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    How to deal with Crying Women

    Hi guys. Been off the forum for a while now. Enjoying life and lurking around here every now and then. Got an awesome job, got in great shape now and things are looking up.

    How have you guys been?

    Well let's get to the meat of the problem. How do you guys deal with women who start crying as a way to deflect your attention from the problem to garner affection or a free pass?
    I'm not saying in terms of just relationship with your lady friends or wives. I'm talking about anyone. Mothers or any sisters?

    My family tends to get along well, so I do favors for my mom and my sisters not in a way that sabotages my work but it benefits everyone kinda thing.

    Recently, my luck with girls has been sky high. I've plated close to a dozen girls in a year or so. Could get better, but it's way better than my college days. I've even hit 13% body fat and got my life in order.

    Normally, I'm able to hold my ground against any argument from women, but this time I told one of my plates that she should give up looking for good guys or a nice family if she thinks she can ride the CC all her years. Things got worse when I told her that I'd never ever marry her or father her child or even show up to help her if she got sick. She started crying and pretty much ran out of my apartment lol. I've dealt with it before but it's just a plate lost, assuming it's the worst. Big deal, shrug?

    One day I came home from work all pissed and told my sister that I wouldn't give her a ride to the school and she started crying. First time she's done that lol. Maybe it was the look on my face or my voice I don't know. I pretty much got my keys in less than a minute and dropped her to college which is an hours drive.

    Now my sister is a nice person and she's been very pleasant to me all her life, however, I think that my response to her crying gave her knowledge that she could use it against me. How do you guys deal with something like this. I guess, I lost a gym session over me driving my sister to school which isn't a big deal at all, but in the future my instinct tells me that more of this is to come.

    I've told my parents that I'm not getting grandchildren, so there's that too. That pressure is about to come in.

    Thoughts??

    Thanks
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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    This one is or should be fairly easy.

    If if it is a twat to whom you have no commitment (not your mother, grandmother, sibling, etc.) you tell her to fuck off and walk away. Have enough dignity and self-respect to not voluntarily subject yourself to their shit tests and thinly veiled attempts at emotional manipulation. The sad thing is, having done so, she will respect you more for treating her like the pond scum she is. The parasite then knows its place in the hierarchy and perceives your higher value. Any plate is a temporary and disposable cum receptacle. Nothing more.

    If it is someone you cannot walk away from, such as a mother or sister, continue to resort to logic in every retort. Simply state the facts and stick to your guns. Politely say you cannot have a reasonable conversation while she is being so emotional and excuse yourself from her presence. Let her know you're willing to have a discussion, but only when she approaches the scenario like a rational adult.

    End of story.

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    If you want no/lo tears try not to whore shame as much. Unless there is such a thing as whore shaming make up blow jobs .

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    What they said.

    Goldey, it's great to see you back and posting, too!
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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    Meh, seen the wimmenz cry over such retarded stuff, on top of knowing that it's a deliberate manipulation tool so it wouldn't work on me. I'd probably find it funny or annoying but it certainly wouldn't compel me to do anything in their favor. Scientist summed it up pretty nicely.

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    A woman's tears are salty little lies. Women have bigger tear glands than men, they can cry more or less at will. It simply doesn't mean the same thing as it would mean if you were crying. Female crying is simply communication, not an indication that something serious is going on.

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    You ignore a child when it cries. You do the same with a woman that cries in reaction to something.

    What happens when the cries of a child are ignored? The child's universe is forced to adjust on its own and the child is forced to accept or resolve the conflict on their own. That is why if two kids fight and the crying commences if given enough time they will wear each other out and the conflict will be resolved.

    As others have said crying is a way of communicating that the person can't resolve the situation on their own.

    When you have to step in is when there is a conflict and there is no crying involved due to sheer anger. That is when things can become dangerous for children and you must step in as an adult. Likewise, if a woman shows intense anger you have to step in to thwart that anger immediately or you must get out of the way.

    I prefer to not get myself involved with adult men and women that have anger issues as it is a dead end all the time.
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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    It's a form of manipulation. I just ignore them and vacate myself from the vicinity as soon as possible. When she realises it has no effect on you she will give up on that one and start with another manipulation tool like withholding sex.
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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    This one is easy.. I always look em in the eye with that "what the fuck do you think your are trying to pull look" then use that line from girlwriteswhat and tell them to put on their big girl panties LOL, you will be amazed at how quickly women pick up that tears won't work on you and so it all stops.
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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    Quote Originally Posted by ouchmuch View Post
    This one is easy.. I always look em in the eye with that "what the fuck do you think your are trying to pull look" then use that line from girlwriteswhat and tell them to put on their big girl panties LOL, you will be amazed at how quickly women pick up that tears won't work on you and so it all stops.
    Ignoring the emotional frame a woman is trying to guilt you in and recognizing the con job it is tends to have them respect you more as a man. Something so simple that many of us have struggled with for countless years, but the answer has always been in your hearts and minds as men.

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    Quote Originally Posted by goldey View Post
    One day I came home from work all pissed and told my sister that I wouldn't give her a ride to the school and she started crying. First time she's done that lol. Maybe it was the look on my face or my voice I don't know. I pretty much got my keys in less than a minute and dropped her to college which is an hours drive.

    Now my sister is a nice person and she's been very pleasant to me all her life, however, I think that my response to her crying gave her knowledge that she could use it against me. How do you guys deal with something like this. I guess, I lost a gym session over me driving my sister to school which isn't a big deal at all, but in the future my instinct tells me that more of this is to come.

    Thoughts??

    Thanks
    What's the context with your sister here? Do you regularly drive her the one hour to school but you ambushed her on this one day with no ride and she has no backup plan, and she thought her classwork plans were trashed so she cried for her trashed plans? Are you close to her such that you've never done that before? Does her very pleasant past history with you include manipulating you?

    She is your sister. If you and your sister are always nice to each other, this may be just one of those things. Heck, in your ambush you may have even confused her to think it was her you were mad at.
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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    I would not use the Airplane method that even the nun and the Hare Krishna got in line to use ...unless you want 3 hots and cot in a building where the most exciting part of the day is where you hear "chow" and "don't drop the soap"... https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=i0GW0Vnr9Yc

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    Well, I have a 15 year old girl working with me over the summer. One day I'm off work and she gets a call from home that her dog has died. I'm not going to say a 15y old shouldn't cry for losing her pet. But she did nothing but cry for the remaining 4 hours of her work day. And my co-workers just stood around ignoring it, not knowing what to do with her. Next day I come to work, she shows up still crying. After 40 minutes of crying and not doing any work I took her outside. I hugged her, tried to calm her down but I did end with this: "I can understand if you want to go home and you won't get in trouble for it. But if you stay, I expect you to work." 10 minutes later she came in and started working. By the end of the day, she's smiling and cracking jokes like usual. (Usually at my expense but I actually enjoy snarking comments back and forth all day )

    I could make some comment here about her but I'm more annoyed with my co-workers behavior. These are all 40y old guys with wives and kids and they can't deal with a crying little girl?

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    It is not that they don't know what to do, but is it worth the risk in today's world?

    As men we know what the right thing to do. But we also have to weigh the risk these days as well, because men are targeted as the enemy by nearly everyone. But in your example you are correct we as men should not be paralyzed by fear to do what is right.

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    This isn't some uptight college or office environment where you have to be afraid to say one wrong word. Just us 3 electricians and 2 welders in a workshop. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. There are still some workplaces left where it is expected of you to grow a thick skin. Doesn't matter if you are a man or woman. Hell, I even kissed her on her forehead when I hugged her. Just felt like doing it at the time. Worst case my coworkers would have seen and laugh at me all day for being a softie.

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    You handled it like a boss, VTOL. A win/win for everyone. Made everyone's day easier too. You saw the big picture. Bravo bravo!

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    Re: How to deal with Crying Women

    Quote Originally Posted by VTOLfreak View Post
    This isn't some uptight college or office environment where you have to be afraid to say one wrong word. Just us 3 electricians and 2 welders in a workshop. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. There are still some workplaces left where it is expected of you to grow a thick skin. Doesn't matter if you are a man or woman. Hell, I even kissed her on her forehead when I hugged her. Just felt like doing it at the time. Worst case my coworkers would have seen and laugh at me all day for being a softie.
    Most of the hysteria applies in college campuses or work enviornments overrun with females. I agree though in other areas and work environments we as men should not fear to be men.


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