I usually dwell in ghostly realms but the recent holiday season has allowed me to make some observations suited to this subforum. Happy new year to all.
Last night I went to two separate new year's eve parties that were quite close to each other. Most people I knew but some were new. A few caught my eye. In the first, smaller event, there was the standard hot chick. Easily HB8 with a lithe little body in a small black dress. A nice sight. Then she opened her mouth. A loud, boisterous, manly voice came out. Her laughter was banal, body language was neutral bordering on dominant. This was a hardcore high maintenance ballbuster who had likely taken 500 miles of drug dealer cock in the past year alone. I could just feel what little attraction I had disappear in a second. Yet this is exactly the kind of woman TRP bros say we should chase. Absolutely insane. After a while I couldn't wait to get out of there.
Enter the second party. A distant acquaintance had brought his girlfriend along. She had the girl next door look, maybe HB6 but with big kind eyes. I didn't pay much attention at first but noticed she was throwing IOIs while sitting right next to the hipster boyfriend. At some point the boyfriend left and I started talking to her as part of new year's congratulations. And she was just so god damn feminine. Her whole being was the essence of fragility and submission but at the same time, openness. Her movements were cautious but playful. Her voice was a song of angels. My reptile brain took over and I got a raging hardon just from talking to her. You could smell the pheromones flying in the air. She was clearly turned on as well, pressed against me and kept minute-long eye contact. Then her BF came back and they had to leave.
When I had recovered, it got me thinking. There was no effort, game, DHV, peacocking, negging or really any conscious thought involved. All it took was a masculine (if I do say so myself) man and a feminine woman for small talk to turn into foreplay. I've rarely if ever felt so mutually attracted to someone in my life. The reason for that is that the majority of today's western women are like the first example: stuck up high maintenance bitches that you have to put a shit ton of effort in to get to be the 501. mile that year. It's all in the demeanor. Personally for me, even a tiny amount of attitude instantly destroys attraction. The truly feminine minority are invisible and usually in LTRs with random manginas they met in middle school. So I ghost.