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    Donít online date

    How much more evidence do you need to gather before you realize that the women on dating services are doing something other than looking for a man. What sort of behavior would you expect from women who were using the service to actually find a man? They would have pictures taken specifically to show them in the best possible light (cheap and easy to do in most places). They would write a well thought out, articulate profile, mind their P’s and Q’s, and try to both present themselves and what they want in such a way that they find someone who is a good match. They would, ummmm, actually look at men’s profiles and dm men they were interested in. And they would spend a significant amount of time chatting , leaving it open only during times they have specifically put aside for this purpose. They would be polite, and interested in getting to know people to see if they were a good match and if it would be fruitful to meet with them in person.

    Now, do women on the dating apps do ANY of those things? Absolutely not. They do the opposite…..crappy pic of them and their ex with his head rubbed/cut out (sometimes, obviously drunk), profile looks like it was written by a 3rd grader who barely speaks English, with red flags all over the place, tons of rude, bitter, negative statements, sometimes openly stating they hate men or intend to exploit you, reveal little to nothing about what they are like as a person (sometimes because there is nothing there or something is there that nobody wants), rarely looks at men’s profiles and NEVER responds to them no matter how good looking, alpha-male, rich, great personality, sexy, whatever, the man is, actively rude or time wasting , pretends to bond with you and then, later, pretends has no idea who you are or what you agreed to do together earlier.

    What this means, quite simply, is they aren’t looking for a man (so, it’s a waste of time to use this method to find a woman). At best, they are looking to have their egos stroked by saying no to all the men who seem to be interested in them and then will have an anonymous sexual encounter with some random loser, when they have been too long without love, sex or intimacy. At worst, these psychos are looking to actively harm someone, any way they can, as long as it is safe for them.

    What’s going on with the online dating thing is women are wasting time and men are dming hundreds of women, trolling for anonymous encounters with sluts.


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    Re: Donít online date

    I regard dating sites as a criminal waste of markup language...
    Besides, aren't two thirds of the female profiles phony anyway????

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    Re: Donít online date

    I agree, Tinder and all other online dating sites are pure garbage

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    The problem with online dating is akin to bidding for something you didn't know you wanted or needed in first place. Let me elaborate.

    Man gets horny. Man thinks online dating = easy access to pussy. Man doesn't realize countless other thirsty bros are doing the same. Man realizes economic principles of supply & demand. Man subconsciously internalizes the 'higher value of pussy than his being' and goes on to impress women. That wastes his time and energy. His mental state is abysmal as he is relegated to some tool an overweight, single mom can exploit. Even then he has to meet her standards.

    Instead - learning to deal with sex drive other than jerking off to pixels on screen everytime there is an itch - the said man needs to better himself by learning, lifting, introspecting and reflecting. It is a slow and arduous process but everything worth being/having is. And a woman is never one of them.

    Let them be. Online dating is extremely toxic. I have experienced the effects enough to stay clear off of them for once and for all.

    Cheers mate.

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    Re: Donít online date

    They're just looking for a pet man willing to wear a collar and leash.
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    It's much worse than that...

    A warning from a former "manager of escorts" as to the very old honeytrap scheme now extended to all forms of OLD.


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    Re: Donít online date

    Quote Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin View Post
    It's much worse than that...

    A warning from a former "manager of escorts" as to the very old honeytrap scheme now extended to all forms of OLD.

    I'm in the USA and the video shows up saying "Video is unavailable". It got removed in the few short hours since you posted it, it seems.

    Does this video show up under a different URL that I might try?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    I'm in the USA and the video shows up saying "Video is unavailable". It got removed in the few short hours since you posted it, it seems.

    Does this video show up under a different URL that I might try?
    No idea. I went to double-check it afterward and saw that it was deleted.

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    Re: Donít online date

    Quote Originally Posted by Eiji View Post
    I regard dating sites as a criminal waste of markup language...
    Besides, aren't two thirds of the female profiles phony anyway????
    I wrecked havoc with my series of fake female profiles. I was a Chad hunter.
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    Re: Donít online date

    CPig's posts on this are epic.


    I took a long walk for coffee this morning and deleted my profiles. I was instantly happier.

    You see, I moved to a new city a little while ago and fired up my profiles in that city a few weeks before and after arriving. Thinking it'd be nice to get a few dates going, maybe find out more about the place and things I should see.

    On my walk, I got to thinking a lot about OLD, breaking it down non emotionally. Its really is evolving and not for the better, its getting worse and worse as women have become more experienced with it. So here's how it goes.

    I have to do all the work (do all the contacting), try and make conversation, (and many of these women put no effort in or just use one sentence answers that are really hard to work with or empty profiles). Things may go well for a while and then bam some other guy(s) get their attention or maybe I get a date.

    Which means, then spend some time and $ on a date, and if I'm really lucky I get to share my resources with someone, who then (if I ever enter into a contract with), can exercise state sponsored theft of my property and wealth, in exchange for some, occasional access to a warm wet hole.
    I reject most women after the first or second date, so then I have to deal with that.

    Plus during this process I get to introduce a ton of rejection into my daily life. Great recipe for happiness.

    No thanks. (Where have all the good men gone??? Right?)


    Now you might be thinking, well our pal Tired is probably a neck bearded incel - nope. I'm in shape, muscular, make good $, educated, decent looking, life together, probably just like you.


    OLD is a complete waste of time. You are set up to fail. You can get better rewards from all kinds of activity, reading, working out, volunteering, learning, hiking, petting a dog, mediating and 1000 other things.


    Don't online date.

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    Re: Donít online date

    I can relate to each post. As I mentioned in my introduction, I met my first girlfriend online and it was a very unconventional (although largely satisfying) relationship (she being bisexual, not something you can really just put out there when first meeting someone and not in the 90s when I met her). Things just got weirder and worser from there! Post facebook (around 2008 yeah?) and general social media explosion it's just been attention whore-central.

    I've deleted all dating apps, have purged them from my memory and focus on working out, eating well, sleeping earlier (as close to midnight as I can) and finding some venues once or twice a month to put myself in a situation where I can meet women IRL. I'm not desperate and have been a ghost in the previous year but am seeing what's possible with a red pill mindset and being self-prioritized.

    When I was even last year active on a few dating sites/apps, I noticed my attention span becoming more like a modern teenager swiping on profiles, checking email / PMs / etc. It was ridiculous and that was part of what made me drop it - I hated what I was becoming.

    My mental health is WORLDS better since ditching online dating / social media / fakebook / etc and my physical health is better, too. I also find myself being more naturally conversational (and am 'low-fap' vs. no-fap) so I feel a comfortable energy when I'm in social situations. I have no problem being within myself but if/when the mood is right I'll engage in one-on-one or group dynamics.
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