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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    Women have changed due to social media and it is so obvious that a marriage has to be battle tested daily on facebook by snooping female friends and family members. Crazy times we live in.
    "crazy" isn't the word....
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    if there was a word, a human would find it unpronounceable... (would require phonetics the human vocal chords weren't designed for....)
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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Having this problem at my workplace, two new female showing strong interest in me and asking questions like 'by the way, do you live locally?'.
    They are overseas workers and looking to hook up and get married for a work visa, pretty obvious and they are very aggressive in pursuing me.

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    Having this problem at my workplace, two new female showing strong interest in me and asking questions like 'by the way, do you live locally?'.
    They are overseas workers and looking to hook up and get married for a work visa, pretty obvious and they are very aggressive in pursuing me.
    Just be careful. Some women do this because you're the mysterious one in the new work place. They want information that they can 'reveal' you to the other female co-workers. Basically, to talk shit behind your back. Secretly, what they want you to do is slip out the fact that you still live with your parents or have some other kind of information they can use.

    I remember working in security and a colleague came up to me asking me all sorts of questions. At the time I was niave, but she was just information surfing. These types have a bit of sociopathic tendencies too.

    They look at social interactions as a means to gain popularity. If you're a threat to her status, she'll throw you under a bus at every opportunity. If you're a Chad, even though you're a threat she'll still try and fuck you, then get upset about it later.

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Eiji View Post
    I think my dad is in some kind of willful denial about how dating is not the same as it was during his "go-around"....
    put simply.. the "arena" might not have changed much.. but I got some additional "rules" to contend with... my dad: he never had to deal with "girl power", "men only want one thing", or "all sex is rape'... (put simply.. by the time he married my mother, feminism as we know it was just starting to come out of the underground...)
    I think you can start to see the Red Flags(tm), quiaff???
    My dad is a classic beta. My uncle has game but he fits your description above. The unsolicited advice I get from him about dating probably worked in the 60s and 70s, but not anymore. I've gotten so used to women making everything a shit test that it gives me a headache to even think about. And that's not even taking modern dangers into account, when it's 100% accepted for any given aspect of society to be viciously anti-male.
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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by ShogunRonin View Post
    Just be careful. Some women do this because you're the mysterious one in the new work place. They want information that they can 'reveal' you to the other female co-workers. Basically, to talk shit behind your back. Secretly, what they want you to do is slip out the fact that you still live with your parents or have some other kind of information they can use.

    I remember working in security and a colleague came up to me asking me all sorts of questions. At the time I was niave, but she was just information surfing. These types have a bit of sociopathic tendencies too.

    They look at social interactions as a means to gain popularity. If you're a threat to her status, she'll throw you under a bus at every opportunity. If you're a Chad, even though you're a threat she'll still try and fuck you, then get upset about it later.
    It's good to be wary of men also. I've worked with guys who gossip just as much as typical basic bitches. Ever find yourself talking to some guy and you notice that 90% of what he's doing is complaining? Red flag. Doesn't matter how 'justified' he is in doing it, just avoid that negative energy as much as you can. Guys who do nothing but complain will throw you under the bus for random pussy every time. They go hand in hand. Guys who complain all the time always need someone to complain about. They'll just pick the guy with the lowest status first, but that'll get boring after a while.

    Most guys who do this don't have a status whoring manipulative agenda like when women do it, it's just part of their personalities. But still, just avoid it. When it comes to male friends, only deal with guys who treat you as an equal. Unless it's clearly a respectful mentor relationship, in which case they're teaching you. But random Joe Schmoes? If your gut tells you they're just trying to get something out of you, or use you to absorb their venting/gossip/bullshit, then it's probably true.
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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nuggets View Post
    My dad is a classic beta. My uncle has game but he fits your description above. The unsolicited advice I get from him about dating probably worked in the 60s and 70s, but not anymore. I've gotten so used to women making everything a shit test that it gives me a headache to even think about. And that's not even taking modern dangers into account, when it's 100% accepted for any given aspect of society to be viciously anti-male.
    Nuggets....I need some clarification please. Are we supposed to pass 'shit tests'....or fail them. I've always had a problem working that one out?!?!?

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    A woman at work asked me 'Are you planning to go somewhere this weekend?' to which I replied..
    'Why, do I have to go somewhere on the weekend?'

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Don Keyknob View Post
    Nuggets....I need some clarification please. Are we supposed to pass 'shit tests'....or fail them. I've always had a problem working that one out?!?!?
    Well PUAs will say you should pass them. As in, she says something that would naturally provoke a defensive reaction, but you're supposed to act like you're so cool that you brush it off in some witty/cocky way.

    IMO it's a waste of time to even think about convos with women in terms of shit tests now a days. If she's already prepared to jump on your dick then it doesn't really matter. If it feels work just trying to keep her engaged then it's a waste of time. If she's really attracted, she'll do all the work while you sit back barely reacting like a chilled out bro. I'm not a PUA by the way, it's just what I've seen.

    Being able to walk away at any moment is way more useful than trying to obsess over shit tests. When it comes down to it, women are not very interesting. The sexual subtext just makes them seem interesting.
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    Are we supposed to pass 'shit tests'....or fail them.
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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nuggets View Post
    If it feels work just trying to keep her engaged then it's a waste of time.
    Totally, Tap dancing while she's displaying no interest just makes you look like a goon.

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nuggets View Post
    Well PUAs will say you should pass them. As in, she says something that would naturally provoke a defensive reaction, but you're supposed to act like you're so cool that you brush it off in some witty/cocky way.

    Ah...I get it now. Thanks. Well I seem to 'fail them' as a matter of course anyway.

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Well PUAs will say you should pass them. As in, she says something that would naturally provoke a defensive reaction, but you're supposed to act like you're so cool that you brush it off in some witty/cocky way.

    IMO it's a waste of time to even think about convos with women in terms of shit tests now a days. If she's already prepared to jump on your dick then it doesn't really matter. If it feels work just trying to keep her engaged then it's a waste of time. If she's really attracted, she'll do all the work while you sit back barely reacting like a chilled out bro. I'm not a PUA by the way, it's just what I've seen.
    PUA's will make you think that passing a shit test will make you a 'stronger' man and more 'attractive' to a cunt.
    But nothing could be further from the truth, in my experience the more I ignore a cunt, the more she runs after me.

    Keep interactions with cunts to a minimum, and do not engage her on her terms. You engage on your terms if you engage at all. She is a cunt, and is beneath you, she is untrustworthy scum, you look down at her, you do not treat her as your equal, even though many woman now a days are smart, intelligent and have surpassed men in many respects, because of gynocracy.

    Regardless, you do not let a cunt 'move' you (emotionally) out of your comfort zone, if she tries to shit test, you give a her stern look and change the topic or walk away.

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    A woman at work asked me 'Are you planning to go somewhere this weekend?' to which I replied..
    'Why, do I have to go somewhere on the weekend?'
    well done, Program... that's what I'd do... use their own ideology against them....
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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Purposefully failing shit tests that should be layups are the most fun! It not only messes with the hamster brains but it makes the white knight cucks try hard to pass the shit tests. Good way to double your entertainment with a 2 for 1 deal.

    I agree with everyone else that a shit test pass is important only for men in committed relationships to ensure the relationship that doesn't go nuclear due to female boredom. But if you fail or pass a fitness test aka shit test it doesn't make a difference. This is because a random woman in heat is going to want sex from that man no matter what.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    PUA's will make you think that passing a shit test will make you a 'stronger' man and more 'attractive' to a cunt.
    But nothing could be further from the truth, in my experience the more I ignore a cunt, the more she runs after me.

    Keep interactions with cunts to a minimum, and do not engage her on her terms. You engage on your terms if you engage at all. She is a cunt, and is beneath you, she is untrustworthy scum, you look down at her, you do not treat her as your equal, even though many woman now a days are smart, intelligent and have surpassed men in many respects, because of gynocracy.

    Regardless, you do not let a cunt 'move' you (emotionally) out of your comfort zone, if she tries to shit test, you give a her stern look and change the topic or walk away.
    Completely agree.

    Just ignore all social tests. Turn your head when she gives one and do something else/talk to someone else.

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cro-Magnon View Post
    Totally, Tap dancing while she's displaying no interest just makes you look like a goon.
    We as men have been there at some point in our life. I think that is how we learn to eventually give up the goon act, because we soon realize appeasing others but betraying ourselves is not a good way to live life!

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    We as men have been there at some point in our life. I think that is how we learn to eventually give up the goon act, because we soon realize appeasing others but betraying ourselves is not a good way to live life!
    I remember how terrible it used to feel when I did that. When I put so much stock in some random woman's approval that she had all the power to make me feel worthless on a deep existential level. Simply due to my own choice.
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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by ShogunRonin View Post
    In the last 10 yrs I have noticed women pre-dominantely going for good looking men over 'alphas'. I know a guy who runs nightclub security for a huge nightclub. He is 6 foot 6 and isn't afraid of anyone. I would call him an alpha based on a strong caveman persona. He gets zero female attention though because he isn't blessed in the looks department. I think women are being conditioned to reject alphas. It goes with the new world order agenda or 'operation the west into Japan'

    Have you lost weight recently or started smiling more? Women approach good looking smiling men or initiate a conversation when you appear happy. Recently, the only initiations I have had are

    1. A girl threw a drink at a couple and then tried to blame me for it. You could consider that a social test to see what I was like under pressure. I just ignored it as I knew what she was doing and anyone who does that isn't worth meeting.

    I would like to see a social experiment where people do speed dating blind folded. Then without telling them 1 month later arrange for them to meet the same people in different orders without blind folded. I would like to see if looks played a part. I think this kind of experiment would really open peoples eyes to the fake alpha theory and how much women only consider looks. Think about it, why would a woman need to settle for average when she can just sign up to a dating site and get mr 8-9? The game has certainly changed for below average women and average guys.

    For me, this was the nail in the coffin to fully abandoning the female species. The poisonus spreading of Feminism has just made women that much tougher skinned that they are not worth knowing unless you're paying to fuck.
    I was at a nightclub once when a girl approached me and said her friend liked me. Of course, I stood up like a 'gentleman' and put my phone away to give the girl my attention. The conversation went nowhere, and so I went off to have my own fun.

    Dancing by my own, two different girls approached to dance with me, one of them was with another guy.

    One can only be an alpha if one actually interacts in a situation where that applies. and in that situation, an alpha is a mindset rather than physicality. Having looks help, but if you can't assert yourself, looks won't help.

    Your friend may have been a 6'6 man amongst men, but perhaps he is on the clock instead of actively socializing, which is why girls don't give him attention.

    In any case, I don't think women are being conditioned to reject alphas, their instincts seem too strong for that. However, alphas are more than just the physicality, I think. Its also their mindset, the 'honey badger' mentality that marks them out. And honey badger has no fucks to give.

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    Re: Are women starting to approach?

    Honestly I don't even know what to think anymore. There's no consistency or pattern in my own experiences with women, and I'm tired of trying to find one.

    Women flirted with me when I looked worse and had no social skills or game. Maybe because that was in high school? As soon as I got into college, occasional women explicitly indicated sexual interest in me, then rejected me right before sex, or flaked after we set up a date. Now, as I approach my 30's, I'm invisible. See why my mind is all over the place?

    I got a haircut recently and 3 or 4 straight men complimented me on it. Of course I wasn't expecting women to say anything, it was just an odd experience. I would never think to mention a man's haircut.
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