing (woman) to an rational thought and calculus:

    How much is in my pocket ?
    Half of it ... divided by XX is how many hours.
    Per month .. in 7,5 years ?

    2) After that your imagination .. does not shift back to female body parts but the image of you burning a wad of dough in an open street and what the people around will do.

    3) Do it often enough and finally your brain will establish a direct connection between good looking women and burnt cash the instant you see one.

    4) People and police will stop you from burning your money ... the same society tries to push you into relationshits. Talking about double standards

    5) Imaging buying a sports-car and roaring by these women without noticing them and what will make them think about the effect of their clown-masks and slutty outfits.

    6) With the money saved you did not waste on women .. buy a sports car and drive by without noticing them.

    I guarantee .. the roar from your end pipes will sound like trumpets of triumph !
    Because now you are FREE !

    And i love my cars .. all of them and they never bitch or complain and are always ready for a smooth or a hard ride.
    And they are cheap ... compared to having a woman parked in your living space.

    And they do only multiply when i have the means to afford offspring.
    And i can get rid of them anytime.

    You can replace cars with anything else that YOU like and will be able to afford when you avoid the female trap:
    Boat, house, whatever.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheLoneWolfWalker View Post
    I have a wonderful trick; Think of the most disgusting things you know, so you eventually don't want to look at them. Or, simply be no longer attracted to them.
    Excellent, I'll give this a try tomorrow. I could think of tubgirl.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    If you're young, you're gonna look, period. Just keep in mind that for every beautiful woman, there's a man tired of putting up with her shit.
    That'll help some..

    It gets easier with age young brother
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Grenade001:Economist, in training (B. Economics/B. Laws, in progress)

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    When you see a hot piece of ass remember that fucking it WILL cost you $42,000, according to scientific surveys on coupling costs.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    As FapMaster said it does get easier with age, much easier.

    I simply think of how entitled women are and that they are expecting me to check them out, you know because their deserving and hot. If you are walking directly towards her, look beyond her (literally past or through her, without looking directly at her...and, you still get the visual), check your phone or turn your back to her, maybe look at something else. Master looking beyond them you will begin to notice how their physiology changes as they are waiting for your visual validation. Deny her that validation. Deny her the attention. Make it a game. As you practice this, you will begin to see women contort themselves into their self perceived attractive pose waiting for your attention.

    It's actually quite comical as they do expect every man to fall at their feet in awe of their beauty (despite often being hideous and fat), regardless of what they say about "creepy" men looking at them, they love it, need it like water, food and sunlight. They may not want you but they certainly do want your attention and your validation.

    Another fun game is to find a place where two women are in fairly close proximity to one another, 10 feet or so, where they are both aware of your presence. Which ever one you find most attractive, casually lock on to the other woman like you are just about to smile and say something and once she is ready to receive your attention, turn and ogle the other woman up and down so it's obvious (best if she does not notice) and see if you can get glimpse of the other woman's face...priceless.

    If I'm in an amorous mood, I'll look and flirt but it's on my terms because I find her attractive and I want to interact not because she "deserves" my attention and validation.

    This is a spectacular way to ingest one small red pill for every woman you pass without giving them that attention and most definitely keeping the situation to where failing (looking) costs you nothing. And this is coming from a guy who had whiplash for almost 30 consecutive years checking out women.
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by FapMaster View Post
    If you're young, you're gonna look, period. Just keep in mind that for every beautiful woman, there's a man tired of putting up with her shit.
    That'll help some..
    Truer words are rarely said. My ex-fiancee is objectively beautiful, and everyone keeps saying what a lucky guy I was to have her. Perfect figure, not a spot of excess fat, the works, and she didn't even cost me money. And man, am I sorry to see the back of her? No. Just, no. You have no idea about the shit I had to put up with to keep her happy, and even that didn't stop her nagging. Beautiful women are way, WAY overpriced, and I'm not even talking about money here. Hell, even when they're not a financial drain, they are still too pricey.

    The next time you see that insanely hot girl in a skimpy dress? She has at least one man whose life is worse than it could have been because of her. And the hotter she is, the more probable it is that there is more than one man who she makes miserable, with her father and boyfriend/husband being just the start. The ONLY reason you feel bad about not having her is because you were lied to in the most despicable, egregious manner.

    Well, that and your dick. Whatever you do, just don't buy the cow.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    As us economists tend to say: there is no such thing as a free lunch.

    Today in class a chick offered to look up something on her phone for me , and the whole time she's trying to figure out when I'm graduating and starting the "big boy job", to use her words. Talk about feeling objectified. I left laughing....literally chuckling as I walked down the hallway.

    The feminists can say what they want to about checking out women, but at least we actually want the girl were looking at.


    Edit: for the OP, I feel your pain. Speaking strictly for myself, the only way out is through : meaning look at them, harder then ever. I've got a high enough sex drive that I'm in real trouble if I leave home without jerking off first. What's kept me out of the penalty box is waiting for the twats to reveal their cash agenda- or seeing the poor slug next to her whipping out his Amex. That tends to ruin the attraction in a hurry.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Every time you see a hottie, realize that some guy before you was glad to be rid of her. And... the hotter they are, the more maintenance involved. When I see a looker now, I just think ugh, what a project that would be.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    if you have access to the internet this shouldn't be too much of an issue. just make sure you aren't downloading any viruses.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by Octavian View Post
    I've got a high enough sex drive that I'm in real trouble if I leave home without jerking off first. .
    Great advice!! Keeps the head clear (no pun intended) when venturing out into the wild. Definitely a good idea if you're going out with the fellas for drinks.
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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Look at them. Enjoy what you see. Revel in the beauty. Enjoy the fantasy of what you see.
    Then accept that what you see is a fantasy.

    How many of them are using make-up? and then there is the rest of the bullshit, that will blow the togetherness fantasy out of the water. What would the actual reality of spending huge amounts of time be? Yes, there are the feel good parts, but what about the whining, the complaining, the expectations and demands? Take me here. Buy this. Spend money on that.

    [after rereading this - WARNING - TRIGGER - WARNING -]
    [stop here if you have relationship or marital PTSD]

    Why did you buy that? We need this. Oh that is so cute. Your place needs more color. I got you this. What are we doing for X holiday? I was invited to a party, are you coming with me? Do you like my friends? Are you having a good time? I want you to meet more of my friends. When are you going to introduce me to your friends. I think you should meet my parents. My best friend hates you. I don't like your friends. I think so-and-so is a bad influence. Do we have to have them over again? Why are you playing a game? Did you take the trash out? Honey, not now, I'm tired. I have a headache. I am so bloated. Do you love me? You're not going out of town with your friends are you? I'll be so lonely without you. Yes, I know you didn't go with your friends, but this is just a girls night. We're together like all the time. You should go do something, just not with any friends I don't like. Those are off limits.

    No, leave me alone. No I'm fine. I know I've been upset for a few days. I was late and I thought I was pregnant. I cried when I wasn't. I never thought of having a baby like this before. Where do you think this relationship is going? We should move in together it will save money too and we'll have more for us. If we're going to live together, I need more space for my stuff too. Unless you're not serious about our relationship. I hate that picture. I can't believe you still have this furniture. I have always hated it. You've got no tastes for decoration. You should pack this other stuff up. I packed this stuff up for you. That packed up stuff is taking up space. You should sell it. Or dump it.

    I think I'm late. Yes, I have been taking my pills, but I'm late, it's probably stress. I'm pregnant. I don't know, it happened. What are you going to do about it? For the last time, yes, I always took my birth control. The doctor said that antibiotic I took might have messed it up. Yes, he warned me, but we've not been using protection for so long, I didn't worry about it. We both hate condoms anyway. Don't you love me? Yes of course it is yours. Why are you acting like you don't trust me. Well my friends got engaged, and they weren't even pregnant.

    We're going to need a bigger place. We can't raise a baby in a place this small. You need a better job. With both of us working, we'll be fine. I don't feel like going back to work yet. I think I need to stay home with the baby. We'll cut back on some things, we can do it. We need a new car. I know I'm not working, but my car isn't running and I can't be stuck at home all day. I hate being home all day. You go to work, you see people.

    You're keeping me stuck at home. You don;t love me. All the baby does is cry all day. Yeah, I know you're working, but at least you get out of the house sometime. You never take me anywhere. I know we can't afford a babysitter, but what about my needs? Don't touch me. No, I'm tired. I'm sick. I feel gross. You never want to be with me anymore. How do you think it makes me feel to be rejected by you like that? You were rejected? You felt what? Oh please, that's not even the same thing.

    I'm looking for a job. And we need that new car if I am going to work. Yes, ok, I know most of what I earn just pays the daycare. I like not having to stay at home. God I hate my job. Are you trying to be funny? going to work is not socializing. Does everything have to be about you? Maybe I said that before, but you try being stuck at home all day. I think I am going to quit my job. Well, it's better than going to work all the time. I'll figure something out. I think the baby should be in daycare a few days a week so I can do errands easier. Why are you complaining?

    Why don't we have any money. OK, I know I agreed to work, and that's why we could afford daycare and a new car, but stop it. Well, work didn't work out well. I don;t know why you let me do that anyway. What were you thinking? Daycare? It's good for the baby and gives me free time too. We need to talk...

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Years back I ran into a YouTube presentation by Dave Ramsey. Preachy though he may be, there's no denying the logic behind his ideas about personal finance.Here's the point; on his show, someone called in about how buying a car with a loan was smarter then doing it the old fashioned way, I.e. with your own freaking money. Ramsey shut down the BS by saying this:

    "If you put $499 a month in a high yield fund at 5% for five years instead of paying a bank to buy a depreciating appliance, you'd have $56,000 invested instead of an upside down note. HOPE YOU LIkE ThE CAR!!!!"

    That's what runs through my head at any given time when I see a hot chick. I'll be thinking about how much money that dude is blowing just to stand next to her in public, and I think to myself....


    HOPE YOU LIKE The PUSSY!

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    It has that sublime note of tragi-comedy: some genes happened to produce a certain result, and now, due to no effort of her own, hundreds of men would line up in seconds, ready to do nearly anything for her! Then there's to poor girls who want nothing more in the world than to look like her; who cry themselves to sleep: "If only I was beautiful!".. The attractive girl will grow up however; things'll change; her body will degenerate; her soul will slowly wither.

    It's just a primal urge. That body is not an accomplishment, it is sheer luck. I won't give them the satisfaction; enough others will. If you are frustrated by young couples, then there's still jealousy left. As soon as you realize there's no reason to be jealous, that curse will be lifted.
    And when her lips so sweetly move
    The soul such height attain,
    You're free, yet would no longer rove
    But lay you down in chains.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ancient Sunlight View Post
    It's just a primal urge. That body is not an accomplishment, it is sheer luck. I won't give them the satisfaction; enough others will. If you are frustrated by young couples, then there's still jealousy left. As soon as you realize there's no reason to be jealous, that curse will be lifted.
    This ^^ Thanks, took me 45 years to figure that one out !

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    What Demosthenes wrote could probably win some sort of modern writing award. And i'm not being sarcastic here, this is seriously some chilling stuff, written in an unconventional way.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Go on Plenty of Rotten Fish and browse the 40-and-over women in your area. Look at the leathery skin, the brittle hair, the caked-on makeup and heavy eyeliner, the sagging bodies, the scowls, the man-jaws, and read the vapid profiles and the delusion... and remind yourself that every one of them was 21 once.

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    Re: How to avoid looking at girls?

    Reminds me of an incident that happened over ten years ago.
    Went to the local Timmy's to get a small take-out meal and there was this
    hot looking girl there ahead of me. There was no line up just me and her.
    The girl on the other side of the counter serving us was not hot but rather
    a plain looking country girl type with her hair ponytailed on both sides of
    her head. I liked the look and fantasized how she would make a great
    wife and be good around the house for gardening and doing sports with.
    I purposely ignored the attractive attention seeking girl ahead of me and boy
    was she ever upset ! She turned to look at me a couple times and I never once
    turned to look at her or validate her in any way which is what she was so
    obviously after. Once served she grabbed her coffee and slam grabbed her
    janitorial key-chain kit from the counter and stormed out.

    I was once spotted by what I think was an escort at the same place a few years later.
    She was rather tall and dirty blonde, not bad looking for her mid thirties I would
    guess but I overheard her many times before with other customers and she would
    come across like a bossy dominatrix. She would often stare at me and once got up
    and stood next to me in line so close I could smell her perfume and hear her breathing.
    Again I acted like she didn't exist and just quickly left. ( the girl at the counter
    was cracking up the whole time, hehe ! )

    What happened after was a little weird is I think she caught on that I worked often on Saturday evenings through my comings and going there and when I approached the Tim Horton's in my car I caught a glimpse of her watching my every move from inside. As I approached to park I saw her get up and beeline for the door quickly, probably to meet me on the way in and proposition something I would regret. A couple seconds of reflection, a quick prayer ( yes I believe in God ), put the car in reverse and took off. I asked about her later another day at the counter who she was and the guy told me she was unemployed looking for work. I shared my thoughts on the matter with him and he seemed to think it a possibility. I never saw her again.
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