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    Variety versus Realness

    In the past, I've preferred variety with my escorts. Holy shit- this is what your raw drive as a man wants. Just thinking about the chicks I've banged makes it hard to believe my life. Not bragging; I mean I'm paying, but I mean Variety is nice.

    Recently however, I am valuing Realness- when you've been with a girl over and over; there is a comfort. Remember these chicks fuck whoever schedules with them; there's a fear, some random man comes into your apartment. When you've seen her enough, she can relax and enjoy it. And whatever sideliners who have no idea, and feminist imbeciles say, the girl actually does enjoy it and isn't merely acting. I know the difference; I know actors and there are those. But that often fades when you see a girl over and again. There's a real connection that form when you bang constantly- it's nature.

    I don't know why age makes me feel that this is more important; but it is. A woman who is into it but less into it just doesn't really do it for me as much. Don't get me wrong- I still go for variety and a part of me loves it. There is that thrill of seeing each other for the first time. The other day I had this absolutely gorgeous chick- 5 foot 1, blonde, big natural tits, great body- fit but nice hips, great face. Objectively she was a 10. Such a sweet talkative girl too; humble. This is where variety rules. At the same time, for whatever reason, I'm slight more attracted to girls who aren't as objectively attractive. The body works in strange ways- so I won't likely see her again.

    Moving around a bit makes Realness hard. My instinct opts for Variety but I know Realness makes me happier overall.

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    Re: Variety versus Realness

    Sounds like maybe you've got a couple of go-to working girls in Oz, this trip? (Good for you!)

    I've never spent more than two weeks out "on vacation;" that's just a matter of my habits. Hence, I haven't been "downrange" long enough to get a repeat during the usual trip ... and certainly not enough to get into the "Realness Zone" with any of them.

    Next week, though, I'll be in the Philippines. I'll spend most of my vacation at Subic Bay, diving the shipwrecks by day and hanging out at the shoreside 'dives' during the evenings; then I'll finish with a few nights in the fleshpots of Angeles City, before I head home.

    I may find some young sweetie to "wife-up" with, in the latter part of my Subic Bay adventure. Mikediver has warned me about the Pinays, but I figure if I have a "special girl" for the last few days in Subic, she needn't know that my "last day here" isn't my last day in the Philippines ... right? And I'm meeting up with fellow members of the "monger board" where I hang out, when I get to AC ...
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    Re: Variety versus Realness

    Want to know the G2 when you're out there. Planning a trip to the Phils myself to visit a friend who I used to work there who found a girl there and stayed. He's in a town called Dumaguete (sp?)

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    Re: Variety versus Realness

    Quote Originally Posted by jagrmeister View Post
    Want to know the G2 when you're out there. Planning a trip to the Phils myself to visit a friend who I used to work there who found a girl there and stayed. He's in a town called Dumaguete (sp?)
    Dumaguete? Spelling confirmed ... (This is important to me, as a cartographer. NGA - my former employer - is the home of the USA's contingent of the International Board of Geographic Names - and my last USA girlfriend worked in that office!) It's way south of my destination, on the island of Negros ... I'm spending my trip on the island of Luzon, well to the north.

    Our brother Mikediver found his current wife in the Philippines, and vetted her relentlessly before he finally consented to marry her and bring her back to the USA. He's warned me, sternly and repeatedly, to keep my heart to myself, while I'm catting around in the most notorious 'catting districts' of the PI....
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    Re: Variety versus Realness

    I've yet to do p4p (just general anxiety about it), but this makes perfect sense to me. The harem as an archetype is one thing, but building chemistry over time with a specific woman has a mystical edge to it because it's ritualized. Not talking about one-itis here, I just mean on the base primal level. You can't have tantric-level sexual experiences with random hoes...I mean yeah it can happen but that's rare. Make any sense? I'm having some drinks tonight.


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