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    Make more statements

    Just a quick tip: You can make a woman put in more effort into a conversation by making more statements and asking less questions. This will also make you seem less needy as a statement does not require an answer. If she refuses to play ball then you have saved yourself a bunch of time interacting with her.

    I've had better success with this online too. Most dudes just scan a chicks profile then ask a random question or send a copy paste. It doesn't take any more effort to switch the question for a statement.
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    Re: Make more statements

    I have to agree with this. Asking a question to start a conversation is a waste of time and has ended up being a dead end from my personal experiences. Making statements is indeed far more direct and you can quickly discern interest level. The more polarizing the statement is the more clearer your answer will be on a woman's interest level toward you.

    A big part of the reason why I think it is hard to shift into this different mentality is because I was brainwashed into trying to be polite with female strangers. But this politeness is almost always universally recognized as timidness, weakness, and is very unflattering from women's point of view. In short, this is a good starting point in tossing out all the garbage we as men have been brainwashed with. Direct statements is something men intuitively do when they converse with one another in a conversation.

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    Re: Make more statements

    Interesting perspective because I keep seeing guys around manosphere blogs mindlessly repeat the "just ask questions" mantra. They say to only ask questions so she's talking about herself on autopilot, making it easy to deflect attempts to get information about you.
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    Re: Make more statements

    Quote Originally Posted by Nuggets View Post
    Interesting perspective because I keep seeing guys around manosphere blogs mindlessly repeat the "just ask questions" mantra. They say to only ask questions so she's talking about herself on autopilot, making it easy to deflect attempts to get information about you.
    At some point you will have a choice...continue to be her emotional tampon and let her ramble on in the hopes of sex (which a lot of PUAs do teach unfortunately). Or, you make an assertive statement and observation that contradicts her feelings or experiences she is trying to articulate through her rambling story. Either she bails right then or there or you see the glossy puppy eyed look in her with a restrained slight smirk from her as she tries to recover from your blunt interjection. In other words, you will not put up with her bullshit story if she starts to bullshit and you make it clear right then and there. That is the difference between an active participant instead of a reactive and passive participant in a social conversations.

    Asking questions is usually an ice breaker, but a definitive statement is even better if you convey that you are having fun and are not outcome dependent.

    Basically, for those new to game and PUA it is the safe, easy approach to ask questions and let someone else talk. But the more nuanced and sophisticated way of gaming is to be direct in a serious, but also playful manner. Also, being comfortable in talking about yourself which is what makes the conversation complete in both directions, because if the conversation becomes lopsided then it doesn't work a lot of times..

    The only time where a lopsided conversation works is if you let a woman ramble on and you play the aloof, "I don't care what you are saying", indifferent, zero fucks given type of a guy. That is hard to pull of though if you don't look like Chad Thundercock.

    As for the information, women judge men on their social value not only by what they wear, but how they conduct themselves in conversations. If you ask questions, she may generalize that you are not a leader. And that you don't take risks, and that you are outcome dependent.

    Making direct statements and observations doesn't divulge who you are as you can still ghost. Remember, allowing a woman to construct something in her mind is way more powerful in creating attraction. A woman doesn't need a lot of information to make a judgement about you...just enough bread crumbs.

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    Ahhhh boys your brilliance makes me wet . You are the real deal !

    Be hot and cold - just like women are . Play them at their own game , it doesnt mean you can win but at least you can PLAY Bahahha mmmmm baby you cant fuck me over anymore but i can fuck you . Literally

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    Re: Make more statements

    Tried this the other night with a girl and it works.

    This one also seemed to really like being told what to do. But it definitely is a game.
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    Re: Make more statements

    Quote Originally Posted by TheRecipe View Post
    Just a quick tip: You can make a woman put in more effort into a conversation by making more statements and asking less questions. This will also make you seem less needy as a statement does not require an answer. If she refuses to play ball then you have saved yourself a bunch of time interacting with her.

    I've had better success with this online too. Most dudes just scan a chicks profile then ask a random question or send a copy paste. It doesn't take any more effort to switch the question for a statement.
    This is great advice. Not that I was too much of a "honey what do you like" type of suck up. But this thread has given me a second thought to the whole "where do you live" question or the "do you got any roomates." Which is really a chicken shit way of asking "do you have a boyfriend, come to think of it.

    I think I will modify those questions to statements just as TheRecipe says. Instead of asking "where do you live," instead I'll just say where I live (since usually I pick up women randomly on public transit. Then ask for the phone number.

    I think this is a good thread and is something I'll implament more. Instead of "what bands do you like," instead just make a statement like, "I like The Pixies, old REM, Slayer, Floyd, The Beatles, Pavement," the best of the best. Then that obviously cues them. And so on.
    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    At some point you will have a choice...continue to be her emotional tampon and let her ramble on in the hopes of sex (which a lot of PUAs do teach unfortunately). Or, you make an assertive statement and observation that contradicts her feelings or experiences she is trying to articulate through her rambling story. Either she bails right then or there or you see the glossy puppy eyed look in her with a restrained slight smirk from her as she tries to recover from your blunt interjection. In other words, you will not put up with her bullshit story if she starts to bullshit and you make it clear right then and there.
    Absolutely. Instead of doing some proverbial weeping, sympathy thing, instead I'll just say, "you did it to yourself. I've done that to myself too. You only have yourself to blame when you lose on a calculated risk that sets you up and blows up on yourself. Then in the future if that situation arises with me with signs of another problem person like that-- I cut the person off thinking to myself, "I'm not gonna put myself through THAT one again!"

    As far as the emotional tampon thing, if they are clearly in the wrong talking about an ex-BF, I'll take his side saying something like, "I've dealt with that situation myself (as in the ex-boyfriend's way) that way."


    Either they can get offended or stick around. The ones who like me almost always do the latter. The other ones just realize that I am not gonna be a phone friend and flake on a date. Win/win. It's not often I shoot myself in the foot as an emotional tampon. But when I find myself doing it, I move it right to the "tits or GTFO" stage. In the polite form of "let's drink and hang out." If they do not immediatly go along with that, I delete them from my speed dial.
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