I'm a single-father who was able to keep just about everything in the divorce.
Be advised, gentlemen, don't try this at home. My ex-wife was disorganized and completely incapable of long-term planning and strategy, and I was able to use this to my advantage. You may not be in such a fortunate position when it comes time for your divorce, but that's not to say my stories won't be helpful for you.
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