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    Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    Just finished. At myhotel room. Outcall. Poured Champagne on her tits and sucked them; check one of the list. Also some dirty stuff I won't go into detail- that much;other more graphic stuff. Girl is so sweet. Seen her a few times before.

    Serious stuff: when you do escorting, know this. Your ability to bond with women declines. Too may fuck and chucks. It messes with your head. One of those times, you want to keep the girl around and know you can't. You have to walk away. Something snaps and it never come back. After I have sex, I don't really want to see the girl anymore. Mind is too used to having to adjust to separation, it doesn't bother. That's how it is. (shit, she just came over here and massaged me while i'm writing this; minimized this real quick).

    Pair bonding. Yeah, escorting is where it goes to die. A girl can make you fall in love, but it takes alot. You just can't pair bond as easy any more.

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    Re: Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    There aren't that many indicators for proving that humans are a pair-bonding species anyway. Either way, at most you'll have that "bond" for a maximum of 7 years, afterwards it's at best a "friendship" that you can make work if you have established boundaries etc. but then again, why would you? Too much effort, too little reward. I'll be damned if I ever land in /r/deadbedrooms lol

    I like both variety and seeing the same escorts again. The latter I do because once you found an escort that really knows how to please you, it's just a better experience than the ones who put in the effort but kinda only give 50% of their "best" and you notice it.
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    Re: Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    Jag, have you considered that maybe escorting has allowed you to have better pair bonding? Since you are never thirsty, you are never vulnerable to 'settling' you can have higher standards, are not vulnerable to becoming a beta male orbiter or being a useful provider in some woman's 'soft harem?' You are still able to pair bond, but when you do, it will be better because you doing so out of 'want' and not 'need.'

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    Re: Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    Jag

    How did you find this lady. Word of mouth?

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    Re: Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    I do not fall prey to women as easy, because I can always bang someone hotter. So I'm not thirsty. I think the dynamics come together in that, even though I can't easily pair bond with most anyone; if a woman shows a very feminine side and shows she needs me, it's something I can not get from escorts. I will never pair bond with a woman over sex; sex pushes me away (extremely so because of my escorting experience; which is what I meant by ruining pair bonding). If she is demure, and knows how to treat a man, I do - and I think there's a need there thats unmet by escorts (who do it short-term but that longer-term hand/glove fit).

    It's the part of having sex that pushes me away from a woman that troubles me. When I'm with a girl, I just want her gone; I'm not used to her sticking around; which is the opposite of my original and natural sentiment. But you bring up an interesting point that I supposed a woman has to connect with me emotionally for me to want to stick around.

    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post
    Jag, have you considered that maybe escorting has allowed you to have better pair bonding? Since you are never thirsty, you are never vulnerable to 'settling' you can have higher standards, are not vulnerable to becoming a beta male orbiter or being a useful provider in some woman's 'soft harem?' You are still able to pair bond, but when you do, it will be better because you doing so out of 'want' and not 'need.'
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    Re: Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    I have known her for about two years. She worked at a normal massage places that doesn't even give handjobs. But we liked each other right away, not like usual, but just when you look in someone's eyes and there's a spark. I kept telling her to come to my place and one night, after about 6 months of me keeping at her, she did. Before that, we were making out in the massage room- and she didn't bill me for it or anything. So she comes over every once in a while and I do pay her. Because she's not a sex worker (and yes I know some massage girls are, but I have done this long enough to know that she is not), she is much more natural. Truth be told, shes not even that good at sex. But she is into me; does stuff like grab my arm and looks admiringly up at me....I'm babbling here but she is very traditional and it makes it all the more 'special' when we're together.

    I was feeling nothing but an emotional high when we hung out; after we had sex, I just had this natural inclination to push her away and never see her again (it's a strong feeling; like I just don't want to see this person again; it's the mind's defense from all the past escort experiences). It's kind of fucked up; but it's now hard-wired. The day after though, I feel a bit different (but not that much). It's just this click-whirr program I have now after me/her leaving after being with like 200 escorts; accepting and endorsing their leaving.

    Thing is- the reason women are damaged (for those who don't believe in pair bonding read this - http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...udy-finds.html), is as you can see from this study, # partners does impact a woman's relationship satisfaction. Men less so. But I think that's because most men do not have that many partners, whereas women have 50, 100 partners; all sleeping with the same men. Those men never commit either, but the rest of us have way fewer partners than single women- so by and large, we don't have the same psych damage. But with escorts, you do get up into those numbers.

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    Jag

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    Re: Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    Jagr brings up a valid point; Once you play the PRO game it will expand your view. Strips some of the narratives greater western society conditions the population when it comes to male > female value exchange.

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    Re: Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    A good long term friend of mine went through two marriages before finally deciding that he'd rather rent than buy. He specialized in going to sex massage parlors which featured Asian girls. Over time he got to know some of the women very well and dated them. That led him to juggling 2-3 of the girls on a regular basis. The girls would change over time. He never allowed himself to get too attached. His only regret was waiting so long to abandon the traditional marriage lifestyle for the one he adopted.

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    Re: Escort Report - Fun Stuff, Serious Stuff

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUj8NlnHPbA

    Watch this video....it is wisdom from the 1970s...and it is very applicable to this situation

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNzPEcDOVeI
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