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    Maintaining frame in a blue pilled world.

    Growing up this used to be my Achilles heel. I never had much luck with women so I would tend to get tense, anxious and lonely whenever I see couples around my vicinity. Valentine's Days were the worst days for it highlights couples and highlights single people even more. I have managed to truly get over that and feel indifferent about it all and it actually feels amazing when you don't really give a fuck around the people near you.

    To me it's just nothing, I can walk down the street in confidence, even amongst several couple and feel sure about myself because hey, how long are those unions they're in gonna last anyway? Even though it doesn't annoy me anymore, I still find it cheesy when couples refer to each other with their cheesy nicknames and overdone romantics caught up in the bliss of the illusion of "love". I can't help but to slightly laugh about it because that won't be me. I've never been nurtured with romance so I wouldn't reciprocate with a woman with those feelings even if she had strong feelings for me. When I went to lunch at Shake Shack on the 14th of February, half of the place filled with couples, all I did was focus on my food. One of the waitresses showed up, wished me a happy Valentine's Day and engaged in some small talk with me. The old me would've been over the moon of having a chick come up and talk to me but this time I didn't care too much. In my mind I was like "Don't you have a job to do? Lemme eat in peace."

    My indifference has become more attractive to women, as opposed to acting too eager and thirsty. Women are so backasswards, giving attention to those that barely give them any. After learning the concept of the red pill and getting some of my frustrations out of the way, the best course in life is to always be comfortable with yourself while at the same time, maintaining the best for yourself, not for anyone else but for your own. I used to be too anxious about appeasing to others, I spent little time respecting myself. That's how I manage to maintain my frame. Put yourself first and only give your energy to those who are willing to give the same to you.

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    Re: Maintaining frame in a blue pilled world.

    Quote Originally Posted by JaydenJazz View Post
    Growing up this used to be my Achilles heel. I never had much luck with women so I would tend to get tense, anxious and lonely whenever I see couples around my vicinity. Valentine's Days were the worst days for it highlights couples and highlights single people even more. I have managed to truly get over that and feel indifferent about it all and it actually feels amazing when you don't really give a fuck around the people near you.

    To me it's just nothing, I can walk down the street in confidence, even amongst several couple and feel sure about myself because hey, how long are those unions they're in gonna last anyway? Even though it doesn't annoy me anymore, I still find it cheesy when couples refer to each other with their cheesy nicknames and overdone romantics caught up in the bliss of the illusion of "love". I can't help but to slightly laugh about it because that won't be me. I've never been nurtured with romance so I wouldn't reciprocate with a woman with those feelings even if she had strong feelings for me. When I went to lunch at Shake Shack on the 14th of February, half of the place filled with couples, all I did was focus on my food. One of the waitresses showed up, wished me a happy Valentine's Day and engaged in some small talk with me. The old me would've been over the moon of having a chick come up and talk to me but this time I didn't care too much. In my mind I was like "Don't you have a job to do? Lemme eat in peace."

    My indifference has become more attractive to women, as opposed to acting too eager and thirsty. Women are so backasswards, giving attention to those that barely give them any. After learning the concept of the red pill and getting some of my frustrations out of the way, the best course in life is to always be comfortable with yourself while at the same time, maintaining the best for yourself, not for anyone else but for your own. I used to be too anxious about appeasing to others, I spent little time respecting myself. That's how I manage to maintain my frame. Put yourself first and only give your energy to those who are willing to give the same to you.

    Ahhhh yes Grasshopper, you have learned your MGTOW lessons well. You are ready to walk the earth in peace and prosper.


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    Re: Maintaining frame in a blue pilled world.

    One thing I have found over the years on MGTOW path is the blue pill indoctrination and system actively seeks to create a void in men. The sadder reality is the more you adopt the blue pill thinking and feminine ideology the greater the void becomes.

    For a man - his greatest weapon is his attention. You learn to control it and the next step in life is cherishing and loving solitude.

    I have grown a lot as a man by simply having the quiet and peace away from women, away from blue pilled men, and finally facing the slow and at times painful process to accept myself in a reality that will always work to subvert my masculinity at whims of a lesser beings.

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    Re: Maintaining frame in a blue pilled world.

    I remember walking into a Denny's once and the waitress looked at me and said, "Happy Valentine's Day." Then she added, "It's probably just another day to you, isn't it?"

    It made me sad, Jayden, for all the same reasons you described. At that time the entire world was blue pilled and the manginas and simps used to deride computers as useless and expensive toys only. If it happened to me today I would counter with the statement,"Everyday is a great day for me. I save so much money breaking up with my girlfriends right before Valentine's Day, Christmas, and their birthdays. I'm going to Cabo next week. I'll show you the pictures when I get back." Then...I would.
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti


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